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I've read and heard that some of the sites, i.e. sls, sdc, kasidie, etc. are better for some regions.

 

Is this true?

 

If true, what is the best site for San Francisco Bay Area?

 

Thanks!

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When we lived in San José, SLS (swinglifestyle dot com) was, hands-down, the best for meeting other couples, in terms of online websites.

 

Way back when, for face-to-face and playtime, the Forum in Morgan Hill was good, but it's now closed.

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Really?

 

Of the 6+ Million people in the Bay Area - no one has any current advice? (No disrespect to SJBlueBirds). I guess we just need to use a bunch of free trials?

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We are in the Sacramento area and here have found the same thing: SLS has the most people from our area. The reason that the sites give you free trials is so you can see if there is enough people in the area for you to join. Good luck and let us know if you find out anything different.

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I don't really spend much time on sites anymore because I have circles of friends that I've developed over the years. SLS is probably your best bet in terms of quantity. You'll just have to meet people to find the right quality for you.

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Way back when, for face-to-face and playtime, the Forum in Morgan Hill was good, but it's now closed.

 

This past weekend I heard of a club/house party that was shutdown in Morgan Hill when the neighbors started taking pictures of the attendees license plates and publishing them along with names in the local paper. Was that "The Forum"?

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SLS, SDC, and Fetlife seem to be the top 3 for me. Often there is significant crossover since, like me, people tend to have profiles on all 3 of those sites.

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