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So wife and i have had several FFM threesomes with only one involving me having sex with the other woman. Mainly because i have to take a back seat so i dont cum so quickly. I feel once i do itll end the situation. Am i wrong to think that?

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Hello. Bummer you are dealing with this. I understand the feelings but it's impossible to know how it will go since every situation is different.

My only advise is to tell you how I keep from ending too soon. Might help, probably not. As soon as I feel an orgasm approaching, I stop all direct stimulation. I'll pull out and move to oral on her or something that keeps the shotgun out of reach. It's important to not wait too long. I found that if I do this 3 or 4 times, it becomes impossible to orgasm. That might sound horrible but if you enjoy the trip more than the destination, it's well worth it.

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If it does end early make a big deal of it in a positive way, make sure they both know just how mind blowingly brilliant it was , I'm sure they'll take it as a compliment , also you still have your tongue and fingers in working order, maybe get the Mrs a strap on , then it never has to end, and it can take the pressure offrom you a little, to be honest if I was in that situation with two women I'd be more worried if I couldn't come

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Hey Johnny,

I am rather interested, do you have an issue with cumming before your ready when you are alone with your wife? If this isn't an issue I'm not sure why you would think it would a problem with two women. If anything there is another person there to distract you, especially if you are trying to satisfy both ladies. I wouldn't worry about it too much until it happens. Beyond that try to avoid the positions and motions that make you cum quicker. And change positions regularly.

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I found that if I do this 3 or 4 times, it becomes impossible to orgasm.

 

Something like this happened to me about a year ago while playing with a couple who are friends. They are in a D/s marriage and the Dom husband said at the start that while he would actively participate, he wouldn't cum himself until later that evening, after they'd gone home.

 

We played for quite a long time - I know it was approaching two hours because we were pushing the limit for on-street parking. I kept holding off on cumming myself as we did about all the hetero things one can I think of in an MFM. We were running out of time and she said she really wanted me to ejaculate inside her, whether her vagina, anus or mouth. I finally had to masturbate and cum into her mouth.

 

It was a pleasurable evening for sure, but the ending was a bit weird.

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Something I used to do in my over eager younger days was try and list my football teams roster in my head, usually about 4 names in I could turn my attention back to what I was supposed to be doing.

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We played for quite a long time - I know it was approaching two hours because we were pushing the limit for on-street parking.

 

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I have found that letting a guy relax for 10 to 15 minutes while watching the girls take care of one another together, then doing oral on him will using get a second round out of him.

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Well ask your SO - what does she say? is she going to stop play altogether with the other girl while you regain your self? ( i take it that the chicks are playing together as well ? )

 

Don't worry about it at all, practice makes perfect - or at lest better lol.

 

have fun and let us know how it goes.

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From what I remember some erectile dysfunction drugs like Viagra have a numbing effect on the penis, but you would have to study that subject and find out which ones have the numbing effect.

 

In years past when I have had MFF situations I have often taken half a Viagra and it not only seems to make me last longer but reload quicker, usually in MFF situations I end up having sex with the girls 3 or 4 times over an evening.

 

If your using condoms there are also special condoms designed to numb the penis and delay you cumming. I do not suggest the use of numbing creams as from experience many years ago as a teenager they basically just burn the penis making it hot and itchy.

 

During what I'd class as my best MFF situation I basically was dating two girls for about 9 months and I arranged a deal with them. On most nights of the week I'd come home from work, I'd greet the two girls and would head straight upstairs for a shower, after my shower I'd come downstairs and often find them both on the sofa naked or half naked at least.

 

I would then have sex with them both fairly quickly and would shoot my load, then we would chill out, chat, eat, maybe watch a film and a few hours later I'd take them both to bed for the main event. Because I'd already cum once I lasted a lot longer the second / third time.

 

You say cumming is a problem, however cumming is not a problem if you can have another go later, like stated I don't need Viagra but half a pill helped me reload a lot quicker. Generally without Viagra I can go again within about 40 minutes, with half a Viagra I can go again in as little as 10 minutes.

 

The best policy is to be honest, explain to the girls that your going to be excited, your probably going to cum quickly, that you want to shoot your big first load quick and then play again after.

 

Its an old trick but a lot of guys masturbate before a big date, they release all the tension, they shoot their loads and then head out on the date, when they do have sex they last longer because they have already cum once

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