Advice for newbies coming in soft

Hello all.

Just had a question. What are your thoughts on where would be best to have our first adventure in the lifestyle. Me and my wife are new to this and have never been to a party club etc.....And we were wondering were would be the best venue to attend if we intend to come in soft and don't want to be overwhelmed our first time out....also your thoughts on resorts (Ohio Michigan and Indiana)

Thanks

I think a club, well-run hotel party or meet and greet would be your best bet. They are more to less risque in that order.

At a club you can have sex there yourselves or play with other couples at the club. At a hotel party there is a dance in the ballroom and then you can play in your room or theirs. At a meet and greet you just meet and flirt with people. You can get to know a bunch of people and then set up a time to play later with the ones you hit it off with.

There are some great clubs in IN and OH. I have been to Champagne in Ft Wayne, Princeton in Columbus, OH and Sinday in Middletown, OH and would recommend all of them. I've heard good things about NV in Muncie, IN. I don't know much about MI. There are two popular meet and greet groups in SW OH, Dayton Meet and Greets and Silk Nights. There are two very good hotel party hosts, Secret Sinsations and Twizted Dezires(yes, that's how they spell it).

You can find all these groups on Swingerzonecentral. That is the best site for OH/IN/Northern KY.

I still think a meet-and-greet is a good bet for a less intimidating setting to meet some fellow swingers. If you find people you both like, you can exchange contact information for later, or for getting together another time.

What do you mean when you say, "we intend to come in soft"? Are you saying that you are interested specifically in soft swap? Or do you simply mean that you want to ease your way into this?

Thanks for for the info... as far as your question on coming in soft. We just want to ease into this. Love to meet and talk with people first and be mentored so to speak.

Another option to consider is a vacation to Hedonism 2 in Negril Jamaica. Hedo is a beautiful place where you will meet great people and have wonderful staff take care of you. You can start on the clothing-optional side of the resort or head straight for the nude pool and hot tub. There are many opportunities to fulfill any fantasies you may have, or you can just relax by yourselves. From the website, go to groups and entertainment, in-house groups, to see the groups that will be there the week you want to go, then contact them to get a group rate. It may be the best vacation you have ever taken. Have fun!