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Reading Mr & Mrs Naughty's thread regarding Single men and profiles got me to thinking that maybe it would be a good idea to have a thread where single guys can post a link to their SLS profile (or other external profiles/ personal ads on other sites) and let the couples who are interested in single guys review said profiles to give them an idea of how to make it better and more appealing to said couples.

 

So single guys, here's your opportunity, post your link. And couples, be honest and let them know what you think.

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I a on swappernet, with the same name--and I believe you have to be a member to see the profiles.

Maybe you can copy & paste your add if you want to share it?

 

I understand the bulk of the add won't be viewable in appropriate form, but we should be able to catch the gist of it.

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Maybe you can copy & paste your add if you want to share it?

 

I understand the bulk of the add won't be viewable in appropriate form, but we should be able to catch the gist of it.

Nope--can not do that either--swapper has their profile protected from being copied or cut or pasted.

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Hey clitfriend.

 

Your add reads more like an advertisement for your swing group. Is that your intent? :confused:

It wasnt originally--but it seem to have worked out that way--hehe--I seem to have gotten more letters since I did that--then when I didn't have that stuff on it--you should see my yahoo IM list now!!!

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Here's Clitfriend's profile from Swappernet for those who may like to review it for him:

 

Name: TOM

Sex: MALE

Race: CELTIC

Sex Pref: STRAIGHT

Age: 40

Weight: 196 - 200 lbs.

Height: 5 ft. 6 in - 5 ft. 8 in.

Hair: Black Hair

Eyes: Brown

Safe Sex: Upon request

Experience: Several Years

Enjoys: More the merrier

Meet others via: *

Looks: Somewhat attractive

Smokes: No

Type of Swinger: Swapper

Age looking for: Any age but

must be legal

Will travel to you: YES

ICQ Number: *

Will meet single males: YES

Will meet single females: YES

How far will he travel: 91 - 120 miles

 

How does he describe himself?

Ahh yes---describe myself--w/o making myself out to be God's gift to women--right?---Ok---I am not God's gift to women! Is That descriptive enough for you? OK, ok---so that wasn't really very descriptive! But honestly---how does one describe themself in these things w/o being vain---I mean in order to perfectly describe myself---I would have to lie and tell you I am perfect--(which I am for you, of course!) I think the best way to describe myself is for you to get to know me personally so that you can personally tell me what you think of me---That way I could come up with ways of describing myself, base on actual witness' reports! ---And if it turns out that you don't like me---well then I guess I will have to make something spectacular about myself up!--So meet me and like me----otherwise I will be force to be lying to people---instead of laying with women! Update---I opened up my letters thingie here to received letters from single males as well--However that is only because I am the founder of the swapper group SINGLES WANNA MINGLE TOO--This in no way, shape or form says I want to date the singles guys here, I can date myself to that!!! It just allows for the guys in my group to contact me directly if they need to, and for other guys to send me an email if they would like to inquire what the group is about---By the way--If u are a single guy, or a single female, or a couple that allows single guys into your sex life, why don't you join as well?? We have over 170 members--and we will be growing strong~!---

What does he like sexually?

The fact that I as of yet do not need a prescription for Viagra! Sexually speaking--I like to be sexually active! I very seriously love the taste of women! I especially am always thrilled when I am able to make a woman crush my tongue with her orgasms! I am a very serious BBW admirer~! I honestly do not know why more guys are not. They really make some of the greatest lovers to be had! I love to be the reason for a lady's pleasures! It is an exciting joy for me to know--I have the ability to turn a lady on in so many ways! Please consider joining SINGLES WANNA MINGLE TOO---I am going to make this a nationwide group----we already have nearly 150 members from across this country--and I am aiming to make it over 10,000 members!!! Can I do it I wonder?????--

What does he dislike sexually?

The usual abnormal stuff that lots of people talk about on their profiles that requires for one to seriously think about the quality of other human beings that I have to be force to share this earth with. For example, I have a serious problem with someone who wants to pierce my appendages, and then try to hang me from a ceiling that way!----(Special note here----I know that my profile contains lots of pictures of my cats, of which I have ten of---This in no way shape or form mean that I make love with animals. It just that I didn't have any personal lady friends I could take naked pictures of--so I decided to take pictures of all of my "pussy" cats! Perhaps one day however--I will be able to remove those pictures, and replace them with that of a beautiful lady who will bless my life!) Are u a single male or a single female who would like to mingle with like minded people??? Are you a couple, who would either occasionally---or frequently allow for friendship with a single male as well as a single female???? Join my group--SINGLES WANNA MINGLE TOO!!! It is already nearly 150 members strong and your membership will make it stronger!!!

