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Forum: Swinging vs Cheating

Why swinging and cheating are two totally different things - swingers treasure honestly, cheating thrives on dishonesty.

  1. Wife cheated. What to do and where to go from here.

    by MasterHack2007, 12-24-2015 10:46 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    boyfriend, continued, due, hickey, home, lie, play, time, told, years
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 6,098
    GoldCoCouple
    01-20-2016, 10:59 AM Go to last post

  2. [A] Lies, building trust again, and the Lifestyle

    by NenaPR, 06-21-2015 05:22 PM
    claims, conversations, hurt, lifestyle, numerous, sexting, things, trust, young swingers
    • Replies: 5
    • Views: 2,871
    GoldCoCouple
    06-23-2015, 10:52 AM Go to last post

  3. [A] I found out she was swinging behind my back

    by Island guy, 11-07-2014 08:49 AM
    cheating
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 6,887
    alphaplaycpl
    11-19-2014, 03:04 PM Go to last post

  4. [A] Cheating and rule breaking has destroyed my trust

    by GregandLori, 08-10-2014 09:18 AM
    cheating, relationship issues, rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 9,499
    sunbuckus
    08-14-2014, 06:59 PM Go to last post

  5. [A] I am at a loss over his emotional infidelity

    by FunWife, 05-02-2014 05:31 PM
    cheating, emotional monogamy
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 5,369
    Guy1964
    05-23-2014, 04:47 PM Go to last post

  6. Unhappy Is cheating just as prevalent in the LS as in vanilla life??

    by V&C in NYC, 01-14-2014 05:27 PM
    cheating
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 5,005
    V&C in NYC
    01-18-2014, 02:32 PM Go to last post

  7. Threesome with a Vanilla Friend

    by robinandmarion, 10-01-2013 05:09 PM
    cheating, vanilla swingers
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 6,399
    mauijanedoe
    10-24-2013, 04:22 PM Go to last post

  8. Post [A] What is Cheating When You're a Swinger?

    by incommunicado, 06-29-2002 10:56 AM
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    cheating, deception, dishonesty, morality, swinger terminology
    • Replies: 53
    • Views: 12,615
    Sirramm
    08-28-2013, 11:01 AM Go to last post

  9. Thrown for a Loop by wife's deception

    by xyzabc123, 07-16-2013 10:19 AM
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    1 2
    cheating, relationship issues
    • Replies: 43
    • Views: 6,335
    xyzabc123
    07-30-2013, 01:31 PM Go to last post

  10. I'm having an emotional relationship with the male half of a swinging couple

    by MissB, 07-06-2013 09:41 AM
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    cheating, emotional monogamy, emotions
    • Replies: 33
    • Views: 7,606
    funcoupledayton
    07-25-2013, 10:47 AM Go to last post

  11. Are they swingers??

    by stcharles, 03-25-2012 01:01 PM
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    are they swingers, cheating, co-worker
    • Replies: 37
    • Views: 6,391
    interested-05
    06-19-2012, 05:41 PM Go to last post

  12. Married, cheating men. Ignore this at your peril.

    by SW_PA_Couple, 03-10-2012 05:10 PM
    cheating, married playing single 1 Attachment(s)
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 1,558
    MN Tom
    03-29-2012, 06:34 PM Go to last post

  13. Question Need Advice Please

    by Timeforus, 02-19-2012 06:49 PM
    swinging versus cheating
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 2,119
    Just Passing By
    03-14-2012, 05:14 AM Go to last post

  14. Separated vs divorced

    by funcoupledayton, 02-21-2012 10:07 AM
    separation
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,312
    dayhiker
    02-25-2012, 08:52 AM Go to last post

  15. Unhappy We are Lost

    by needhelp, 12-18-2011 07:18 PM
    cheating, marital difficulties, trust
    • Replies: 4
    • Views: 1,349
    JustAskJulie
    12-19-2011, 03:33 PM Go to last post

