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We are heading to Cuba on May 4th and will be staying at a non-lifestyle resort. As we enjoy getting together with other couples or inviting another guy to join us for some threesome fun, we are wondering if anyone has had any luck in attracting or getting the attention of potential interested play partners at non-LS resorts?

 

If so, does anyone have any suggestions/tips/tricks that could help us in seeing if there are other people in the LS like us that may be willing to explore the possibility of some adult fun during our stay? After all, we are sure that we are not the only LS people that frequent non-LS resorts from time-to-time.

 

Thanks and all the best to all Swingersboard members.

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Hanging out by the pool late at night always got us some attention , wasn't welcome then though as neither of us were interested in swinging lol.

But yeah whenever we used to settle on the loungers by the pool with a few beers it wouldn't be too long before somebody stopped to chat, a few times it ended with some drunken skinny dipping but nothing more

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There are always people to talk to at resorts. The pool/hot tub once the sun goes down is a great and often quiet place to start. A drink or two, some flirty conversation, maybe a slight wardrobe malfunction, you'll get the idea if the other couple or guy is interested. If so, suggest a nightcap in your room, once there, you absolutely "must get out of this damp suit". Put on a robe and offer the other woman one as well. That SHOULD get the ball rolling. It did for us at a Sandals in St Lucia.

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I dress a bit on the sexy side of the norm for where we are at, we sit at the bar, chat with those who will chat with us and see where it goes. Often times, it ends up somewhere.

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