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Nothing to add and could not have stated it better. Bravo! We're saving this one.

 

This is a really great article. Every single man should be given a written copy to sign and notarize so as to say, "I've read it and understand it."

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Really great advice to single guys.

 

One thing I would add, in our case we can't host. So I prefer if there is a plan for hosting or meeting at a club. Often the guys don't want to go to a club or host at their place and seem to have no suggestions if we can't host. We already pay a sitter when we go out, so we try to avoid a hotel for just a couple hours.

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lilo - a great checklist...I also have little to add. We do prefer chat mode vs. phone...we only do the phone thing if we're setting up an actual meet. Thanks for posting this!!

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This is great! We don't swing with single men but I felt there were a lot of similarities when going back and forth with the male of another couple (not often!). I'm not going to suggest adding this unless you feel its valid, but, I often will tell a potential candidate that he's/they're near the top of the list and I'll let them know by X time or date if it is likely to proceed. In the interim, I receive 20 emails from this person trying to persuade me. By the third email, I'm all sighs.

 

In a word, patience is appreciated! I know how hard it must be, and they're always rewarded.

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I could not have said it better. Tired of single men who think just because we are looking for one (or two) they are god's gift to woman. They need to look into the mirror and realize that they are not.

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I agree with you. Personally, I wish I read this first as it would have helped me in developing my profile. I'm still working on it but this is very informative.

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