Ladies: What is your favorite play?

Do you enjoy playing with a couple, another man mfm, another woman ffm, a party, or alone with another woman or man?

My favorite is my husband and me! Then we have all these other choices. We do party a bunch of times a year especially in the fall as our parties are normally football weekends. I particularly enjoy being with my old college girlfriends. Other times we have visitors to NY and usually it’s girlfriends who will join me and my husband, sometimes couples too. My husband’s best friend joins us often and he often stays with me when my husband travels. I am probably with this friend more than anybody else aside from my husband. I have no romantic attraction to him but enjoy being with him.

My husband and I playing in any combination is great and we always have fun. My husband is onboard that I can play alone when he’s away and he can play when he travels. The dynamic is so different when I am alone with our guy friend. BTW I also play alone with my girlfriend who I originally excluded from our play.

Most definitely alone with a male partner. The total dynamic of play changes when we play together. I don’t need two men to make me happy. Multi couple play brings out the worst in some men. You don’t need to prove anything, and some men need to show how good they are even when they’re not.

I am not bisexual and it seems when with a couple or couples it happens. The one time I played alone with a woman, not my suggestion, was a 100 times more fun than in front of others.

To answer for me alone with a male.

For me as a man, alone with a woman or FMF with my wife. Although with the people who we play with, it's all good so long as a woman's there.

.. To answer for me alone with a male.

This had me thinking because our playing keeps changing. Normally Mike and I are in the same room. We were voyeurs in the beginning and a little exhibitionist. Now I enjoy new partners and Michael is good at watching and sometimes joining. At parties, depending on others we will both play and I will play both men and women. I search out a man I never met before. My choice is meeting a new man and experience the thrill of the newness. Michael says he enjoys watching me and then joining if the moment is right

My wife likes it all. MFM, solo with a male, foursomes, moresomes.

It depends on her mood and the opportunities that are presented. Variety is the spice of swinging.

For me nothing is better then my husband and another man taking care of me.

For me nothing is better then my husband and another man taking care of me.

This is what my wife enjoys the most as well. The two things she enjoys the most are having sex and giving head at the same time, and having both of us cum inside of her (that part's only with a regular boyfriend she's played with a few times already).

... a recap of the evening that often is so erotic in the telling that we end up rinsing in the pool and boinking each other one last time before sleep. .

We bypass the rinsing and just get down into that mess we spend the past hours creating as soon as we're in the door. There's just something about my wife having sex with others that makes me want her more.

I do enjoy and prefer playing alone with another man, one at a time, in a network of relationships. I enjoy the care and deeper connection that goes with it. More than two at a time are sometimes enjoyable too if with people Im already in relationship with or with extra awesome persons I share chemistry with instatntly.

Certainly the best is a romantic evening with my husband but in terms of LS play, my absolute favorite is MMFM, but those are few and far between. Our most common LS play is MFM, our first one just kind of happened and I simply loved it and have been very open to them every since.

Over the years I've transitioned from one-on-one MF sex to MFM, and since finding my Lesbian side, FFM. I don't think of FFM as the guy having two women, but us women enjoying our Lesbian selves with a guy to do what we can't.

We bypass the rinsing and just get down into that mess we spend the past hours creating as soon as we're in the door. There's just something about my wife having sex with others that makes me want her more.

Having a walk-in shower to screw Mrs. E in after we're done swapping is a must whenever we pick a venue to meet our play-friends.

We enjoy newbies. There is something exciting about a couple that never played before. They are nervous, not knowing what to do. Most of the women have never been with a woman. We were new and nervous our first time and we enjoy trying to get a couple to relax. There is a downside as well. Women freeze up, we don’t push anyone. We go at their speed. Men also have problems. Too fast, too soft. And we have seen jealousy too. Every adventure is different.

Sorry for being off topic (but you started it with "Ladies: What’s your favorite play?"), has anyone noticed that Harold Pinter's Betrayal is on Broadway? I've seen it twice before elsewhere. It is sort of a lifestyle story, a woman with a husband and a boyfriend (the way I/we started!). But she is cheating, her husband has figured it out, stays with her and remains friends with him. The story is told in scenes that are reverse chronology, very clever. It is of of my favorite non-musicals.

@TricianMike: That sounds quite similar to us. We initially shied away from parties and stayed in the club scene. In the last few years, we've modified our approach to include house parties as well. Mrs Doc does the same thing, she often picks a guy she's just met. I hang around for a while both to watch her in action (its unbelievably erotic)and to make sure she's OK in the situation. Sometimes I'll join in for a bit or I'll wander off to find a playmate or group to join. Once she's finished, she'll often come find me and join in to whatever Im doing. For those few hours, we are free to have whatever fun sex we may find. At the end of the night, the ride home is a recap of the evening that often is so erotic in the telling that we end up rinsing in the pool and boinking each other one last time before sleep. Swinging beats the hell out of dinner and a movie on a Saturday night.

It seems there's a lot of folks that enjoy the retelling on the ride home and then erotic, passionate sex (sometimes termed "reclamation") upon arrival. It seems like we're in the minority of couples in that respect. We enjoy both MFM and MFMF or other alphabet salad variations very much, and we ALWAYS play together. For one thing, part of the thrill for me is watching Angel with another male....tremendously so, for that matter. The other thing is that when Angel is aroused, she literally (using the word with it's proper meaning) loses all sense of the situation unfolding and the world around her....she's completely unaware of anything except her sexual pleasure. She wants me there to be sure that in that state, she doesn't do anything she wouldn't want to do otherwise.

While on the way home I'll sometimes recount the evening to her (the only way she knows what actually happened), but most of the time she's so drowsy and relaxed that she falls asleep during the story, and the recounting happens a day or so later. Once home, there is almost always virtually no chance of any sex occurring given that scenario...LOL. The few times that she's been completely awake when we get home, she's pretty done with sex for a couple of days at least...in her mind we've had enough sex for me (us) to be satisfied for a while.

I'm not sure I've heard of too many couples who roll like this; anyone else out there roll similarly? Sure, I'd love to come home and hit it again with my babe, but it is what it is.

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Tiger, we're play almost exactly like you do. MFM or MFMF, check. Talk about it then reclamation sex, check. Watching her get into that dreamy state, check.

The only significant difference is at house parties where we are friends with many of the people, we often go our own way, do separate rooms. And Mary goes solo with a trusted male friend every now and again.

I prefer alone with men one on one/two. I used to love parties and swinger events but I'm finding I love getting dressed up to go out dating with men, hubby is the same he enjoys meeting random women though he rarely does so lately I think he's a bit bored of it all these days.

I'm kind of bisexual but I'll admit I do absolutely love a nice hard dick in me.

... I'm kind of bisexual but I'll admit I do absolutely love a nice hard dick in me.

Variety, spontaneity, and anticipation are the erotic buttons for us. We have a fantasy jar; like a cookie jar and we each write our fantasies on blue and pink notes. We dip into it and pull the opposite note and try to make it happen for each other. It's a kept secret until it happens. We were in a situation a while back that we worked near each other and when I had a lunch tryst, I'd just put my panties back on and stop by his office to show him what I had done at lunch. Drove him crazy and the reconnect sex after work was intense. Now we just try and get "proof" of sex pictures or make a video to share when we step out apart. In a party situation or dating another couple, I just enjoy any scenario that happens. I have been treated to a lot of MFM and I have no script I prefer. When I am having sex, I get completely involved in the act.

Honestly my preference is full swap separate rooms.  That way I'm not worried about putting on a show, instead I am in the moment completely focused on the man or woman between my legs.  I just get lost in the pleasure.