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    Active Member CandyCane's Avatar
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    Default Why do younger single males like older women?

    No, this isn't a bashing thread about them... Our first experience into the Lifestyle was with a single male. Loved our experience, so much so, we played with him on numerous occasions. That experience was over 7 years ago, and he left the Lifestyle and got married. Now we are having a hard time finding dependable guys. As I (the female) have gotten older, I've noticed that I tend to attract younger guys... ages ranging from 22 to early 30's. But my question is, why do younger guys like older women? I have gotten over the weirded out factor, we have a son that is 19 and he has to tell his friends to quit checking out his mom


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    Swingers Board Addict angelkin's Avatar
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    *shrugs* I don't know why younger men seem to be attracted to older women, maybe it's just something they can't act upon in vanilla life, maybe they desire our openness and experience. I put in our profile that I am not into younger men because they seem to lack the ability to give pleasure without being selfish.
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    Default re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    I am a man, no longer young, but once was and have not forgotten. On this subject I even feel enfranchised to speak in general terms; not just for myself. When a man is young he has a twenty-four-hour-per-day Eveready hard-on. He would be capable of and sometimes feels the desire for using it on anything in a skirt. Older women, to some men, seem an "easy target". Many women-of-the-same-age have given the guy a cold shoulder. So he begins to look elsewhere. The idiomatic thinking is, "hey, an older woman might be feeling desperate for love. She'll be putty in my hands".

    Some young men, whether they had engaged in this fanciful think or not, actually are fun, as my wife well knows from experience. Also based upon her experience, they are one in a hundred.
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    Bringing in single guys is how we swing. We are both 50 and prefer men our age. Our ads are very specific about this but it doesn't matter. We still get replies from 20 somethings. We just can't do it. Our kids are 28 and 30. Seeing a guy younger than our kids just seems wrong to us, that plus they are just a general turn-off. Clumsy, spastic, flaky. Plus the generation gap makes hanging out impossible. We may be missing out but we'll never know.

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    Default re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    I can't help but think that a lot of is just media. So much media builds up that whole MILF thing.
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    Swingers Board Addict angelkin's Avatar
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    Default re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    I can't help but think that a lot of is just media. So much media builds up that whole MILF thing.
    That could be some of it We were recently contacted by a younger guy (23) and we've been chatting with him a bit. I am enjoying his youthful POV and excitement to get into the lifestyle. I have yet to see a picture of him, but based on our limited interaction, I find myself considering him for playtime. Who knew?
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    Active Member CandyCane's Avatar
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    Default re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    We have been contacted by a few younger guys that have piqued my interest... I have enjoyed conversing with them, their thirst for knowledge of the lifestyle is quite refreshing... Have seen quite a few jump right in without a clue

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    Sexual Prowler sparkstar's Avatar
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    Default re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    I've always gone for much older men, even since i was 15 I fancied men who were in their 30's and some 40's while all my friends thought of it as something so horrible. When I was 15-17 I was sleeping with men in their 20's and early 30's.

    We mostly swing with single males aged 30-45 but have seen ages 25-60.

    I suppose when I'm 40 (27 now) I will then start seeing men in their early 20's.

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    Why do younger men appreciate older women?

    "Because they don't swell, they don't tell, and they appreciate it like Hell."
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    Default re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    Older women tend to be more experienced and more comfortable with their sexuality than younger women. As a twenty-something guy I met plenty of women my age that were boring in bed. And a lot of young women act like sorority girls even when they aren't anymore. That got tiresome.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IEcouple View Post
    Older women tend to be more experienced and more comfortable with their sexuality than younger women. As a twenty-something guy I met plenty of women my age that were boring in bed. And a lot of young women act like sorority girls even when they aren't anymore. That got tiresome.
    Excellent point, my feelings exactly. I've adored older women my entire life. Lost my virginity when I was 18 to an older ,(well she was 21) women. Girls are...????...cute???? Older women are; beautiful, gorgeous, sensual, sexy, erotic, experienced, elegant, know how to carry themselves, are NOT full of themselves, will tell you what they want and not beat around the bush and on and on. I'm 56 now, I'll take a well kept, attractive 50-70 year old any day of the week over just about any 22 year old. I know a gorgeous 72 year old that I'm dying to lick all over.

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    Quote Originally Posted by IEcouple View Post
    Older women tend to be more experienced and more comfortable with their sexuality than younger women. As a twenty-something guy I met plenty of women my age that were boring in bed. And a lot of young women act like sorority girls even when they aren't anymore. That got tiresome.
    That was my point of view when I was in my 20's. I thought that some older women would really be turned on by a younger guy, a guy that isn't balding or fat necessarily, and can get really hard for long periods of time...lots of stamina. I really wanted, and still want though I'm married now, a women to be super into me if we are going to have sex, and I figured an older woman would feel pretty lucky to have a young good looking guy fuck her especially if she may be 15-20 years older or more. I also appreciated older women that still look really good and take care of their physique...it really turned me on when I saw a 50+ year old woman that had a body that could blow most 20 year olds out of the water...that takes work! It's easy for most people to look pretty good in their early 20's! I also liked the thought that older women were more open to doing sexual things, less inhibited.

