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    Quote Originally Posted by Erik13 View Post
    Who goes on sls and doesn't read their mail?
    I do. I often open SLS to see, for example, if one of the SLS groups to which I belong has posted information about a new event. If I do not read the mail, the next time I go to SLS I will see the little pigeon carrying his letter and it will remind me that there is mail that I have not yet read. Believe me. When you arrive at my age, you need reminders.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Erik13 View Post
    How about this one...we sent messages to three different people over the last couple days. They're still sitting there unread but the people have been online everyday.
    Who goes on sls and doesn't read their mail?
    I hate that. I think SLS should change it to once it's viewed, it is read.

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    What gets me are the people who contact US, email US with their interest, unlock their pictures, and then radio silence after we say we reciprocate their interest. Maybe SLS could replace the little birdie with a cricket...

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    I appreciate all of you sharing your responses. Gives me some insight on why so many people don't respond to my emails. I have always responded to all messages even when I am not interested in someone. Have made some good friends over the years and some of them started off as emails messages that were not well composed. Maybe my stats of 5'9" and 250 lbs is not deemed to be HWP but I can respect that everyone is entitled to their opinion.

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    Quote Originally Posted by njbm View Post
    People read the mail, but they donít open the letter. That way it says unread, but they read it.
    I didn't know that. Thank you!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sun&Moon View Post
    To be honest we get loads of messages we never bother answering, those messages would include things like:

    The classic rude one liners:

    ...

    YEAH such messages just get ignored, if we answered them we would be forever bogged down by rude idiots wanting their daily "Masturbation Messages" the type of guys who looks a couples pictures and fire off rude sexual messages whilst they sit their masturbating.

    OTHER EXAMPLES OF MESSAGES WE DON'T ANSWER AT ALL WOULD BE:

    ....

    There are loads of reasons why we wouldn't bother answering a message and like stated in my original post if you do answer such messages you generally end up in a 3 or 4 messages conversation with that person wanting to know why your not interested or trying to convince you that you are interested or would not have messaged back in the first place.
    Holy cow! Multiple People actually respond to your profile? We were under the impression (through experience) that hardly anyone responds to our profile. We get maybe two or three contacts a year.

    We thought we were weird for contacting other couples based on their profiles!
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    Default Re: Do you respond if not interested?

    We have made some unexpected discoveries by not opening or answering an SLS message right away. Example: a single day after receiving an initial message, we get another, "Hey, WTF? We sent you a message and you never replied!" Well, such impatience tells us everything we need to know regarding whether or not these people or this person would be a good prospect.
    ctrl+alt+del

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    Quote Originally Posted by PeeTWheatstraw View Post
    I appreciate all of you sharing your responses. Gives me some insight on why so many people don't respond to my emails. I have always responded to all messages even when I am not interested in someone. Have made some good friends over the years and some of them started off as emails messages that were not well composed. Maybe my stats of 5'9" and 250 lbs is not deemed to be HWP but I can respect that everyone is entitled to their opinion.
    We actually got a response today that read " sorry but we are looking for HWP. Good luck!" Wouldn't just saying "we're not a match" be a little more polite?
    Maybe I need thicker skin!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Erik13 View Post
    . . . Maybe I need thicker skin!
    Let us hope this this people who casually hurl insults does not desensitize us.
    ctrl+alt+del

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    I think there are a lot of people (more often males)who scour SLS, make contact, offer to meet who then get shot down by their spouse.

    We find that even among people we meet on SLS, we rarely wind up playing.

    Starting to favor lifestyle vacations. Our online activities: a lot of effort, Little result.

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    We commonly get responses from the husband that he would play with my wife, but their wife is not interested in me. Has happened at least three times. I am Hwp and above average looking. A little jarring.

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    What's hwp, sorry?

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    Height weight proportionate. As opposed to BBW, big, beautiful woman, a preference of some. And BBC, big black cock, which I think depersonalizes black men.

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    Quote Originally Posted by njbm View Post
    I think there are a lot of people (more often males)who scour SLS, make contact, offer to meet who then get shot down by their spouse.
    This has happened to us several times on SLS. Sad to say but we've had better luck on Craigslist.

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    We have never looked on Craigslist. I think that some dates from Craigslist do turn up missing!?

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