Oops...picked a bad place.

I'm so embarrassed. My husband and I were planning to get something to eat before we met up with another couple. We got a little delayed, and didn't want to be late so we skipped dinner and went to see them.

We started talking and from what we can tell they were already drinking, and asked if we would like something to drink. So we started with just a beer. After we finished, we decided to go to another local bar that me and my husband frequently go to, and pretty much every one knows us, including the owner. (big mistake, but we thought nothing of it at the time). Anyway we start taking shots (not my husband as he was the designated driver, and only had a few beers). As the boys were talking I decided to go to the restroom with the wife, and that's were things started heating up. We started kissing next thing I know we both are in the stall with the door closed going at each other very wildly that we didn't notice some other girls had walked in. So we open the stall, and here are 2 girls applauding us (1 of the girls I know as she frequents the bar also) anyway she said you may want fix yourselves, when I looked our breasts were out in the open OMG I felt so embarrassed. So back to the boys doing our walk of shame (well at least I felt that way).

After a few minutes I completely forgot about it, and guess what...here I am going at her again, but this time in front of everybody. The boys just acted cool about it, but you could tell they were enjoying the show (and a few on lookers if not everyone).

It started getting late so we decided to call it a night, and as we start walking back to the car she opens the back door, and now it's me and her in the back seat going at each other once more. I guess the fact that my husband was driving with her husband in the passenger seat turned us on even more.... but it didn't last as we had to pull to the side of the road...yep you guessed it.

Anyway the next day I asked my husband why didn't you stop me, and he replied why would I it was such a turn on, and you were truly enjoying the moment. I told him I know but not in a place we like to go frequently, how can I show my face again. He said it's no big deal, besides the fact that almost all the female bar tenders in that bar are Bi, only difference is they will probably start hitting on you from now on (God I wanted to slap him).

Anyway any thoughts on how to go about this for the next time we visit ? We truly enjoy that place. My husband sees what happened no different but I feel embarrassed, and I'm sure a few people are going to start asking questions, I would just like to prepare myself.

For future reference: When two women 'start going at each other' men with either 1) be disgusted and leave or 2) wish they had some popcorn while they watch the show. In the future, keep your private life more separate from your play life but that's water under the bridge.

Anyway any thoughts on how to go about this for the next time we visit ? We truly enjoy that place.

Just own it. More than likely every guy in the place wished they had popcorn to watch and a girlfriend/wife that would do exactly what you were doing. Don't worry about it and just walk in. If anyone says anything just them them how you were drinking and hadn't eaten anything and things just got a bit out of control...but nobody will say anything. It happened, don't be ashamed, just walk in like you own the place (and know that some of the men will be wishing it would happen again). Remember, even the women in the bathroom where applauding...

If nobody called the cops and the security camera footage didn't make your local news, who cares??? In all likelihood, no one will ask you about it when you go back and you owe no one an explanation. If your husband is correct and the bartenders play for both teams, you may never buy a drink in the place again. The only caveat to my comment is that if the bar owner/manager speaks to you about the incident, then and only then should you consider replying as GoldCo suggested.

Lol but your screen name is 2nolimit - ironic? lol

Just go back and act like all is fine - if someone has ago at you then you can walk out, but i bet it will all be positive if anything is said at all.

Let us know what happens.

Thank you for the encouragement. I guess that's what I needed, someone else's point of view other then my husband or myself.

We just have that type of reputation at that bar that everyone sees us as the perfect couple. My husband did say he will now walk in feeling more proud LOL. I just recently came out of my shell so that adds to the embarrassing adjustment.

Thanks again.

In my opinion, the 'perfect couple' just became even more perfect. Even your husband agrees!

If something like this happened once, then it's something that happened once.

In a few years, regulars will remember that you have a wild side, but probably won't remember exactly why or believe the story if they hear it. That's not a bad situation, and anybody who gives you grief about it is the problem, not you. Any husband is now envious of your husband, and any wife who doesn't like it is just pissed because their husbands are thinking about you when they screw now.

I think you can relax, you're the crown princess of that bar now.

Thanks again!!

It does put me at ease.

It's the weekend, time to go have a drink at your favorite place...

Let us know that things went just as we said.

It's the weekend, time to go have a drink at your favorite place...

 

Let us know that things went just as we said.

Not 100% sure if will visit this Saturday.

I have been chatting via text with another couples wife and she wants to meet us although it's a little awkward as her husband is out of town for some time (I know seems like a red flag). At first she just wanted to meet me without my husband, and I told her that is a negative for safety reasons (I even advised her to not do that without her husband). She said her husband is ok with it as they liked our profile and that we have been chatting for quite a bit, and seem like a friendly couple. I spoke to my husband and he said he has no problem with meeting her with one condition, that we all have a four way call prior to meeting her, and absolutely no playing without her husband (don't want drama).

She seems very nice, and non pushy but the whole out of town thing is raising a flag, but we see no harm in just meeting for a drink (not in our bar LOL)

Yes! I told her we would prefer to wait for her husband, but she said nothing is expected just want to meet us, and that she would also never play without her husband. Any thoughts on this?

Well we actually did both. Met up with the couples wife. Very charming, and attractive!! Chatted for a little bit. We did connect with her husband through the phone, seems very nice. Looks like we got along just fine, and set up a second date this time with her husband towards the end of the month.

After our good byes we went to get something to eat, and decided to stop by the bar. I was a little nervous but just like everyone said it's like if nothing happened at all Someone mentioned about receiving free drinks well.... I did receive 3 from the bar tenders LOL. Also made plans with one of them, that just wants to hangout with us for the Octoberfest in the Keys.

Got overworked for nothing.

After our good byes we went to get something to eat, and decided to stop by the bar. I was a little nervous but just like everyone said it's like if nothing happened at all Someone mentioned about receiving free drinks well.... I did receive 3 from the bar tenders LOL. Also made plans with one of them, that just wants to hangout with us for the Octoberfest in the Keys.

See? Queen of the bar!

Let us know how it goes with the bartender.