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    question... does this work the same way for black dudes?
    I mean, the impression I've gotten from couples who only swinging with black guys is that the dick literally the only thing that matters.
    Oh lives too

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    Quote Originally Posted by J&Wu View Post
    Good photography is good photography regardless of the subject and can be appreciated at some level. More is not better, pick the best 5 or less.
    I get it. I've got many female friends I'm close with and I've heard their thoughts on dick pics. If you've got a good dick a woman will notice but as its been explained to me, most pics are crooked ugly small dicks. But, just because you may have a decent shlong it doesn't mean a woman will be interested. Most women want to like the man attached to the dick too.
    How much does this play out on online dating sites is my question.
    If it's a decent pic and publicly viewable if a woman sees it while browsing a photo album will it be as much a turn off?

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    The profile and face and body photographs are important and indispensable, along with an introductory online chat. However, a closeup shot of a large, handsome cock can be icing on the cake for me.

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    Well if someone is specifically looking for a big black cock then a picture must be a bonus. I don't, so for me it isn't. I won't run away from one or several cock pics in between others. It's only when there's nothing else, or not much else, to show, that it's the problem.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Judy39 View Post
    Well if someone is specifically looking for a big black cock then a picture must be a bonus. I don't, so for me it isn't. I won't run away from one or several cock pics in between others. It's only when there's nothing else, or not much else, to show, that it's the problem.
    ... OK, great explanation. Now I get it and I can tell you I have always felt the same way when it comes to pussy pictures. If that's all there is and there's literally nothing else I just assume it's either a dude pretending to be a woman or a guy who has Twisted his lady's arm into doing this

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    Quote Originally Posted by enhancer View Post
    I get that men are more visual, but I can honestly say seeing a pic of just a pussy does zero for this guy!
    Seconded!

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    Men are visual...hence some misinformed men think that taking a picture of their cock is a great idea.

    Women are more emotional...hence they think "WTF was he thinking" when they see a cock picture.

    Neither of us have ever seen a picture of a cock that made us say "OMG, it doesn't matter what this guy looks like". Stupid should hurt...
    Was thinking about this today as a basically vanilla version of this conversation was occurring on Facebook. I really do think you've hit the nail on the head. Guys are visual and area always happy to get boob pics (or any pics of female nakedness) so many assume that women are the same way and want to see them naked just as much as they want to see us.
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    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    Was thinking about this today as a basically vanilla version of this conversation was occurring on Facebook. I really do think you've hit the nail on the head. Guys are visual and area always happy to get boob pics (or any pics of female nakedness) so many assume that women are the same way and want to see them naked just as much as they want to see us.
    Just to be Herr Contrarian, I'm not always happy to get those kinds of pictures. I see a lot of crass, gauche, and raunchy photos go by and they fail to arouse. People who put of "hardcore photos" or who just have body part shots get downgraded in my sorting algorithm of potential sex partners. Just as men shouldn't lead with dick pics, a woman who wants to catch my attention should not lead with her posterior, pussy, or rack. Explicit or hardcore photos that arouse or impress are rare (for me). Don't worry and slow your roll. We'll get there. I much prefer tasteful nudes, playful pinups, and boudoir style shots. I also want to see the face! I'm a sucker for a pretty face. Even candid shots of happy couples enjoying a night out or hanging on the beach are better than a lot of what I see go by. A dollop of dignity and class go a long way with me. Of course, I'm also an oddball in that a hot woman dropping her dress and saying "let's party!" is not going to lead to me throwing her on a bed. I like to take my time, flirt, make out, kiss, and be generally sexy before sex. I could sit on a couch between two attentive hot women for hours and be totally happy. So... not a representative sample.


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    I get titty pics sent to me occasionally. It is usually a nice surprise (not always). I have never sent a dick pic unless explicitly asked.
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    We won’t answer anyone who just send nude pictures. The first thing we look for is a couple picture together clothed. If you don’t have one of these we figure you are bs. When we first went looking for our first we were fooled a few times. We almost didn’t meet a real couple because the original email was nude pictures and the male was very endowed. I said bullshit. They also sent us a normal picture. I still didn’t believe because or being burned before. They sent a new picture holding that day’s newspaper. My wife thought it was real I thought it was photoshopped just like his penis picture. I am sure one of the reasons we pursued was we were having a hard time finding real couples and the fact that we both laughed at the size of his penis. We met and he was real. Size doesn’t mean a good time.

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    Babe very much appreciates it when well-endowed men post cock shots.
    As it happens, Babe does not enjoy sex with men with out-sized members.
    Oh, don't get me wrong, she likes to *look* at them.
    But, in this case, size does matter. Its men with "average" members who get to play.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabeAndApe View Post
    Babe very much appreciates it when well-endowed men post cock shots.
    As it happens, Babe does not enjoy sex with men with out-sized members.
    Oh, don't get me wrong, she likes to *look* at them.
    But, in this case, size does matter. Its men with "average" members who get to play.
    L is very happy with average, she married one. We werenít looking for that when we decided to try this. We were looking for a Bi female. That part of our meeting went well. I would say the big one was a curiosity and we laughed at the picture. Like most couples we talked about the experience after the fact she said he was horrible. First she was scared then she was excited to play with it. When pushed she said it was fun playing with the bat. The actual sex was horrible and not because of his size

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    Quote Originally Posted by BabeAndApe View Post
    Just to be Herr Contrarian...Even candid shots of happy couples enjoying a night out or hanging on the beach are better than a lot of what I see go by. A dollop of dignity and class go a long way with me. Of course, I'm also an oddball in that a hot woman dropping her dress and saying "let's party!" is not going to lead to me throwing her on a bed. I like to take my time, flirt, make out, kiss, and be generally sexy before sex. I could sit on a couch between two attentive hot women for hours and be totally happy. So... not a representative sample.
    Actually, you might be much closer to the majority perspective.

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