  16. Why swingers keep away from people cheating....

    by DigginIt, 11-21-2011 12:07 PM
    cheating, swingers in the news
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 2,722
    StewartP
    11-23-2011, 11:27 AM Go to last post

  17. Single Male Keeping Swinging Involvement from GF

    by shrevecouple, 09-27-2011 08:42 AM
    dating, discretion, dishonesty, false advertising, past experiences
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 2,258
    Miss_Piggy
    11-20-2011, 02:13 PM Go to last post

  18. How do I manage THIS issue?

    by BaronV.S., 10-27-2011 08:07 PM
    cheating
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,138
    Gordo
    10-30-2011, 09:30 PM Go to last post

  19. non-consentual non-monogamy

    by Dont.Stop, 07-28-2011 02:22 PM
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    cheating
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 2,315
    BigNikki
    08-08-2011, 02:18 AM Go to last post

  20. Cheating Wives

    by Navras7, 07-17-2011 04:26 PM
    cheating
    • Replies: 7
    • Views: 1,557
    Chicup
    07-18-2011, 02:53 PM Go to last post

  21. Pretending to cheat?

    by iapr, 04-05-2009 10:18 PM
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    cheating, deception, role playing
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 4,853
    Jake1178
    06-26-2011, 12:16 AM Go to last post

  22. Lied to and wondering if i should bother

    by live4themusic, 05-27-2011 03:27 AM
    bareback, cheating, condoms, dishonesty, honesty, trust
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 8,050
    JustAskJulie
    06-14-2011, 04:01 PM Go to last post

  23. What do you guys think? (Is our single male friend hiding something?)

    by Lyczewski1983, 03-25-2011 09:26 AM
    red flags, single males
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 3,166
    Lyczewski1983
    04-18-2011, 09:07 AM Go to last post

  24. A little help here before I cheat on my girlfriend

    by Nightmare29445, 03-14-2011 01:06 AM
    cheating, conservative, jealousy
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 2,952
    Learning
    04-11-2011, 10:53 AM Go to last post

  25. Singles who wont admit why they cant host

    by MN Tom, 01-20-2011 08:24 AM
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    cheating, deception, single but married
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 4,309
    MN Tom
    02-16-2011, 01:18 PM Go to last post

  26. Are cheaters accepted more easily?

    by nllswing, 12-06-2010 07:11 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    cheaters, open marriage, relationship issues
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 3,384
    DigginIt
    12-21-2010, 08:55 AM Go to last post

  27. Doctors orders.... Cheat on your spouse ?

    by fun4Ds, 09-07-2010 04:49 AM
    cheating
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,117
    intuition897
    10-05-2010, 10:44 PM Go to last post

  28. Curious about negotiated infidelty/swinging

    by Unregistered, 07-23-2010 08:53 AM
    cheating, open relationship
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 2,753
    Trace Ekies
    07-28-2010, 06:52 AM Go to last post

  29. How do we drop this hot potato after expressing interest in meeting again?

    by Ed & Bunny, 06-23-2010 12:40 PM
    cheaters, cheating, saying no
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 2,285
    Ed & Bunny
    07-06-2010, 11:25 AM Go to last post

  30. Unexpected Email from Wife of "single male"

    by PB&J, 05-20-2010 10:37 PM
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    cheaters, cheating
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 3,379
    appliancesex
    06-19-2010, 10:06 AM Go to last post

  31. Is my girlfriend a cheating swinger?

    by jdavisauto, 05-29-2010 11:10 AM
    cheating
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 3,823
    Newpants
    06-06-2010, 08:41 AM Go to last post

  32. Married couple - but not to each other

    by 23568, 04-28-2010 11:08 AM
    cheating, deception, drama, married not to each other
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 3,395
    xxxboxy
    05-12-2010, 06:21 PM Go to last post

  33. Should my SO be seen as a single since I don't play?

    by little firefly, 01-28-2010 08:47 AM
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    1 2 3
    playing solo
    • Replies: 71
    • Views: 5,487
    little firefly
    05-08-2010, 06:38 AM Go to last post

