Oral sex from lover

Hi everyone!

We’re back and hope all of you have a great Thanksgiving holiday.

We recovered from our first swinging experience and even had another one last summer. We did go to marriage counseling which helped greatly.

It wasn’t great due to some communication issues but my wife did manage to have fun with an old boyfriend. The only issues which came from this second experience was around oral sex.

My wife has always been ambivalent at best about receiving oral sex from me. She told me every time it was her and not me or my technique. I even used the suggestions from several of the great members here on SB.Not only did my wife stop me almost every time from going down on her but also told me she let her old boyfriend give her oral and liked it from him. She even partially waxed for him.

My wife hasn’t asked or wanted me to go down on her since meeting her old boyfriend but does get excited when talking about him eating her pussy. What should we do to either get my wife into oral with me or just accept it may not be part of our sexual life for awhile?

Thanks for the advice.

Maybe pay attention to what it is the old boyfriend it doing.

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My wife hasn’t asked or wanted me to go down on her since meeting her old boyfriend but does get excited when talking about him eating her pussy.

I think you need professional help. both of you. Does she enjoy oral, or does she enjoy her boyfriend and would do anything for him but not for you. Until you crack that question, there is not much point in speculating.

Have you given others oral and how did they respond?

After reading this again and your "swinging solo wife" under your handle I realize you may not be in a position of watching what the BF does.

I find it strange that she is telling you how much she enjoys it from him but doesn't want you to even go there.

As with most questions people ask on here about what they need to do to get their spouse to xxxxxxx the question is probably better asked of the spouse than us. If you can't ask it or she can't answer it then perhaps you need more counseling.

I read many of your old threads: nearly divorcing, ED issues, wife’s first inter racial overseas in which a condom broke (someone else had a very similiar story) and long delay in reconnecting. Now she has a lover that is way better at oral than you. Sounds like a nasty case of plagiarism.

Is this the same guy who claimed his wife went to Africa, stayed awhile and then came back and wouldn't have sex with him? If so, I think the OP has a fertile but very weird imagination.

I read many of your old threads: nearly divorcing, ED issues, wife’s first inter racial overseas in which a condom broke (someone else had a very similiar story) and long delay in reconnecting. Now she has a lover that is way better at oral than you. Sounds like a nasty case of plagiarism.

Good catch Jane

Is this the same guy who claimed his wife went to Africa, stayed awhile and then came back and wouldn't have sex with him? If so, I think the OP has a fertile but very weird imagination.

It would appear so.