Unfulfilled fantasy?

Simple----Every woman who looks at my pictures on this profile of mine--will find me so irresistible and sexy, and soooo hard to resist---so that I will never have a night w/o a hot date by my side! (Or under me, or over me, or in front of me, or....) I have another fantasy, that every SINGLE one of you folks will become my new friends--and that fantasy can be fulfilled if you join the group SINGLE WANNA MINGLE TOO--today!!!

Would like to meet?

I would like to meet Abby, and Annie, and Angie, and Barbra, and Beatrice, and Bonnie, and Brittney, and Carolyn, and Christy, and Claire, and Denise, and Diana, and Donna, and Eileen, and Elise, and.......

Would not like to meet?

I would not like to meet Aarron, (unless of course he is Abby's mate), or Adam, (unless of course he is Annie's mate), or Alan, (unless of course he is Angie's mate), or Bobby, (unless of course he is Barbra's mate), or Bret, (unless of course he is Brittney's mate), or Carl, (unless of course he is Carlyn's mate), or Christopher, (unless of course he is Christy's mate), or Dennis, (unless of course he is Denise's mate), or Donald, (unless of course she is Donna's mate), or Earnest, (unless of course he is Eileen's mate), or Elvin, (unless of course he is Elise's mate), or......

I would not like to meet Aarron, (unless of course he is Abby's mate), or Adam, (unless of course he is Annie's mate), or Alan, (unless of course he is Angie's mate), or Bobby, (unless of course he is Barbra's mate), or Bret, (unless of course he is Brittney's mate), or Carl, (unless of course he is Carlyn's mate), or Christopher, (unless of course he is Christy's mate), or Dennis, (unless of course he is Denise's mate), or Donald, (unless of course she is Donna's mate), or Earnest, (unless of course he is Eileen's mate), or Elvin, (unless of course he is Elise's mate), or......

I would not like to meet Aarron, (unless of course he is Abby's mate), or Adam, (unless of course he is Annie's mate), or Alan, (unless of course he is Angie's mate), or Bobby, (unless of course he is Barbra's mate), or Bret, (unless of course he is Brittney's mate), or Carl, (unless of course he is Carlyn's mate), or Christopher, (unless of course he is Christy's mate), or Dennis, (unless of course he is Denise's mate), or Donald, (unless of course she is Donna's mate), or Earnest, (unless of course he is Eileen's mate), or Elvin, (unless of course he is Elise's mate), or......

Ideal meeting place?

Somewhere public first--like a unisex bathroom perhaps--(just kidding!) Oh--by the way--check out the Swappernet group I started--'SINGLES WANNA MINGLE TOO!'---That is a really good group to meet a lot of fun people who are already members of the group!

How would he tell you he is NOT interested?

"What?? You want me to keep going out with you??? Are you crazy??? You couldn't even suck a straw!!! I bet if Barney Fife had a choice of going out with you or Phyllis Dillar---he would ask for Phyllis' sister!"---or something not along those lines

What made him decide to try swinging?

Well--as a single male--I am actually finding it very difficult to really get into the swinging lifestyle in spite of all of the "Open-minded" swingers there suppose to be out there. However--Mary Palm, and her sister Rosie---are begging for some extra help to keep up with the work---so I told them I will check into here and hope for the best!

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ClitFriend,

 

The first thing I noticed is that you have selected yes for meeting single males. I'm glad you explained that in your profile. You also listed yourself as a swapper which I find a little odd since you have nothing so swap. I'm guessing your description was an attempt to be humorous... and to some extent it was but it just left me with a confused look on my face because it seemed that you said an awful lot to say nothing at all. Good thing you have pictures on your profile.

 

Speaking of the pictures - the ones where you are holding your camera in front of your face, make it look like you are using nose hair trimmers or something. It took pulling up the larger pics and starring for a minute to figure out that you were holding a camera.

 

Wow. You made sure you mentioned your GROUP at every possible turn, and in every section. Were I in charge of that site, I would have deleted your profile for spam. I imagine you do get a lot more contacts having that in there - from single guys...

