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  1. #26

    Default Re: How do you feel about single men at a house party?

    We were planning on going to an indoor nudist party that accepts swingers. Mostly couples, some singles. No photos or cameras allowed. Yet some single guy is making an issue because he wants photos of people entering and leaving to be posted on his website. Smiling faces he calls it. Probably the same guy who was jerking off by the jacuzzi last year until he was told to shut it down and leave after many complaints. Whatís with these guys? No class or awareness.

  2. #27

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    Quote Originally Posted by Twilighttap View Post
    We were planning on going to an indoor nudist party that accepts swingers. Mostly couples, some singles. No photos or cameras allowed. Yet some single guy is making an issue because he wants photos of people entering and leaving to be posted on his website. Smiling faces he calls it. Probably the same guy who was jerking off by the jacuzzi last year until he was told to shut it down and leave after many complaints. Whatís with these guys? No class or awareness.
    ...pretty much called it...definitely no class...borderling pervvy; surely a porn freak and someone who is truly not into what the lifestyle is about...

  3. #28

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    You want pictures? We want privacy...what we want wins. Either no pictures or no attendance.

    Just knowing that there will be single guys there, we would think twice about going...
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

  4. #29

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    Wanting to take pictures at a swingers party to post on your website and show off the smiling faces is unbelievably tone-deaf.

  5. #30

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    I can imagine you gave up on parties where single men are allowed.
    However, would you also give up on parties where single women are allowed?
    If not, please be so kind to question your motives for swinging.
    If you are in couples swinging, no problem, stay with that.
    If you are into sharing your wife or your wife sharing you, then couples swinging is not for you, I presume.
    If you dont mind to share your wife with other guys, then the presence of more men as women is a kind of "must".

  6. #31
    Swingers Board Addict adamgunn's Avatar
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    Default Re: How do you feel about single men at a house party?

    Expat, my wife and I constantly debated going to house parties where single men were allowed. Yes, we knew what our 'motives' were.

    Unfortunately, it's a fact of life that when you have 'too many' single men together, things have a habit of getting out of hand. When we went to house parties, we mainly went for foursome sex. Occasionally, we might get into a small orgy; in those cases, there tended to be (for us) an even number of men and women, with not more than one single man.

    However we noticed when there was an abundance of single men at a house party and even at a club, they tended to egg each other on, the respect that they normally had was reduced. That was the reason we tended not to go to house parties where there were more than a couple of single men.

    Now, before you stomp on me too, we often enjoyed single men in threesome situations. I talked to them often about how they were expected to behave, and they understood the prejudice that accompanies the single male. I personally have no problems with single men.

    I can say that I never saw single women acting disrespectfully. Of course, I don't think I ever saw more than one or two single women at a party, so . . .

  7. #32

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    As a single female I never attend parties alone based on my experiences with both single and married men at parties, and I will only attend with a well trusted partner.

  8. #33

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    Most certainly, I will not stomp on you.
    Well, I have been running a club for a few years, and I had very strict rules.
    Most important, the woman always had the first and the last word, period.
    Every evening there were always one or more single women, besides couples, knowing there were more men.
    But never had any problems with pushy males, because make a problem, out you go.
    I had a special day for women wanting it all, in the weekend couples only, and the rest of the week the mix of couples, single men and single women.
    I presume you would have liked it with me.
    In later years I went to clubs with my girlfriend, sometimes she wanted a one on one, sometimes couple on couple, and sometimes she wanted more songs with men.
    Never had a problem, but, in the clubs we visited there were strict rules.
    And that worked.
    Years after I sold the club, I met customers in clubs I recommended to them.


  9. #34
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    Single female view here: I can understand why some people would be confused or annoyed if it's a couples only night. If it's not then I think a few extra guys is a good thing for threesomes and looking after girls like me (although I love playing with couples). If there are a lot of single men it should be advertised as a gangbang night, which is also great, but then couples would know what they're going to.

  10. #35

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    Quote Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple View Post
    I will admit that this question derives from a conversation that I saw at a different social media Web site. But I believe that it is a worthwhile question, so here it is.

