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  1. #176
    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    I wish you could tell when someone looks at your profile on SLS. Currently I don't believe it's a choice, I don't think it's possible.

    Actually SLS does show you who viewed your profile, on the home page, there's a red tab that says "New: who viewed me"

  2. #177
    Swingers Board Guide SW_PA_Couple's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    I wish you could tell when someone looks at your profile on SLS. Currently I don't believe it's a choice, I don't think it's possible.
    You most certainly are able to see from which SLS profiles people have viewed your profile. In my mind, the problem is that you are not able to shut this feature off -- that is to adjust it so that other people do not know that you have clicked on their profile.

    SZC offers a setting that you can change -- turn it on and anybody you view knows that you viewed -- turn it off, you can view a profile and nobody is the wiser.
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  3. #178
    That's news to me, thanks!
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

  4. #179
    Being Swedish, there aren't a lot of options. However, the options we have are pretty great. The site we use most is an almost exclusively Swedish site called bodycontact.com, which really seems to be the go-to place. (Also, it's really cheap. At current exchange rates it's about Ę12 per day, even though the free subscription is really, really good.)

    We really wish there was a decent international site we could use. One we could use both at home and while traveling. (We travel a bit and occasionally enjoy more hedonistic activities while we're away ) Internationally, SDC seems to be the best option, with a detailed club list, but there are very few Swedes who use it.

    Also, we've had great success with both the Tinder and Feeld (previously 3nder) apps... I guess they could be considered "sites" of sorts...
    /Licentious

    M37/F29, Stockholm, Sweden

  5. #180
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    Quote Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple View Post
    You most certainly are able to see from which SLS profiles people have viewed your profile. In my mind, the problem is that you are not able to shut this feature off -- that is to adjust it so that other people do not know that you have clicked on their profile.
    You can do this very easily. You just go into the settings under "who viewed me" or whatever it's called and turn it off. You lose the history of who viewed you, but as soon as you're done with your covert operations,you turn it back on and it resumes recording your views.

    That said, SLS drives us batty. Features are seriously lacking, everything is non-intuitive, and the support seems to delight in making things worse. However, almost no one in our area uses anything else, so we're stuck.

  6. #181
    By far the best site is mixingsexy.com both for ease of use and worldwide coverage. It works just like Facebook and has every imaginable feature. Events are posted from our area, around the US, and all over Europe. We have profiles at SLS, SDC, Kasadie, SZC, and LL, but we find that we are using mixingsexy.com 80% of the time.

  7. #182
    This is a great topic! I have had pretty good luck with SLS in the past, and recently decided to go for the gusto and try to meet some new people since I relocated to a new area. The silence is deafening. I send a pretty well-written, polite email to people after making sure I meet their list of requirements, and get very, very, very few responses. From what I can tell, most of the emails stay in "Unread" status, even though I see the people are on the site daily.

    I think there are a lot more of the "curious" there, and very few who actually meet. I have some people via IM there tell me they don't have much time for play, but they can apparently stay logged into SLS for hours at a time, as they are there and online EVERY time I log in.

    I am in So. California, and things here seem to have gravitated to more of a club/event thing, rather than people doing their thing online. It seems mostly a way for club members to stay in touch and announce parties than anything else

  8. #183
    Aff originally was good. Now is just adds and bots. That is the main issue, no real place to meet people with same interests anymore.

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  10. #185
    Were currently only on AFF but will definetly be looking into other sites asap.
    We may have profiles on other sites like swappernet that we havent been on in .....years.


  11. #186
    Quote Originally Posted by DenMor4 View Post
    What are the best sites out there (other then this one of course ). We're on a few but none of them really seem to have to much. Maybe it's because we're looking for a single woman. Any suggestions would be great!
    We use daily Spicy, a swinger social network/portal ...

    We use it because? First reason is that many Italian couples and couples many of the Czech Republic. We live near Como and for work we are often in Prague.

    Second reason: It has a simple layout and works like FB, can create gallery, create events, protect face photos, etc.

  12. #187
    I'm finding the Clubs web sites are useful. Where they care the club owners are fairly effective in keeping spam, bots, and other garbage off their sites. The exceptions seem to be rare. Other than that I've had good luck with Swinger Zone Central. Hooked up with five couples and a single lady through that site in three years. Made connection to a half dozen others. While the chat room is poor, and the navigation of the forums awkward the forums are reasonably active. Searching and navigating profiles is fairly easy.

