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We are just wondering if there are actually any women out there that are attracted to a guy just based on their cock pics alone? Profiles that have nothing, but cock pics!

 

By the rather large amount of profiles out there with nothing, but cock pics there must be someone out there that this appeals to right?

 

It does zero to get Ms Enhancer's interest. She won't even bother trying to get a face pic if that is all they have to offer on their profile. She is attracted to people not cocks.

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Men are visual...hence some misinformed men think that taking a picture of their cock is a great idea.

 

Women are more emotional...hence they think "WTF was he thinking" when they see a cock picture.

 

Neither of us have ever seen a picture of a cock that made us say "OMG, it doesn't matter what this guy looks like". Stupid should hurt...

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I get that men are more visual, but I can honestly say seeing a pic of just a pussy does zero for this guy!

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Genital closeup shots do nothing for us other than make us think maybe he/she/they are hiding something else.

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It does nothing for me and in fact it's a negative strike against any guy that sends me a cock pic by itself without a thoughtful message.

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I agree with asncpl. I may even go as far as assuming that the male must be ugly if he can only supply dick pictures.

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I get that men are more visual, but I can honestly say seeing a pic of just a pussy does zero for this guy!

 

Same here.

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I had one idiot on AFF keep bugging me, asking if I had shown the photos of his dick to my wife. When I told him that no I hadn't and wasn't going to, he threatened to report me to the webmaster for not wanting to play with him. Sheesh, what a prick!

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It's a been there, done that point of view.

 

I have posted looking for the biggest cock I could find for my wife.

 

In my experience a text/post or cock pic/face pic is going to take the place of an in person meeting.

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I get that men are more visual, but I can honestly say seeing a pic of just a pussy does zero for this guy!

 

I agree that they shouldn't be used as the primary profile pic and that many men seem to like (really like) to take pictures of their dicks. I would also think there are way too many pussy shots with women spreading them wide open. It's not sexy ladies.

 

Full Disclosure - I LOVE bottom shots! Show me that ass and you've got my attention.

 

However, the lady likes to see at least one shot of their prick.

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Uuggg. Read the forums before posting!

 

Wait wut?

 

Am I the only one that saw the irony between the comments posted on those pictures and the over all tone of this thread?

 

Must have been my mis-calibrated third eyed, gonna get that sent into get serviced ASAP!!!

 

On a more on topic note, I do remember getting ZERO response from a profile without a cock pic, and then getting positive results once I added my own. However, I am not entirely sure the relevance as that was over fourteen year ago, so things change. I also pretty much gave up the online thing for meeting people as well.

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No, not you kikonkrome. I should have said before posting PICTURES. No disrespect intended towards you.

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I was gong to post about this and a secondary topic of plain fakes. While we play we would not consider ourselves in the lifestyle, and while we would love to meet a couple where all of us hit it off we find this incredibly hard. I don't THINK we're that repulsive but who knows. ;)

 

Anyway. Since we had a ffm I thought it would only be fair to try a mmf - while I don't consider myself by ( to me it means that I would be interested in having an emotional or sexual relationship with a man) I am open to oral etc because I know that she gets turned on by it and I like pleasing her.

 

Anyway. In trying to look for a single guy - I looked on Craigslist and quickly moved on - but even here. The general theme

under which single guys seem to operate is that the the guy in the relationship doesn't measure up somehow and that the desire to have a mmf mfm is because he is inadequate and will do this to keep her. Thus all a single guy as to do is show of his incredible, never before seen wonder dick and the girl of the couple will simple demand to have him right away.

 

Really where do these guys come from and what gives this notion!? Or are we just prude and women actually like men like that ( ad no I am not talking about cockuld couples)

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We are just wondering if there are actually any women out there that are attracted to a guy just based on their cock pics alone? Profiles that have nothing, but cock pics!

 

By the rather large amount of profiles out there with nothing, but cock pics there must be someone out there that this appeals to right?

 

It does zero to get Ms Enhancer's interest. She won't even bother trying to get a face pic if that is all they have to offer on their profile. She is attracted to people not cocks.