  34. Liars and Cheats

    by red96, 01-24-2010 01:15 PM
    cheaters, dishonesty, divorced
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,761
    The Fuse
    01-26-2010, 10:00 PM Go to last post

  35. Questions I have had, about cheating

    by tattooedudeks, 11-25-2009 12:03 PM
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    selfish, cheating
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 3,564
    lizandtom
    12-13-2009, 09:42 PM Go to last post

  36. Unhappy Please help i am in SEX hell!!!!!!!

    by alexmarysw, 11-02-2009 02:12 AM
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 1,598
    fun4Ds
    11-03-2009, 07:37 AM Go to last post

  37. Cheating: A different POV

    by RaysWays, 05-05-2009 06:49 PM
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    1 2 3 4
    cheating
    • Replies: 85
    • Views: 6,440
    slevin
    06-13-2009, 01:09 AM Go to last post

  38. Why is cheating more acceptable than swinging?

    by Chitowndk4u, 05-18-2009 12:46 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    acceptance, cheating
    • Replies: 39
    • Views: 3,226
    Tia Vampire
    06-08-2009, 09:44 PM Go to last post

  39. What would make it ok to play with a cheater?

    by Speed & Trixie, 05-22-2009 08:07 PM
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    1 2
    cheating, deception, justification, morality 1 Attachment(s)
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 2,246
    JustAskJulie
    06-01-2009, 04:21 PM Go to last post

  40. Does this class as cheating?

    by JandY, 05-25-2009 10:08 AM
    bisexuality, cheating, honesty
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,725
    JustAskJulie
    06-01-2009, 04:08 PM Go to last post

  41. Playing solo "discreetly", should I assume he's cheating?

    by The Fuse, 05-27-2009 12:48 PM
    cheaters, playing solo
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,107
    lizandtom
    05-29-2009, 03:43 PM Go to last post

  42. Unhappy I don't know why my wife is doing these things

    by creyzcouplewv, 04-23-2009 01:11 PM
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    cheating, relationship issues
    • Replies: 35
    • Views: 6,438
    it'sso
    04-29-2009, 12:21 PM Go to last post

  43. As a swinger, How would you react to your partner cheating?

    by NymphoWind, 04-13-2009 03:01 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    cheating, deception, responding to ads
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 5,247
    CXXC
    04-21-2009, 02:56 PM Go to last post

  44. Attached

    by red96, 04-13-2009 12:01 PM
    cheaters
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,139
    LikeMinds321
    04-14-2009, 04:30 PM Go to last post

  45. Ethical lapse?

    by Trace Ekies, 02-15-2009 08:54 AM
    cheating, deception, ethics, morality, single but married, single males
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 2,218
    CXXC
    02-19-2009, 02:48 PM Go to last post

  46. How To "NOT" Get Started?

    by Unregistered, 12-31-2008 07:48 PM
    cheating, you're doing it wrong
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,334
    midnightplayer
    01-07-2009, 08:20 AM Go to last post

  47. Are some "swingers" just married cheaters?

    by newlythree, 06-27-2008 12:30 PM
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    1 2
    cheating, playing solo
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 4,065
    MrkLin
    12-03-2008, 03:27 PM Go to last post

  48. What would you do if you caught your significant other cheating?

    by eurotrash, 10-10-2008 09:25 AM
    4 Pages •
    1 2 3 4
    cheating
    • Replies: 75
    • Views: 5,257
    prettylady
    10-28-2008, 08:02 PM Go to last post

  49. She fell for him. Now What?

    by lizandtom, 09-30-2008 02:56 PM
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    1 2
    cheating, playing solo
    • Replies: 45
    • Views: 6,617
    CallMeLoki
    10-10-2008, 09:27 PM Go to last post

  50. wife prefers cheating

    by casleigh, 09-02-2008 01:19 AM
    cheating, cuckold
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 3,573
    interested-05
    09-12-2008, 03:28 AM Go to last post
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