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It seems there's two schools of thought regarding profile photos.

 

1) Go completely 'G-rated' / 'Family Friendly' to simply show who you are as a couple, or

2) Do a mix of 'family-friendly' and 'adult' photos.

 

We can do 'family friendly' no problem (well, cropping-out family and friends takes some photoshop skill, sometimes). It's taking the sexy adult photos that give us some grief.

 

Rather than having professional 'boudoir' photos taken, what if we do them ourselves? This is the route we're trying to take.

 

The problem is everything is turning-out poorly focused, badly framed, or just stupid-looking dick pics.

 

Suggestions for taking nekkid pictures while keeping it classy?

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If you use your phone with the delay timer, focus shouldn't be a problem. Just as long as you stay away from dick pix, they should be just fine. If it is really a problem, just swing by the house and we will help you out by taking the pictures for you ;)

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Well, I wouldn't even photoshop out other people. When you're with family / friends, simply ask them to take a picture of you.

 

As far a sexy photos go, simply take pictures of each other in the postures you want; that will be fine for your purposes. And if you want pictures of the two of you together, ask your next playmates if they wouldn't mind.

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We tend to go PG-13 for public pics. Our rule of thumb is never have face and nudity in the same shot. If busted you can deny, deny, deny....

 

One of our favorite things is pics while getting ready to go to a club. Lingerie, cleavage, with head turned and hair covering the face. Google boudoir photography for ideas and have fun. Take pics of eachother. Yeah, timers,and selfies can be more challenging but keep at it and have fun.

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It seems there's two schools of thought regarding profile photos.

 

1) Go completely 'G-rated' / 'Family Friendly' to simply show who you are as a couple,

 

In my/our opinion a "G" rated profile pic is the way to go. The naked pics can come later in the getting to know you phase.

 

Rather than having professional 'boudoir' photos taken, what if we do them ourselves? This is the route we're trying to take.

 

The problem is everything is turning-out poorly focused, badly framed, or just stupid-looking dick pics.

 

Suggestions for taking nekkid pictures while keeping it classy?

 

A good digital camera helps. Lighting also. I know sexy happens in candlelight but the more light the better the picture. If you want to show off your dick do it in a picture as a couple. Solo dick pics have never been a deal maker for us. We are more interested in the person that is attached to the dick.

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This is ours…summer day 1.jpg. We think a little tease attracts interest and besides, isn't the purpose of the sites to facilitate sex?

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Great photo and great dress (Ms. has been looking for one like that). Now if you can just rotate the photo 90 degrees...unless she is related to Spiderman :lol:

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One of the sexist photos I've had taken was near spontaneous, first shot. With a woman I'd only chatted with online and had actually met less than a hour earlier. None of the other photos we took that evening were much, a couple other mediocre ass shots of her was about it. But though every other shot could be tossed we still took a lot and did get one fantastic pic. Background, lighting, color, pose, all came together. So just relax, take lots of pics, look for the gem, & toss the rest without thought or regret.

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GMO, yeah, but think about all the film you'll be wasting . . . oops, showing my age.

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