 

We actually like the cock pics for one reason only... To confirm he has a penis big enough to satisfy her. After too many meetups where the guy said he is 7" and it turns out to be like 4", it never ends well.

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I have noticed that the majority of women on this site, and most dating sites, are not interested in seeing dick pics, at least not right away. Here's my take on it (women correct me if I'm wrong)...

 

Men are visual and women are more cerebral. Men love to see pictures of naked ladies! They are like puppy dogs. They see a pussy and go, "I want that". They assume (wrongly in most cases), that women will respond the same way, so they post pictures of their junk, thinking that's what females want to see, because pictures turn THEM on. Women on the other hand tend to get turned on by the mysterious. Maybe that's why ladies like wrapped presents and read romantic, erotic novels. The mind is one of the most powerful erogenous zones for women.

 

Unfortunately, a lot of guys just don't get it. They are also probably the ones who also are in it only for their own enjoyment, and care little about pleasing their partners. C'mon men, grow up!

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I think a lot of men use only cock pictures because:

 

A) They don't want to be noticed, they don't want people they work with / friends / family members seeing their face on swingers sites.

 

B) A lot of them are cheating and can not risk putting pictures of their body / face on swingers sites.

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Genital closeup shots do nothing for us other than make us think maybe he/she/they are hiding something else.

Insightful! Said he with a cock pic on profile as we speak

LMAO

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y'all are talking about cock pic only though... How about :

well written bio, normal picture on profile will a cock pic(if it's a good one) at least score some points?

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y'all are talking about cock pic only though... How about :

well written bio, normal picture on profile will a cock pic(if it's a good one) at least score some points?

 

What's a good one though? To me a good one is either a full body - so that it's clear who this cock belongs to, or a good action picture.

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Good photography is good photography regardless of the subject and can be appreciated at some level. More is not better, pick the best 5 or less.

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question... does this work the same way for black dudes?

I mean, the impression I've gotten from couples who only swinging with black guys is that the dick literally the only thing that matters.

Oh lives too

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Good photography is good photography regardless of the subject and can be appreciated at some level. More is not better, pick the best 5 or less.

 

I get it. I've got many female friends I'm close with and I've heard their thoughts on dick pics. If you've got a good dick a woman will notice but as its been explained to me, most pics are crooked ugly small dicks. But, just because you may have a decent shlong it doesn't mean a woman will be interested. Most women want to like the man attached to the dick too.

How much does this play out on online dating sites is my question.

If it's a decent pic and publicly viewable if a woman sees it while browsing a photo album will it be as much a turn off?

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The profile and face and body photographs are important and indispensable, along with an introductory online chat. However, a closeup shot of a large, handsome cock can be icing on the cake for me.

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Well if someone is specifically looking for a big black cock then a picture must be a bonus. I don't, so for me it isn't. I won't run away from one or several cock pics in between others. It's only when there's nothing else, or not much else, to show, that it's the problem.

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Well if someone is specifically looking for a big black cock then a picture must be a bonus. I don't, so for me it isn't. I won't run away from one or several cock pics in between others. It's only when there's nothing else, or not much else, to show, that it's the problem.

... OK, great explanation. Now I get it and I can tell you I have always felt the same way when it comes to pussy pictures. If that's all there is and there's literally nothing else I just assume it's either a dude pretending to be a woman or a guy who has Twisted his lady's arm into doing this

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I get that men are more visual, but I can honestly say seeing a pic of just a pussy does zero for this guy!

 

Seconded!

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Men are visual...hence some misinformed men think that taking a picture of their cock is a great idea.

 

Women are more emotional...hence they think "WTF was he thinking" when they see a cock picture.

 

Neither of us have ever seen a picture of a cock that made us say "OMG, it doesn't matter what this guy looks like". Stupid should hurt...

 

Was thinking about this today as a basically vanilla version of this conversation was occurring on Facebook. I really do think you've hit the nail on the head. Guys are visual and area always happy to get boob pics (or any pics of female nakedness) so many assume that women are the same way and want to see them naked just as much as they want to see us.

