SLS profiles

Can someone please explain to me why so many couples only post pics of the female? I don’t get it. Don’t the women want to see what the men look like before initiating contact. People, please stop doing this.

When I see that I figure either fake or he is unattractive and don’t bother.

When I see that I figure either fake or he is unattractive and don’t bother.

Yes but it’s so annoying. Lol

It’s called trolling......like when fishing from a boat.....you let the bait out and see what bites. Lol. Crappy...I know...but yeah some do that. Then there are those who are into cockolding.....or hot wifing.....and it is truly all about her as far as who is playing/available. We’ve met a few that the male thinks either he has to protect his privacy more (those couples usually are not married or SOS...I mean really know one recognizes the wife/girlfriend???) and a few ladies....and we have advised this now and again...that are single but want to appear as a couple not single to cut down on the barrage of single or solo guys. Then there are all the rest.

We're somewhat guilty. There are so many ways to photograph a sexy woman that when Im looking at pictures we took, I think, "damn!! look at her nipples peeking out thru the lace! That would look good on SLS or SDC" and so we have a lot more pics of Mrs Doc than of me. I don't think I'd look good in lace, or in a wet t-shirt or partially nude and draped over the side of our spa. Plus, we've looked at profiles where the guy is wearing only a bright yellow thong or a speedo partially hidden under his belly. There is a yuk factor in some of those.

That thong image is frightening. Dad bod can still be presented nicely, just give me an idea. There is a thread here about determining if a couple is real, at least one together. No pictures of him = no reply.

Guilty here as well. Our profile is heavy with pics of her but do have pics of him and together as a couple in public and private galleries.

Boudoir photography of her is far sexier and tasteful that those of him, or of Dad bids that someone above mentioned.

Sounds like a good thing we have a couple of certs

Guilty here as well. Our profile is heavy with pics of her but do have pics of him and together as a couple in public and private galleries.

 

Boudoir photography of her is far sexier and tasteful that those of him, or of Dad bids that someone above mentioned.

Sounds like a good thing we have a couple of certs��

Here’s the problem. I look at a couple profile. Great pics of the Mrs. I think wow! Let me talk to my wife about it. She says wow she’s hot! What does he he look like? No clue! Doesn’t make sense to me.

Since most guys are setting up the profile, and they are only interested in seeing the other woman, they have a tendency to do the same...only post pictures of their woman. They don't want or care what the other guy looks like so they don't even think about posting a picture of them self. It's only experience that finally teaches that they need to have a picture of them self as well...bonus if you have a picture (doesn't matter of it is G or R rated) of the two of them together (which proves that the woman you are posting even knows who the poster is). Among other things, it shows who knows what they are doing and those who don't, are fakes, flakes, or trolls.

How often do you contact a couple thru a profile showing both of the couple, and after chatting, finally get to 'lets get together' only to have him say 'oh, she's not available/on her period/out of town, but I can meet." Happens too often here, and I always wonder if there actually IS a wife, of if it's a guy trolling.

I have come across the above too, suspect trolling, fake wife. One way to avoid is be clear the first meeting is just that and no expectation of playing and the goal is for everyone to meet.

I wear thongs and very skimpy underwear, even lace. I think I look pretty good. 5'11" 154lbs. Not a 20 year old, mid 50's now, but certainly not overweight either.

My question: are you or others on this board turned off by thongs on men or only men that shouldn't be wearing them. AND what do you prefer to see you men wearing, in terms of underwear or swimsuits or even sun bathing attire?

I am completely uninterested in what a man wears or doesn't. Mrs Doc is NOT fond of male thongs or speedos. Boxers provide easy access and commando is always a pleasant surprise for her.

In terms of profile photos I have never seen one of a man in a thong that turned me on. In men’s underwear I prefer boxer briefs, just don’t let the focus of the pic be the dick. A photo in those gives a general idea of the build and says he has nice taste in underwear. I have seen profile pics with baggy, dingy, white boxers. I knew I didn’t want to meet him. If you are a couple at least one picture together. Single males shouldn’t have pictures with other women. Pictures in swimwear (not speedo’s) are fine too.

Mrs Doc says that other than a thong, tighty white-ies are the worst! If I find a profile where the guy is in a pair of those, I won't even show it to her, no matter how hot I think the woman is. Its an absolute non-starter for her.

I know this is old and I'm resurrecting, but the comments did have me chuckling a bit. And I'm bored.

I definitely agree with most of you.

I do however think that we men could take more sexy pics, or at least fun pics. I definitely agree that of our pics, my wife wins hands down. Pretty much everyone does, but if I saw more profiles of dudes having fun and sharing themselves as well I'd feel way more comfortable reaching out to that "couple".

For those of you that know what silkies are, I made my wife a special gift the other day of an album of me in a christmas gift box pair of silkies. I slowly unrapped the gift. She seemed to enjoy it. Shrug. Maybe she'll chime in.

This along with the cock pic only profiles are our biggest pet peeve about finding people online! No full body pic with or without clothes on of the guy half of the couple equals no interest whatsoever from her. We are not even talking to you let alone meeting.

Most of the time the women are going to be the ones to decide who will be getting meet and who will not. Even if those women are into other women they are not going to be interested in mercy fucking the other guy just to hook up with the hot wife. Why would they with all the options out there?

As for the not posting pictures, because of having a dad bod you are still going to have the dad bod when you meet in person and if they are not interested in pictures of dad bods they are more then likely not going to be interested in them in person either. The best solution for this is to do what it takes to not have a dad bod. Everyone is able to do something about it if they want to. You don’t get a dad bod by being a dad. You get it by not caring and if you don’t care that is on you.

We are on another forum also and posted 1 photo together several of myself (female) and a few of my husband. Every single one of my photos were commented on and none of my husbands were. Generally my husband is on our account more than myself and I would imagine thats common for the male to be more active on these sites. Just a thought