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I'm 30 & my wife is 25 and we've been married for almost 7 years. Because of my work & her grad school, we're in two different cities at present. In one of my earlier post I mentioned that she used to be super conservative, but started to open up slowly. She also knows about my fantasies regarding swinging, hotwifing or showing her off.

 

Last night we were Skyping and doing some stuff to keep ourselves occupied. At one point she was super horny and asked me would I be mad if I get to know that she had been somewhat intimate with another guy. I told her that she knows these stuff turn me on immensely, but the only condition is to let me know everything.

 

This went for a while and when we both were done with our things​, I asked her what actually happened. Since then she just mentioned that nothing serious happened as she didn't wanna linger that discussion.

 

Now, either because I would like to fantasize about it or cause of some hints she mentioned, I really think there was more to it. And the thing is that it is not bothering me, rather turning me so on that I'm kinda struggling at work today. Has anyone of you guys experienced​ it the same way?

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Is it cheating, specifically, or the idea of scandal/promiscuity that turns you on?

 

I'm not sure how to distinguish my feeling between those two. I have always enjoyed when she has been slightest promiscuous & she knows that. Even the idea of her being getting intimate with a guy without​ my permission/letting me know (which could be labeled as cheating I guess) is turning me on big time.

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Cheating is usually frowned upon in the swing community. I'm thinking what you are talking about is 'hotwifing'...where she is allowed to have sex with others and then tells you about it. Do so research and see if this is more of what you have in mind.

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Hi. New here. I’m not sure if this fits here. My first post. I travel a lot for business. Not proud to say I cheated a number of times. My wife caught on and it wasn’t a pleasant time for me. I can tell you she wasn’t turned on by cheating. She at some point asked how I would feel if she slept around. Don’t know why I said she should. Our deal was that we had to be honest. Our other deal was not to fall for anyone. I never thought she would do it. She did. It hurt. I never showed the hurt. Over time our truthfulness led to some crazy stories. I hoped her stories were embellished. I think we tried to one up each other. It became funny and sexy and led to some crazy sex. Recently it led us here.

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My first wife and I were together from the late ‘60s through the late ‘70s, basically the period of our 20s. We were both pretty curious about sex and not scrupulous about fidelity. We should have been more explicit with one another about what was permissible and what wasn’t in terms of sex with others.

 

Once, when I came back from a lengthy business and pleasure trip we got into bed and she asked if while on the trip I’d had sex with a woman we both knew, who I was going to be staying with for a few days. I admitted I had. At that point she told me she’d been having sex with our next-door neighbor, one of her medical-school classmates, adding that they had talked about fixing me up for sex with his (recently-acquired) wife, a nurse.

 

I found this revelation literally breathtaking. And completely unexpectedly, in a good way. A very good way. I was so turned on. We were already naked in bed and we immediately began fucking. It was more than 40 years ago and I can’t recall how many times she came, but I did three times before we were finished.

 

She told me she’d recently broken off this sexual liaison but I was seriously tempted to suggest we renew it, this time as a four-way. (She said her lover had complained about his wife that her pussy was so tight he could barely find his way into it, at which point — bless her heart — she told him that with the size of my erect penis sex with his wife would be a non-starter. :-)

 

This was the point in my life at which I realized I was wired sexually a bit differently than many others. We later had a soft swing with another couple and I deeply enjoyed watching her jack the other guy to orgasm several times. (It slightly distracted me from my task of pleasuring his wife.)

 

My then wife and I several times discussed swinging, but our schedules were busy and there was not the internet through which to make connections, nor a place like this one, providing helpful advice to novices. So, it never happened, and a few years later, worn from the stresses of medical and graduate school and the poverty that went with it, we divorced.

 

And now she and I are old. She’s a grandmother. After a period of estrangement that lasted decades, we are again friends, both quite happy in our lengthy marriages. (She has implied that she and her husband no longer have sex, and that she’s fine with that.) We live a a little more than an hour from each other and with our spouses sometimes see each other in social situations with mutual friends. Several times a year she and I have lunch together and catch up. Her hair is white and her face is wrinkled. But I still think she’s attractive and sometimes looking at her across the table in the restaurant, in my mind’s eye I picture us as young and fucking our brains out. And when I think of her having sex with other men at that time in our lives, it still really turns me on.

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That's the sweetest cheating story I've ever heard.

 

Cheating doesn't do anything for me, per se. The hint of promiscuity or a sporting attitude toward sex, though, really does. I really started to figure this out about myself after the high school sweetheart and I broke it off for good, and details would come out about what was going on. I didn't just like fucking her, I liked her getting fucked, and the same was true of other college girls I was messing around with. One knew well enough to take pictures sometimes and send them along, but otherwise, I generally kept it fairly clean with girls I was dating until I was in my early 20s.

 

Then I was past pretending and had more experience, knew what I liked, and was more comfortable finding women who liked it, too. Some of the best head I've ever gotten is from women opening up about the other trouble they've gotten into. Finding in Mrs. E somebody who had been pretty sheltered and wanted a man to encourage her to have some adventures was like striking oil.

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We're apart for like 4 months now & around 6 more months to go. We meet like once a month for 5-6 days. Like I said over there, she started about it when we were bz Skyping. She started by saying would I be mad if i knew that she kinda cheated. So I asked her little more and it went for a while.

 

At the beginning she was kinda vague. She started by talking about a small party​ she'd been to last weekend. I knew from the last party​ she had some sexy experiences, although not too much. But by her previous super conservative social lifestyle (she's muslim), still hugging guys and dancing with them was quite a progress.

 

She told me after returning from the party on that day that she danced with a guy for long. He was grinding her big time and she didnt stop coz she enjoyed it too.Anyways, grinding & getting cozy were the extent of that what she said after the party.

 

But last night she started mentioning that there was groping for a longer while. She enjoyed it coz most ppl didnt know her at the party​ as she went there only a friend.

I asked her how much of groping and she said that he held onto her ass for the whole time & never let it go. Slowly she told me more that while grinding from behind, he had full on grabbing of her boobs & she just kept enjoying.

 

She still hasn't told me everything for sure. It's like she's also enjoying playing this game, which is kinda sweet though. Hopefully tomorrow will know a little more.

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In my life (I'm in my late '60s) I've had four women who have entered into swinging and/or hotwifing situations. And my two wives also cheated on me (that is, they had sex with others without my knowledge or permission.)

 

I love the idea that they screwed other men, even when they cheated. But I hated feeling that I couldn't trust them - that's what cheating does.

 

To the OP - if this is something that turns you on, I suggest you tell her that it's okay with you for her to have teasing or full-on sexual relations with others, under whatever circumstances you two decide on. But have her fully tell you about it at a time of the two your choosing. Do not allow a 'cheating' relationship to fester.

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My wife couldn't cheat on me for two reasons: she's allowed to have sex with others, no preclearance required, and second, she feels the need to talk to me about everything (we're BFF ;) ).

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So I'm on the other end of this as a Hotwife, and even though I know my husband approves and has given me a hall pass so to speak, I treat each encounter as an illicit affair.  I like the feel of cheating, it turns me on so much.  I travel for work a lot so I pick up a lot of guys in a hotel bars and have a lot of hotel sex.  

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