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Hiya, I’m a single guy looking for a relationship. I want to find someone who enjoys swinging but I have no idea where to look. Most websites like POF there’s no function to search for people who like swinger. Any ideas or website recommendations? Many thanks.

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I am not familiar with dating websites, but I suggest rather than looking for a woman who openly expresses an interest in swinging, let her find you. Put in your profile the type of relationship you are looking for, casual or potentially long-term with marriage, and that you want the relationship to be non-monogamous. If you're willing to let her be non-monogamous while you remain monogamous that could open you to more candidates (and MFMs).

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Hiya, I’m a single guy looking for a relationship. I want to find someone who enjoys swinging but I have no idea where to look. Most websites like POF there’s no function to search for people who like swinger. Any ideas or website recommendations? Many thanks

 

Go to Swingers' Clubs or attend some Swingers' Parties, Events, etc. Or, better still hosts some yourself.

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My wife and I are acquainted with a Florida widower who included a reference to swing in his Plenty-of-Fish profile. He received a few outright hostile responses but also questions in the form of "what do you mean by 'swing'?". Most of his replies to that question resulted in, "you filthy beast" or "you immoral clown" but within a couple of months he was dating a woman who fancied the idea. She has taken to the lifestyle like a fish takes to water, if you'll will excuse my poor attempt at humor.

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Thank you for your suggestion. I am a bit nervous about attending clubs on my own as a single guy and I wouldn’t know where to start about hosting my own party or getting invited as a single guy to a party.

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Thank you for the suggestion. I’ve added swinging to my profile. I can’t believe I didn’t think of that.

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