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Forum: Swinging Boundaries and Rules

We want to swinging, but there are boundaries. What rules are needed to prevent disaster?

  1. Single male friend came inside wife

    by jkc4u, 09-05-2012 04:54 AM
    trust
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 39,735
    02-16-2019, 07:43 AM Go to last post
  2. MFM threesome that became a twosome: advice required

    by Moondance, 11-06-2010 02:11 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    left out
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 35,888
    03-11-2019, 04:32 AM Go to last post
  3. Wife sharing ... crossing the line?

    by jandlvaldosta, 05-06-2011 10:21 PM
    6 Pages
    1 2 3 4 5 6
    gifts, indecent proposal
    • Replies: 125
    • Views: 29,063
    04-10-2012, 12:40 PM Go to last post
  4. Let Wife's boss touch her while she was passed out

    by jr555666, 05-30-2005 02:55 PM
    6 Pages
    1 2 3 4 5 6
    assault, bad idea, drinking and swinging, inappropriate, touching
    • Replies: 130
    • Views: 28,112
    06-10-2005, 12:15 AM Go to last post
  5. Girlfriend broke the rules, I want to break up.

    by cereel, 03-28-2014 10:14 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    breaking rules, swinging not for us
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 20,892
    04-01-2014, 09:55 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 19,005
    09-25-2013, 12:03 PM Go to last post
  6. Smile Is kissing a big deal?

    by HotCoupleGnS, 04-17-2004 10:31 AM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    • Replies: 63
    • Views: 16,431
    07-08-2004, 07:10 AM Go to last post
  7. First Swap! DH forgot OUR rules! What to do??

    by pacpl4funn, 10-20-2005 09:26 AM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    breaking rules, rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 54
    • Views: 15,885
    11-03-2005, 11:33 AM Go to last post
  8. Question about soft swing problems

    by latin2012, 05-14-2012 11:42 PM
    blowjob, left out, new swingers, oral sex, soft swinging
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 15,216
    05-16-2012, 11:12 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 36
    • Views: 14,601
    01-23-2007, 08:10 AM Go to last post
  9. My wife broke our rule at a club

    by candj5, 09-06-2006 09:53 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    breaking rules
    • Replies: 41
    • Views: 14,464
    09-16-2006, 12:24 PM Go to last post
  10. Red face Left Out of a Threesome

    by Bratcat, 12-02-2002 09:30 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    bad experiences, left out, threesome
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 13,261
    05-26-2003, 11:06 PM Go to last post
  11. is Kissing Required

    by New2theSwingSet, 08-30-2005 03:01 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    kissing
    • Replies: 67
    • Views: 13,212
    10-20-2005, 10:13 PM Go to last post
  12. Unhappy He came in her mouth without warning - faux pas?

    by Unregistered, 08-01-2003 08:09 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    etiquette
    • Replies: 35
    • Views: 12,463
    02-10-2019, 04:05 AM Go to last post
  13. Girlfriend messed up...did full swap

    by Famous04, 06-13-2009 02:15 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    breaking rules
    • Replies: 44
    • Views: 12,455
    07-22-2009, 02:27 AM Go to last post
  14. Full Swap that made for an awkward situation...

    by SwingingForFun, 04-09-2008 10:22 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    awkward situation, bad experiences, full swap, not interested
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 12,133
    05-05-2008, 08:44 PM Go to last post
  15. Feeling like she's getting all the fun

    by discoandvyper, 08-07-2006 12:56 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    left out, one sided
    • Replies: 51
    • Views: 12,115
    09-02-2006, 05:48 PM Go to last post
  16. [A] I don't like other men's cum

    by Bob250, 07-26-2015 10:54 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    couples, cum, good, issue, mfm, mouth, sex, swingers
    • Replies: 39
    • Views: 11,899
    09-23-2015, 04:27 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 46
    • Views: 11,715
    09-20-2008, 05:16 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 11,619
    03-31-2004, 07:44 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 59
    • Views: 11,547
    09-29-2003, 11:25 PM Go to last post
  17. My husband played after I fell asleep

    by adventureUS, 03-15-2005 12:29 PM
    3 Pages
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    breaking rules, rules and boundaries, trust
    • Replies: 50
    • Views: 11,366
    03-20-2005, 06:02 PM Go to last post
  18. a selfish husband contemplating divorce

    by texmo, 10-20-2007 03:34 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    divorce, not interested, priorities
    • Replies: 65
    • Views: 11,188
    11-21-2007, 02:58 PM Go to last post
  19. Swing Partner Took the Condom Off!

