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Quiz questions to see if interested in swinging, hotwifing, etc.?

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Hi,

Any suggestions for a quiz that we can take for fun to determine how interested we are in trying the lifestyle or hotwifing, cuckolding etc...? We have an open communicative relationship but enjoy testing each other in a different way (quizzes)... any good suggestions that are naughty to see how willing we are to try?

 

thx .)

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Hi, Eddiem. I haven't Googled anything yet but I did come across another member's "quiz" that I think would be a good springboard for you and your wife to discuss.

 

1. Does the idea of your partner with someone else make you sick?

 

2. Do you feel emotionally attached to people you have sex with?

 

3. Do you fall in love with anyone who can make you come?

 

4. Do you become possessive or jealous when you see your partner flirting with others?

 

5. Do you feel empty after having no-strings-attached sex?

 

If your answer to any of these is yes, perhaps swinging should remain in your fantasies.

 

As for specifically hotwifing or cuckolding, I'd recommend both of you to talk about how each of you feels about those methods of swinging and do some researching to see if you both are interested in those aspects or not.

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Thanks these are on target. Sadly enough I know the answers (hers) to most. I need to start out with a very soft approach and work our way to the more direct and graphic questions. Puritanical New England upbringing you know. :-)

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I had a thought about this over night.

 

We sometimes play the hot or not, or hottest in the room. Basically you are sitting in a crowded place, restaurant, etc. Basically you start talking about the couples or people around you. We would get some pretty surprising answers, especially with body types and personality types that are obviously not you.

 

It certainly became a favorite of ours for later.

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What about adding who has Voyeuristic or Exhibitionistic desires or both?

 

In our case that's both of us & fits right in with our scene.

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any samples you could share with me eg. hot or not questions? Esp. the body parts etc... need to compare to those we have used. THX

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Thanks. We did... I found out that she is actually aroused by seeing other people have sex (has not done that yet) but also when we had a fun question of: Would you rather see me having sex with another woman or you with another man in front of the other half... she answered...that she would have sex in front of me with another person and I answered... watching her. :-) This really got me thinking that there is that sexual animal in her that has been locked up.

 

She has also thought about Group Sex but quickly went on to answer..."no I would never"...

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I have read some questions somewhere which I saved for ourselves at the start of our journey a few years ago, I think.

Mainly to ask yourself, but you could use it towards each other.

 

1. How do you feel about the concept of romantic love and recreational sex being two different things?

2. Imagine your partner obtaining sexual satisfaction with another person. How would you feel?

3. Are you doing this to please yourself or to please your partner?

4. Can you be totally honest with each other? About everything?

5. Are you ready to accept and honest answer to your question - even if it's not the answer you wanted or expect to hear?

6. What fantasies do you have and how would you like to go about fulfilling them? Can you fulfill them together?

7. Are you completely committed to each other?

8. Can you be ready to 'rescue' your partner or keep your partner's well being and feelings foremost in your thoughts during your party experiences?

9. Can you stop in the middle of a sexual experience if your partner really needs you?

10. Can you honestly tell your partner you love them after you watch them engage in sexual activities with another person?

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We took this quiz awhile ago and while it doesn't specifically deal with swinging (it is about all sexual fantasies), found it very good. Two people take it and it then emails both people about the things that both sides were interested in. While we had already talked about most of these things, the results were still interesting to talk about.

 

Interactive Sex Questionnaire for Couples | Mojo Upgrade

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