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    A question for the ladies... did you experience any negative feelings after first time with a male other than your significant partner , feelings like guilt , shame or regret ? . If so , how did you reconcile them so you could happily move on and enjoy the lifestyle ?. I should add .. I don’t mean if the sex wasn’t good ... assuming it was a great experience ..

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    I had no regrets after the first time. I had not had sex with anyone but my husband since being married. It was very exciting being wanted and desired.
    My doubt came the next day when sex in front of my husband was a different experience.
    It ended up the first night was more real.

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    From a husband´s perspective my SO I think she had a lot of emotions after. I think maybe a day or two later even moreso as she was very quiet. After a week we were back to normal. I think so of it came from the fact that it was mutual friend of ours and well by the looks of it she really enjoyed it after some reservations as she let her body go. Maybe embarassed...?

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    My first such experience was as part of an MFM with my BF who later became my husband. I found the whole thing very exciting. If there was a negative thought afterwards, it was immediately so and was about what did he think of it when he actually saw me doing it all and enjoying it so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Manitobacpl View Post
    A question for the ladies... did you experience any negative feelings after first time with a male other than your significant partner? ..

    Quote Originally Posted by Manitobacpl View Post
    ... feelings like guilt , shame or regret ? ..
    It felt like something that I deserved. It was a feeling of empowerment that I was fucking them on my terms. Even more so because they both knew about the other and still wanted me anyway. At my request, they met. They were monogamous with me even though I didn't ask, probably because I gave them both as much sex and love as they could handle. In time we began relationships with other women because I wanted it, both because I am attracted to women and I wanted to be on the other side of nonmonogamy. It also freed me from my stifling religious upbringing.

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