    by thump29, 06-12-2003 08:49 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    assault, condoms, etiquette, single males, trust
    • Replies: 37
    • Views: 10,925
    06-19-2003, 09:33 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 35
    • Views: 10,603
    04-21-2010, 04:52 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 52
    • Views: 10,513
    12-05-2005, 08:57 PM Go to last post
  20. Question Do you kiss and how passionately?

    by Grene, 07-15-2005 04:09 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    kissing
    • Replies: 48
    • Views: 10,135
    07-21-2005, 09:18 AM Go to last post
  21. Oral sex and partner expectations

    by westcan, 01-17-2009 06:09 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    expectations, oral sex
    • Replies: 36
    • Views: 9,984
    03-07-2010, 01:47 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 38
    • Views: 9,965
    04-18-2009, 03:43 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 9,931
    03-27-2007, 07:33 AM Go to last post
  22. Unhappy Will I ever get over our swinging experience?

    by Unregistered, 12-03-2009 04:03 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    bad experiences, regret
    • Replies: 45
    • Views: 9,912
    12-11-2009, 07:48 AM Go to last post
  23. Broken Full Swap Boundaries

    by BuNNyinmi, 11-16-2004 09:19 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    breaking rules, rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 48
    • Views: 9,804
    11-23-2004, 04:09 PM Go to last post
  24. [M] Playmates aren't my equal

    by benawyl, 10-03-2015 12:32 PM
    4 Pages
    1 2 3 4
    • Replies: 78
    • Views: 9,628
    11-08-2015, 04:23 PM Go to last post
  25. Anxious

    by Nat, 07-15-2012 03:51 AM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    cheating, forced to swing, relationship issues
    • Replies: 66
    • Views: 9,619
    10-28-2012, 09:25 PM Go to last post
  26. Pulling out, before coming, your thoughts?

    by myspaceguru, 09-23-2006 02:55 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    rules and boundaries, safe sex
    • Replies: 44
    • Views: 9,536
    11-03-2006, 09:12 AM Go to last post
  27. I feel the friendship is gone...and the guy used my wife

    by NH603, 07-18-2010 10:14 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    playing solo
    • Replies: 63
    • Views: 9,316
    08-05-2010, 10:38 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 9,315
    04-20-2009, 10:29 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 45
    • Views: 9,308
    11-08-2006, 12:32 PM Go to last post
  28. Red face Other girl's date assumed I'd do him

    by Tybee Swing, 10-10-2006 01:17 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    bad experiences, bad feeling
    • Replies: 41
    • Views: 9,287
    10-28-2006, 09:44 AM Go to last post
  29. Unhappy Broken Rules and Bad Feelings

    by Fire_and_Air, 04-04-2003 05:15 PM
    breaking rules, hurt feelings
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 9,176
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    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 9,165
    08-13-2006, 12:33 AM Go to last post
  30. Your neighbor may be a swinger if...

    by jjtrindc, 09-22-2008 09:59 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    signs and symbols
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 9,164
    10-18-2008, 12:15 AM Go to last post
  31. First time threesome issues could use some advise

    by alwayscurious34, 11-19-2012 12:30 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 50
    • Views: 8,967
    12-10-2012, 08:48 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 48
    • Views: 8,667
    02-16-2006, 09:01 PM Go to last post
  32. Frustrated & Feeling Left Out

    by seriously, 10-08-2005 11:36 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    left out
    • Replies: 41
    • Views: 8,605
    12-27-2005, 01:41 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 36
    • Views: 8,539
    07-12-2010, 07:42 PM Go to last post
  33. Boundaries crossed now GF wants to breakup

    by lwg8tr0514, 04-24-2013 11:54 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    breaking rules, one sided, rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 8,488
    05-08-2013, 06:56 PM Go to last post
  34. His actions with the female make me uncomfortable...

    by jonelle514, 11-13-2008 12:03 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    comfort level, rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 35
    • Views: 8,274
    12-05-2008, 06:36 PM Go to last post
  35. Couple interested in wife but not me

    by big_ems, 01-22-2008 09:42 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    red flags
    • Replies: 40
    • Views: 8,217
    03-12-2008, 05:23 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 8,217
    07-17-2006, 08:03 AM Go to last post

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