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    Quote Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple View Post
    The idiomatic thinking is, "hey, an older woman might be feeling desperate for love. She'll be putty in my hands".
    I get that same idea of single men who mail us.

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    I always felt that women five years plus older than me were more experience sexually and open to experimentation. I dated my massage therapist who was seven years older than myself who opened up new avenues of pleasure I never imagined. She knew how to use her hands on my genitals in ways that could not only delay the pleasure of orgasm indefinitely but massage me in ways that made me cry out with passion. She also had a Darkside and knew how to become a dominant bitch to encourage me to do her will whenever needed. Experienced with a strap on dildo she would take advantage of my submissive side and have me pay for play face down getting screwed with her dildo. She really knew how to massage my prostate with a dildo like no one else.

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    Swingers Board Addict Fi86's Avatar
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    Default Re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    Perhaps as more mature women are more confident, more relaxed, less uptight, more approachable? More skilled sexually due to experience? Often curvier? Good for playing out mum/milf fantasies? I've no idea to be honest, just guessing.

    Maybe I'm not old enough to get this yet, I have always attracted, and still attract, older gentleman. I usually look for couples where the woman is 20s or 30s and the man is 30s or 40s. Sometimes couples where she's early 40s and he's older. With single men I often end up with guys in the 40-75 range, most often the 45-60 range. Gangbangs are the exception, less choice involved, men can be 18-85.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fi86 View Post
    Perhaps as more mature women are more confident, more relaxed, less uptight, more approachable? More skilled sexually due to experience? Often curvier? Good for playing out mum/milf fantasies? I've no idea to be honest, just guessing.

    Maybe I'm not old enough to get this yet, I have always attracted, and still attract, older gentleman. I usually look for couples where the woman is 20s or 30s and the man is 30s or 40s. Sometimes couples where she's early 40s and he's older. With single men I often end up with guys in the 40-75 range, most often the 45-60 range. Gangbangs are the exception, less choice involved, men can be 18-85.
    My wife is a fit 40s.. and gets all the guys that are younger. I don´t see her interested in older guys unless it is George Clooney or someone with style and huge yacht. :-) I think she likes the vitality... they are more sexually charge or able to really go for a long time.

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    Swingers Board Addict Fi86's Avatar
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    Default Re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    Quote Originally Posted by onotanotherswm View Post
    why ? a counter to the older man young lady standard...rebelling on that old standard////It is "different" like having a person of another race/// an older womans experience///// no chance of pregnancy/////or just the fact that some women are fabulous when they get to be "older"
    No chance of pregnancy is an interesting point.


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    My theory is that it has to do with breast size. Not so much with single men but I’m always surprised at how many younger couples, the young lady very fit but with small breasts, are willing to swap with hubby and I. It seems that these trades are often driven my the young man’s intense interest in my larger breasts. In any case, hubby sees it as a good deal.

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    Default Re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    I think there's a phase where a lot of women "come back" to the idea of enjoying men and fucking for fun, and that is a powerful perfume for men at any age. In college, before adult problems start interfering, as young men we're all enjoying women feeling free and having sex when they want because they can. We get a little older, there's more than a few married/attached/divorced women out there who have the anxiety-inducing parts of monogamous relationships settled for now and are just trying to get off.

    It might be that more mature women in the lifestyle are very much in that mode, as well, and a woman having fun is the biggest turn-on there is, at any age. Factor in experience and confidence, it can be very appealing. The hangups and adversarialism that are so common in the dating market when you're taking a single 26-something out to dinner are not in the picture.

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    I asked my wife about it... she responded because the motherly appearance, nurturing, caring etc... From a sexual perspective she said that "experience" and how she is today is much different than 20-30 years ago (lying there).

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    The impression that I get from my wife is that younger guys see her (despite being extremely fit) as "broken-in, "comfortable," and since she's had a baby, "fertility goddess" both physically and psychologically.

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    When a younger guy messages me he's into older women I am sure to hit delete.

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    Default Re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    Shhhsh. Maybe because they know how much better we are now than when we were young.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chiccouplexx View Post
    Shhhsh. Maybe because they know how much better we are now than when we were young.
    I agree, but in what way do you think?

    I think that to a great extent it's being sexually certain of what she wants, not timid like less experienced girls. Women over 30, like guys, want to get on with it, and know whatever it is they want to get on with. Physically, their tits are more developed and their cunt physically more comfortable. It goes in easier while squeezing just as tight. And if she's already had a baby, you know she's a full woman.

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    Swingers Board Addict couplers's Avatar
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    Default Re: Why do younger single males like older women?

    Why do some younger women like older men?


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