    For any of you who attend private house parties as a couple, does the presence of a single man or single men at a house party make you uncomfortable? I have my own feeling about this but will keep them to myself for the present so this conversation can be open.
    For me and "us" it really depends. Once at a club there were mostly single men... just a bad vibe. Best is with couples and throw in the odd single lady (not as pushy and do not try to play voyeur-creepy). However we did at a party notice there were a couple of extra men at the event. Luckily they were younger snd in great shape. They basically were brought in to help service and bring some spice to the mix.

  11. #36

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    One of the issues is a lack of vetting/preselection for single males. Many clubs/hosts just don't want to do that and invite anyone who will pay the club fee. Most of the single males I know are nice guys and very well experienced in the lifestyle. If some place doesn't want us there, that's fine. I don't want to be there, and I'll be sure to avoid the spot when I have a female date.

    It is just a bit different than inviting a bunch of couples or bunch of women. You have to know the guys a bit or see them in action to know that they will show up and how they will act.

  12. #37
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jane1902 View Post
    As a single female I never attend parties alone based on my experiences with both single and married men at parties, and I will only attend with a well trusted partner.
    I've had very few problems with married men at parties, but when they did occur they were resolved quickly, usually with the hosts intervening and asking the couple to leave.

    I absolutely will not attend parties where single males are present. Some are just too pushy and won't take "no" for an answer, but most often they just make things awkward. When I was younger and first started going to house parties that allowed single males, I found that they couldn't leave our sexual encounters at the party. So many times they would ask me to go on dates with them. They were obviously looking for a relationship with a lifestyle female and couldn't understand that I wasn't looking for dates or a relationship, or that I was in the lifestyle just for no-strings-attached recreational sex.

  13. #38

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    Quote Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple View Post
    I will admit that this question derives from a conversation that I saw at a different social media Web site. But I believe that it is a worthwhile question, so here it is.

    For any of you who attend private house parties as a couple, does the presence of a single man or single men at a house party make you uncomfortable? I have my own feeling about this but will keep them to myself for the present so this conversation can be open.
    I am a single male and I have never been to a house party so I can provide zero insight here but I want to participate if its cool. Hypothetically if I went to a house party as a married man I would have not agreed to go if there was something to make me uncomfortable. Anything... I'm wondering what "uncomfortable" will mean when I read some responses. I am still amazed single men get invited.

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    Friends throw a periodic intimate party at their house, generally 6-8 couples and one single male. They assured us upon our initial invite that the guy was very respectful and fun to have around. We had our doubts but since we knew the host couple and one other couple in the group, we gave it a shot. Turns out that "Bob" was all that and more. He's a tall, thin guy in his 40's, very nice looking, with a bigger than average penis and is a guy who believes in the concept of ladies first. He didn't cull out one of the women and pound her silly in a separate room and then angle for the next, the guy paid attention to the group dynamic and initially was the 2nd dick in a 3-some with Mrs Doc and me. He moved off after a bit but came back when invited but was never pushy and clearly respected the husband/wife relationship with everyone there. We joked later that Bob had broken the code. He came twice, bonked 4 middle aged women, and was a part of somewhere around a dozen orgasms, some of Mrs Doc's included. We have since been to several additional parties and found that the guy was an absolute gentleman. He's a far cry from some of the trolls we've encountered at other house parties and some swingers clubs. We would invite him to our home and that's saying a lot.

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    Default Re: How do you feel about single men at a house party?

    PaDoc, yes, that's the kind of single gentlemen that should be invited to house parties.

    At the house parties we went to there were often these respectful unattached men. My wife enjoyed the dynamic, often played with them, reserving them for after we'd swapped with a couple. I can't remember a time when a single male was a jerk in the cliques we hung out with.

  16. #41

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    Quote Originally Posted by Saudi Girl View Post
    I wish there were more single men at swingers parties. That’s more men for me to fuck.
    Love ya!!! ... priceless!


  17. #42

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    We host parties and try to keep an even number of men and women. That means if we invite a single guy, we invite a single girl. We realize that a cancellation at the last minute is always a possibility so the single guy is always someone that we know is respectful. We only invite about 8 couples and it has never been a problem.
    Single guys are not a problem, per se, it's the way they handle themselves. If they are respectful, they are respected!

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