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Was thinking about this today as a basically vanilla version of this conversation was occurring on Facebook. I really do think you've hit the nail on the head. Guys are visual and area always happy to get boob pics (or any pics of female nakedness) so many assume that women are the same way and want to see them naked just as much as they want to see us.

 

Just to be Herr Contrarian, I'm not always happy to get those kinds of pictures. I see a lot of crass, gauche, and raunchy photos go by and they fail to arouse. People who put of "hardcore photos" or who just have body part shots get downgraded in my sorting algorithm of potential sex partners. Just as men shouldn't lead with dick pics, a woman who wants to catch my attention should not lead with her posterior, pussy, or rack. Explicit or hardcore photos that arouse or impress are rare (for me). Don't worry and slow your roll. We'll get there. I much prefer tasteful nudes, playful pinups, and boudoir style shots. I also want to see the face! I'm a sucker for a pretty face. Even candid shots of happy couples enjoying a night out or hanging on the beach are better than a lot of what I see go by. A dollop of dignity and class go a long way with me. Of course, I'm also an oddball in that a hot woman dropping her dress and saying "let's party!" is not going to lead to me throwing her on a bed. I like to take my time, flirt, make out, kiss, and be generally sexy before sex. I could sit on a couch between two attentive hot women for hours and be totally happy. So... not a representative sample.

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I get titty pics sent to me occasionally. It is usually a nice surprise (not always). I have never sent a dick pic unless explicitly asked.

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We won’t answer anyone who just send nude pictures. The first thing we look for is a couple picture together clothed. If you don’t have one of these we figure you are bs. When we first went looking for our first we were fooled a few times. We almost didn’t meet a real couple because the original email was nude pictures and the male was very endowed. I said bullshit. They also sent us a normal picture. I still didn’t believe because or being burned before. They sent a new picture holding that day’s newspaper. My wife thought it was real I thought it was photoshopped just like his penis picture. I am sure one of the reasons we pursued was we were having a hard time finding real couples and the fact that we both laughed at the size of his penis. We met and he was real. Size doesn’t mean a good time.

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Babe very much appreciates it when well-endowed men post cock shots.

As it happens, Babe does not enjoy sex with men with out-sized members.

Oh, don't get me wrong, she likes to *look* at them.

But, in this case, size does matter. Its men with "average" members who get to play.

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Babe very much appreciates it when well-endowed men post cock shots.

As it happens, Babe does not enjoy sex with men with out-sized members.

Oh, don't get me wrong, she likes to *look* at them.

But, in this case, size does matter. Its men with "average" members who get to play.

 

L is very happy with average, she married one. We weren’t looking for that when we decided to try this. We were looking for a Bi female. That part of our meeting went well. I would say the big one was a curiosity and we laughed at the picture. Like most couples we talked about the experience after the fact she said he was horrible. First she was scared then she was excited to play with it. When pushed she said it was fun playing with the bat. The actual sex was horrible and not because of his size

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Just to be Herr Contrarian...Even candid shots of happy couples enjoying a night out or hanging on the beach are better than a lot of what I see go by. A dollop of dignity and class go a long way with me. Of course, I'm also an oddball in that a hot woman dropping her dress and saying "let's party!" is not going to lead to me throwing her on a bed. I like to take my time, flirt, make out, kiss, and be generally sexy before sex. I could sit on a couch between two attentive hot women for hours and be totally happy. So... not a representative sample.

 

Actually, you might be much closer to the majority perspective.

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Cock pics are horrible. I won't be with a man that sent me a cock pic. It says so many negative things about the guy. Lonely perv that can't get a woman. Bad communication skills and just stupid. We're into some BDSM including some CBT and it's really bad when I get a pic of a dick that the guy did some solo CBT to. I'm a very open and accepting person that gets over many hiccups but an uninvited dick pic gets them on the hell no list.

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I just received a message with the first 6 of 7 pictures were of the penis, last one included the body and face. Absolute turn off. However I did once answer a craigslist ad with only a penis (it was a nice one). When I suggested a local place to meet he informed me he didn't like the food (I only wanted to meet for a drink) and made no other suggestions. Eventually I realized he was a boring guy with a big dick and passed on meeting. The movie Nymphomaniac has a great montage of dicks.

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