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As I've made pretty clear here, my wife has simply lost the desire for sex. Everything else in our marriage is great but she just doesn't want sex anymore. We experimented with swinging years ago so it's not like having sex with someone besides each other is going to harm the marriage, we've proven that.

 

​So I have to wonder about the possibility of finding a couple like us, only it's the husband who no longer wants sex, and find relief that way?

 

Hey, just had another thought. My wife absolutely loves Disney World. She gets an annual pass every year and she and her sister even spend a week every December at a Disney resort. I don't particularly like Disney but will go with her a few times a year just for her.

 

Well now, if we found a couple about our age with a husband who isn't interested in sex but loves Disney and a wife who is still needing some sex but couldn't care less about Disney? And, of course, all agreed. My wife and the husband could go spend the day in the 'G' and 'PG' world of Disney while the other wife and I take care of some 'R' and 'X' needs of our own.

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Well, that couple may exist but holy cow, could you be any more specific lol. I have been reading your posts from here and the old dead bisexual site for a few years. I get the impression you are getting more frustrated?

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