  13. #188
    Hello! First post on the board, so forgive us if our forum etiquette isnít up to par. My wife and I are just dipping our toes into the lifestyle. Sheís recently discovered sheís bi, and Iíve pretty much always known I am, and so have told her. We recently went to Mon Chalet in Denver (weíre moving there in January) and she was very anxious, as was I. We put our suits on, and headed to the clothing optional pool area. For those who donít know, they have porn playing on 4 screens in the pool area, near one of the 2 hot tubs, and a double king size bed for play. After awhile, she started to feel pretty confident, so we stripped down. She LOVED it. She surprised herself, and me by how much she enjoyed it! I did as well. We ended up having sex in the pool, in front of many other people. It was HOT!!!

    Anyway, so it seems like AFF isnít a great place for us to start in finding a like minded couple, from what people here are saying. As of right now, what would the best sites be to find another couple whoís ok with no penetration yet? She wants to play with another girl, I want to play with another guy, and we basically want a free-for-all, except no p in v penetration. Again, apologies if weíre not following the rules exactly, Iím sure weíll get the hang of it. Thanks in advance!!!

    S & M

  14. #189
    Top of the page: Find Swingers and set up a profile with some pictures (joining the site with the most people in your area proves that you are both serious). Just say you are into soft swap only and you should be good to go.

    You may want to rethink signing your posts S & M unless you are also advertising that you are interested in that as well...
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

  15. #190
    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    Top of the page: Find Swingers and set up a profile with some pictures (joining the site with the most people in your area proves that you are both serious). Just say you are into soft swap only and you should be good to go.

    You may want to rethink signing your posts S & M unless you are also advertising that you are interested in that as well...

    Thanks Gold Coast. We fully plan to join a site once we get to Denver or slightly before. We want to take a couple months to fully discuss our expectations of each other, boundaries, etc.

    Thanks again!
    Sean and Em

  16. #191
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    Man, I wish we had a Mon Chalet in Houston.

  17. #192
    Quote Originally Posted by agreatguy View Post
    Man, I wish we had a Mon Chalet in Houston.
    I think weíre gonna be regulars, lol!!!

  18. #193
    We are members of swinginglove.club since March, this year. We met a lot of couples there, with 3 of them we also had full swaps. We like it because it is really easy to use, it's mobile friendly (which is very important for us-we are travelling a lot) and it has users from all around the world. I don't know what's your opinion about swinging clubs, resorts and so on, but we are not really into them. First of all, we want to have a connection with another couple, it's very important to us. So we are chatting there for a couple of weeks and than we are inviting them over.


  19. #194
    We're active on SwingLifestyle and LoveVoodoo. The couple we played with yesterday was connected with on the former.

    Candidly, we're looking for other venues, so are open to suggestions.

  20. #195
    My favorite is www.swingtownns.com. If you join you can see my private pictures there and may be a chance to swing with me.
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  21. #196
    Just wondering if CruiseSwingers - Cruise Swingers is a dead site? New people seem to sign up from time to time, but there's no action in the forums and never a good or bad reply from anyone...

  22. #197
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    Quote Originally Posted by boozybt View Post
    I know that a brand new swingers website is being made currently..... there are looking for people to test the site prior to launch.
    I’ve just become a tester it’s a huge saving.
    This is great to do if you want dip your toes in
    The link is swingingxtsy dot com
    Reporting as spam

  23. #198
    We are on AFF and have had some real good conversations there, but no actual action, they do have the best overall setup and options. Our one complaint for AFF is if someone IM's you instead of regular messaging it can only be seen on the device it was first seen from and the conversation seems to erase itself after a few hours. We like to both be involved so we turned IM off. Mixingsexy has had some good matches as well, (with nothing coming from it) but our area is less populated and there are lots of old accounts still up, I do like that they have a map with pinpoints so you can see all the couples/singles in a selected area. 3fun we have had a few contact us and we have contacted a few, with one full swap with a great experienced couple and a play date set for next weekend *very exited*. I like the layout and the premise of a "tinder" style app, you can just select yes or no on. The downside to me is unless they put their location, it just says how far away they are, and around here 8 miles can be 10 min or 30.

  24. #199
    We use MixingSexy - Lifestyle Social Dating Network for Couples & Singles as Secrets in Orlando is always posting events and information and it keeps us updated on what is happening and who is going. We also like the map feature to find people near us.

  25. #200
    We did notice that, and have paid for an account there, also on AFF. We are interested in trying a club and Secrets is, I believe, the closest one to us so we can keep up with what's going on there.

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