Bicurious question for guys

Hey.

I'm just trying to find out information about whether this is common or usual.

I went dogging with a mate for the first time a couple of weeks ago and had a good time. We watched a girl blowing a couple of lads and wanked off.

Thought about it for a few days and went back on my own and there was only a few guys there wanking and watching porn on their phones.

I just kind of did the same.

A lad came up and asked if I wanted to wank. I didn't think about what he meant and said yes.

I've wanked with mates before obviously but never made contact with a guy.

He grabbed my dick and wanked me off and I grabbed his and returned the favour.

It was really good id I'm honest. I thought about what it would be like to touch another guys dick before (hasn't every guy?) and it was better than I expected.

He did a good job wanking me off too.

Shot a couple of big loads and that was it.

I think I want to do that again.

I'm just wondering if this is common or normal in the swinging/dogging scene.

He was married, he had a wedding ring on.

I'm single so I don't need to worry about cheating or anything like that.

Any other guys experienced that? Is it something you do?

Thanks for any advice.

I think there are a lot of guys interested in getting off in these sorts of situations. They may be more into the anon thrill than the guy guy contact, but may also be bi. Maybe they are there on the side, maybe their wife knows (mine would).

I think there are a lot of guys interested in getting off in these sorts of situations. They may be more into the anon thrill than the guy guy contact, but may also be bi. Maybe they are there on the side, maybe their wife knows (mine would).

Thanks for the help.

I never really thought of myself as bi. Not that it would bother me either way if I suddenly discovered that about myself.

When I was wanking with mates before it was always just lads being lads and watching porn, rubbing one out.

Have to admit I've been thinking about it a lot since and I'm into it.

Only found a couple of good sites with info about it but Buddybate is the best one, loads of experiences and stories there that seem to be a lot like what I'm thinking about it all.

Anyway, thanks for the advice. I guess he might have been bi. Maybe I am too? lol

A lot more introspection is needed on my part.

I remember my very first time. A friend of mine, we were both about 13, were camping in his back yard and talking about some of the girls in our class that we thought were cute and jacking off. He asked if I'd ever had a hand, other than my own, on my dick. I hadn't. We decided to experiment and I found that my hand on his dick felt just as good as his hand on my dick.

After jacking (or wanking as it's referred to in the UK) each other for a while, he asked, "would you suck it?" I, without hesitation replied, "no way".

I've often wondered how things might have been if, instead, I'd said, "you first".

Sexual enjoyment isn't about sexual orientation at all. If it feels good..., hey? Sexual orientation is about who turns you on, not what feels good.

Glad it helped. If you want to talk more let us know

I've had several guys' dicks in my hand and mine in theirs, and with two guys I've done oral and anal both ways, but always as part of us playing with our wives there. Not our favorite, don't do it often, but the girls regularly play with each other, so we sometimes give it a try too. We much prefer the women, however. The women play among themselves regularly, even without us.

Maybe this doesn’t count...... but I had a guy suck on me during a MFM outing. It was totally dark and I had no idea it was his mouth on me instead of the mouth of my SO. She laughed her ass off about it.

It didn’t offend me to hear about it, but sure intriguing to say the least.

Lately I am turned on with the idea of guiding another cock into her, with my hand.

I’m curious about other guys guiding another cock into their wife/S.O.

Ed

Maybe this doesn’t count...... but I had a guy suck on me during a MFM outing. It was totally dark and I had no idea it was his mouth on me instead of the mouth of my SO. She laughed her ass off about it.

It didn’t offend me to hear about it, but sure intriguing to say the least.

 

Lately I am turned on with the idea of guiding another cock into her, with my hand.

I’m curious about other guys guiding another cock into their wife/S.O.

Ed

Well, I can tell you that, at least for me, it was great! It was during our very first swap. My wife and the other husband had already fucked twice that night, once when they were alone and once in front of me and the other wife. Later they were laying together in the bed beside me and the other wife. The other husband crawled up on top of my wife and they were kissing. I reached in between them and took his hard cock in my hand and guided it into my wife. Damn, that was hot!

It's not about what people do with each other, but with whom. Among real friends everything is good.