 

Well--as a single male--I am actually finding it very difficult to really get into the swinging lifestyle inspite of all of the "Openminded" swingers there suppose to be out there. However--Mary Palm, and her sister Rosie---are begging for some extra help to keep up with the work---so I told them I will check into here and hope for the best!

This comment makes it clear that you don't really get what it means to be a single in the swinging lifestyle. Nor, did it answer the question - but then most of your answers really didn't answer the questions.

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Thanks Julie--how did you do that when I wasn't able to? To clarify--Last year Swapper made it available to its members to be able to open and run what they called "Group Central"--where we can have themes for groups--and perhaps gather a community of those who share specific interests---I opened up the group singles wanna mingle too--which apparently is becoming quite successful, and I am please with the results. I know I do have advertisements on my profile--but that info is only pertain to the specifics of that group--the non advertisements is me--so what you think?

 

But really Julie--how did you do that?

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Speaking of your pictures, you look an awfully lot like someone we used to have hanging around here - HappySexAddict.

 

Ya know looking at his profile and yours you have even more in common than looks..... same birthday, same location....

 

welcome back HappySexAddict.

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welcome back HappySexAddict.

 

Thanks Julie--it is good to be back---I was going to use that name again--but I like this name better.

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snowman85215 said:
thanks Julie

 

The first thing I notice is that you only have private photos. A nice g-rated public photo would go a long way. While this may not be correct, the fact that you only have private photos tends to make me think that the only photos you want to share are those of your cock and those aren't the photos I am interested in sharing.

 

Varies = Various

 

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I am a single professional male, 39 years old, 6’1” and 203#’s, trimmed, very clean, DDF, v-safe and very discreet. Easy going, capable of interacting socially with a couple, fun, and truly enjoy playing with couples that play together.

this which you have under additional stuff, should be what you have for your description of yourself. It does a much better job of describing you than what you put. I would suggest combining what you have as a description with what is listed above under the description.

 

For what you are looking for, I would suggest expounding a bit, what is it you want in a couple you seek? Or do you not care (which is the impression I get) so long as they are willing to have sex with you?

 

In the section on fantasies and experiences: Do you have any swinging experience? If so, say so. If not, say so. What fantasies have you fulfilled? Which ones would you like to relive? What fantasies do you have that are still unfulfilled? And in all of this, there is no need to be extremely explicit just honest and open.

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snowman...

 

I agree with everything Julie pointed out. One thing that I think you might want to scratch off your add is this:

 

"...and don't like getting involved with endless emails."

 

A lot of couples will want to get to know you a little prior to meeting you. Some readers might make the assumption that you're not into taking some online time to get a feel for one another. Just my opinion.

 

I also think you need to come up with a better tag line then this.

 

"another single male but give me a chance"

 

Your tag line needs to POP since you're a single man. This tag line almost admits defeat before the reader even views your profile. Make it stand out, make it comfortable, make it memorable.... make couples want to check it out.

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I'm taking myself out of the game for now and my profile says that in a rather concise way. Well, it will in a few minutes when I change it. I was told I had a very interesting profile, however. I wish I remember what it said. :sad:

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Snowman,

 

I think your profile isn't too shabby. Especially compared to what A LOT of single men put in their profile. There is enough there for us to at least write back wanting to know more. As long as you message isn't "Wanna Fuck??"

 

As far as your profile is laid out....

 

To us it doesn't really matter what heading you put information about yourself under, as long as it is there.

 

I did notice that where you list your height & weight you have some special characters in there. What's that all about???? :confused: I'd fix it.

 

Your pics are private, which isn't a problem but we wouldn't contact you for that reason. I would suggest opening your private pics if a couple messages you back and they seem interested.

 

I can't see what pics you have but I hope it shows more than your cock. As a matter of fact you really do not need to show your cock at all.

 

I suggest a nice full body clothed picture in a natural setting. Don't make it look like a mug shot or that you are in front of a firing squad.

 

You can block out your eyes or something for discreteness. But we want a fairly good idea of who we are talking to.

 

Your pics may already look like that, if they do I guess my advice is moot.

 

One other thing...If you ask to see a couple's private pics (which is actually a bad idea) make sure you have opened yours first.

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I am a single guy and have an ad in https://swingular.com/ my ID is spider1955 . How does my ad look to everyone? I have nude pics on there, so was just wanting some advice. I am a nudist, so nude is natural to me. Hope to hear from you all soon! :)

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Sorry webbguy...

