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My wife and I are looking to go to a club in MD and wanted some feedback about a club named A private affair in MD. Can anyone help? Thanks

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Have heard good things from a couple with whom we are friends. Try it and report back!

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We LOVE TPA! It was our 2nd club, the first place we actually started to get our feet wet, the first place we ever played with another couple and the 1st place we ever swapped. It's always clean, the clientele is friendly, approach people, tell them it's your 1st time, ask questions. You'll be very welcome. Its BYOB, they have a basic buffet and a large dance floor. They have a smokers lounge, smoke free in the club and play rooms. There is a sex swing, a few rooms with 1 bed, a couple with multiple beds and there is a glory hole room that is always a stop for Mrs Doc. I didn't look at your age but there are couples of all ages on most saturday nights. They allow a few single males who are generally respectful but if someone isn't, a quick conversation with the staff and the guy is gone. You have to pre-register from their website which is how they maintain a 10:1 ratio of couples to sm. Our 1st night there 15 years ago was an APG night and was eye opening. Other swinger sites have parties as well and those are always well attended. TPA is one of the things we really miss about life in the northeast. We were "home" for the holidays and will admit that we blew off family to spend NYE at the club. We had a blast in spite of the cold and didn't get back to the hotel until 3:00. If you decide to go, stay at the HI Express or the Days Inn in Northeast. Both are clean and relatively new and only 15 minutes from the club.

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We live on Maryland's eastern shore and are considering visiting a club to try and find friends like ourselves. There doesn't seem to be any bars at the beach areas that are known to be LS meeting places.

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Thanks for posting this, we are going to TPA in a few weeks for our first experience ever, and this makes us a bit more comfortable.

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Thanks for posting this, we are going to TPA in a few weeks for our first experience ever, and this makes us a bit more comfortable.

 

We'd be interested in hearing about your experience. We are thinking of going to TPA or Tabu for our first experience.

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We'd be interested in hearing about your experience. We are thinking of going to TPA or Tabu for our first experience.

 

We're going there on 8/4 for our first time. We will definitely tell you how it goes!

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It was not a good experience. Several instances of unsolicited grabbing, and an overly aggressive host, along with a fairly trashy clientele(saying something as I'm from Texas) made us decide to stay with house parties and private swaps.

 

I sent an email to another host couple just to let them know, but I can't recommend it to anyone.

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It was not a good experience. Several instances of unsolicited grabbing, and an overly aggressive host, along with a fairly trashy clientele(saying something as I'm from Texas) made us decide to stay with house parties and private swaps.

 

I sent an email to another host couple just to let them know, but I can't recommend it to anyone.

 

Sorry to hear your experience at this club didn’t work out better for you folks. But good of you to follow up here so others will be able to make use of your feedback. Glad you have options available that work out better.

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