 

We're not members of Swingular , and when I went to the site I couldn't find any place for non-members to view profiles. Does the site offer any way for you to have an external profile link like SLS does? If not, you could copy and paste your profile here (without pictures) so other's who are not members of Swingular could give you their opinions of it.

 

 

Teresa

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webbguy said:
I am a single guy and have an ad in https://swingular.com/ my ID is spider1955 . How does my ad look to everyone? I have nude pics on there, so was just wanting some advice. I am a nudist, so nude is natural to me. Hope to hear from you all soon! :)

My advice would be that if you want people to look at your pics, you better grow a pussy. By and large, NOBODY pays much attention to guys pics, especially dick-pics, on swingers websites.

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JnCC said:
My advice would be that if you want people to look at your pics, you better grow a pussy. By and large, NOBODY pays much attention to guys pics, especially dick-pics, on swingers websites.

 

Ummmm...he's a single man...which means there really shouldn't be any pics of "pussy" on his ad.

 

And yes, people do pay attention to guys pics....especially those couples who are looking for a single man for a threesome. I kind of enjoy looking at pictures of men's dicks...I however am not overly fond of that being the first picture that is presented to me on initial contact but, when it's included with other tasteful pictures I don't mind at all.

 

Teresa

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I kind of enjoy looking at pictures of men's dicks...

 

Teresa

 

Ok then...

 

My advice would be that if you want people to look at your pics, you better grow a pussy. By and large, nobody except Teresa pays much attention to guys pics, especially dick-pics, on swingers websites.

Fair enough?

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Fair enough?

 

A little better, except you said nobody except me....I'm sure I'm not the only person who likes looking at men's dicks.

 

 

Teresa :)

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A little better, except you said nobody except me....I'm sure I'm not the only person who likes looking at men's dicks.

 

Teresa :)

 

By and large, nobody except Teresa, a relative handful of other women, and 15 million gay GUYS pays much attention to dick-pics on swingers websites.
:lol:

 

Am I gettin' close?

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My advice would be that if you want people to look at your pics, you better grow a pussy. By and large, NOBODY pays much attention to guys pics, especially dick-pics, on swingers websites.

 

Not true my friend. My profile on SLS still gets a lot of views and I enjoy receiving new mail often. I also do not have any "dick pics" on my profile. If the site would just fix the formatting issue for public profiles I’d say click the link in my profile here. It’s best viewed by SLS members who log in and do a search for my name.

 

I will also open the private photos if anyone is curious, just message me.

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Vespertine said:
Maybe you can copy & paste your add if you want to share it?

 

I understand the bulk of the add won't be viewable in appropriate form, but we should be able to catch the gist of it.

 

OK, I'm up for the women/couples in the crowd to rate my ad on SLS and et me know why I am not getting enough responses. I've always heard that nice guys finish last, yet at the same time no-one wants to deal with an asshole.

As someone that is a professional, halfway decent looking, truly single (a bachelor) pretty easygoing and not pushy why do I have such a hard time trying to find a single woman playmate or a couple? I do have to say that I only write to and am interested in people that are in pretty good shape, which cuts out a LOT of people on SLS.

 

Rate me if you would-let me know what is wrong with my profile.

 

cabeachguy on swinglifestyle.com

 

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Hello everyone, I just finished my SLS profile and would like constructive feedback. As I know most of you have an sls account, please search for my username (yourlatincall).

 

I'm a paid member although it may not be showing just yet (did it last night). Also I uploaded the public and private pictures this morning so, some may not be available either.

 

I think it's a bit too long, although I've heard over and over more is better when it comes to profiles. Your feedback about changes will be greatly appreciated.

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Here are my notes from reading your profile. It's very well written, but there are a few spelling/grammar errors.

 

Under Description,

 

Sorry, simply it isn't there. (reword to say, Sorry, it simply isn't there)

 

Under Our fantasies,

 

A MFM fantasy (the A should be capitalized).

 

We consider going to clubs (should be considered - past tense)

 

had long discussion about it (should be discussions (plural) or a long discussion (singular))

 

I swear! A try story. (should be A true story)

 

Under What else we'd like to say,

 

Take out the part that starts "In the same light:" Too much info.

 

Finally, I gave much thought before I open (should be opened - past tense)

 

(except fro an initial introduction) should be (except for)

 

and only we we all agree (too many we's) I think you mean "and only when we all agree"

 

Good luck! You seem like a nice gentleman and should do well in your area. Do read the comments regarding single males in this forum, so you'll gain some insight into entering into this lifestyle.

 

Mrs. D

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Thanks. It was a late night. I actually changed most of the typos this morning but I will double check to make sure I caught the ones you mentioned. Thanks again. Y.

 

Here are my notes from reading your profile. It's very well written, but there are a few spelling/grammar errors.

 

Under Description,

 

Sorry, simply it isn't there. (reword to say, Sorry, it simply isn't there)

 

Under Our fantasies,

 

A MFM fantasy (the A should be capitalized).

 

We consider going to clubs (should be considered - past tense)

 

had long discussion about it (should be discussions (plural) or a long discussion (singular))

 

I swear! A try story. (should be A true story)

 

Under What else we'd like to say,

 

Take out the part that starts "In the same light:" Too much info.

 

Finally, I gave much thought before I open (should be opened - past tense)

 

(except fro an initial introduction) should be (except for)

 

and only we we all agree (too many we's) I think you mean "and only when we all agree"

 

Good luck! You seem like a nice gentleman and should do well in your area. Do read the comments regarding single males in this forum, so you'll gain some insight into entering into this lifestyle.

 

Mrs. D

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Hmmm.... Well, honestly, if we were looking for a single male to play with and were in your area, we would consider you as a possibility. Good luck!

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Thank you ncmd_couple. I have received some encouraging feedback from people in the area and I'm excited to get to know them. I know the swinging single is not an easy road, but I hope I get to meet some great people and have some fun on the way. Cheers! and Thanks!

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I just read your profile and I am very impressed.

 

Although it's long, I glided right through it because it held my interest with every word.

 

I found it friendly, lively, humorous, clear, intelligent, specific, visual, honest and inviting. I thought, I sure would like to meet this guy, he sounds so interesting. You gave me the feeling that you could converse easily and could talk about many subjects and that's appealing to me.

 

Mrs. D earlier brought up some spelling and grammar errors, and you have made those changes. Because everything now looks so perfect, I have to mention that you've missed an apostrophe in your profile. I'm sure you'll spot it. :D

 

Good luck in meeting some great people on your new adventure!

 

LM

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Yourlatincall

 

Thank you Likeminds! I know its a bit long, but hopefully people react like you did and continue reading the entire post. Thanks again!

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I think it's a strong profile...the only thing is you don't separate the description of yourself from what you are looking for and the latter could be expanded on a little.

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On a 1-10 scale of single male profiles I've seen, you scored a solid 9 in my book. Nice picture, good conversational tone, positive and upbeat. Good job!

 

Now... when are you coming to the Midwest U.S.? ;)

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Hi everyone. Here is my SLS profile (4321ready) I hope will be reviewed:

 

Interest Levels

Tame 4 on a scale of 0-4 Couples 3 on a scale of 0-4

Moderate 4 on a scale of 0-4 Males

Wild 4 on a scale of 0-4 Females 3 on a scale of 0-4

 

Desired Age Range: 18 to 45

Other Info: Drinkers OK Smokers OK

 

We Are Looking For:

I would enjoy meeting people with maturity, intelligence, and a sense of humor. Physical attraction towards the woman is very important for me. However, in the past there have been a few women who attracted me because of their fantastic personalities, even though others did not believe they were attractive.

 

I am looking to experience this whole swinging lifestyle from the inside, to penetrate this subculture while slowly sliding into it. It may be a long, hard journey, but I'm sure I'll love it in the end.

 

I am aware that I am at the mercy of the court, so to speak. Couples and single women have the advantage over me in this lifestyle: what you say goes. This is fine.

Description:

I have a fair body, nice chest, and a bionic penis with kung-fu grip action. I am not pushy and I understand that people have boundaries, having strong self-control. Personality is very important to me and if I don't like someone then I simply cannot involve myself sexually with them.

 

By myself, do I live (that's my Yoda impression).

 

I enjoy snowboarding and the occasional lap swim, as well as reading, writing, and arithmetic. Well, not arithmetic, nor writing, but I do read. I just read Green Eggs and Ham cover-to-cover, and am currently reading Murder on the Orient Express, which is my first Agatha Christie. I am also into psychological, sociological, and various historical literature.

 

I eat relatively healthy, consuming mostly organic foods but still having a tough time with vegetables. I am in school right now majoring in social sciences, so if you like talking about social issues you know how talkative college students can be. Of course, there is a great deal I don't know, but pretending like I know is fun.

 

Our fantasies and/or real experiences:

My fantasies are to be able to always vote for the right president, and to end the war in Iraq.

 

What else we'd like to say, do, see, hear about and/or learn:

I am very polite, patient, and respectful. Unless you look at me funny, and then I will light myself on fire and run around naked screaming "aahhh I hate this place!".

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Hi everyone. Here is my SLS profile (4321ready) I hope will be reviewed:

 

 

I see that you have edited your actual SLS profile some since you copied and pasted to here, so my review is based on what you have on your actual SLS profile.....

 

You can link to your SLS profile from here (if you have external profile enabled on SLS) by clicking UserCP at the top of the page then "edit profile" and entering your SLS username where requested.

 

Review: I don't quite get your tagline, although I'm guessing it's a play on the fact that there's a million single guys out there (and you realize that). I'd probably just take off the 7A part. It's good that you are not taking yourself too seriously. Also, based on your picture you are rather cute (IMO).

 

Under "what we are looking for": it sounds like you really aren't interested in couples... and if you are, you aren't really considering the male half at all (as far as respecting him), or what you will/can be doing for them as a couple. You might want to rethink how that is written.

 

The first paragraph there makes me really question that you even understand what you are saying in the second paragraph (about experiencing all that the swinging lifestyle has to offer).

 

In the above copy & paste that you posted, you had a third paragraph which I think was a good one and one you should have left in your profile. I'm wondering why you removed it.

 

The rest of your profile was light-hearted and made me smile (which is all good). I would simply just work on that first part about what you are looking for - with the understanding that a couple looking for a single needs to feel that he understands where they are coming from as much as they need to understand where he is coming from.

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If possible, I'd like it if someone reviewed my profile. I'm not actively looking for a couple at this time, but it would be nice to know if I'm even slightly fuckable. :o

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I feel like such a dweeb asking for a review, but if someone wouldn't mind critiquing mine, I would appreciate it. Please be as honest as you can. Thanks in advance.

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Mr. Essex - I couldn't find your profile? What's your sls name?

 

Taylor74 - Very nice! It's written intelligently with a bit of humor. A tad long winded at times...but I'm terribly guilty of that myself. :)

 

Things I liked:

- The very first sentence is great!

- Good spelling and grammar ;)

- Your overall approach to the lifestyle, and openness to diversity

- Your photo (nice!)

- Your humor

- Your tagline

 

Things for improvement:

- The paragraph beginning "As a single male..." I'm not sure what you were meaning to say here?

- Fantasies and Experiences Section: Last sentence doesn't make sense...might be inadvertently insulting.

- Need more "physical" in the description section! I like your personality...now make me want your body!

- Need more in the fantasies...not just "who" but "what"...what is your idea of crazy fun?

 

Best of luck!

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Mr. Essex - I couldn't find your profile? What's your sls name?

 

 

I think that it's fixed. If you can't find it, my username on that site is the same as my username here, without punctuation and spaces.

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I think that it's fixed. If you can't find it, my username on that site is the same as my username here, without punctuation and spaces.

 

Yep, it's fixed.

 

Mr. Essex, I took you as a wild man... Not really a moderate one. :)

 

Love the tag line!

 

Seriously? I like the whole profile. You have a sense of humor and you don't come off as arrogant. If you lived closer .... ::P:

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Yep, it's fixed.

 

Mr. Essex, I took you as a wild man... Not really a moderate one. :)

 

Love the tag line!

 

Seriously? I like the whole profile. You have a sense of humor and you don't come off as arrogant. If you lived closer .... ::P:

 

Me, wild? Heavens forbid! :hahaha:

 

I like it. My profile, I mean. I'm going to have to change my address in a few weeks, but it's pretty good.

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Well I guess its my turn I have a SLS ad under crazi429 and also a swinger zone central profile under same name crazi429

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Well I guess its my turn I have a SLS ad under crazi429 and also a swinger zone central profile under same name crazi429

 

The one thing I would suggest is that if you aren't into RECEIVING anal, you might want to reword how that part is worded... as it is right now I don't know if you want to put on a strap-on and give some anal or have a woman use it on you.

 

Also, make sure when you refer to ED that you capitalize both letters, otherwise I don't know if you are referring to some guy named Ed.

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I will correct the ED and as for the anal thing it is probably my biggest fantasy. I have love receiving anal play ever since a of girl friend did all kinds of nasty things ::P:with her tongue:facelick: back there.

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