height is 5'3 - dealbreaker?

How much does appearance matter? I'm a bit short, only 5'3"

what will happen if man shoter than another couples wife ?

I’m a 5’2” wife. I don’t see a problem here. I have dated a couple of short guys along the way, one took the state’s wrestling championship for his weight class in high, and have fond memories of them. Now, would not at all hold height against a guy.

Male 5’5,” Female 4’10. Play all the time.

Everyone is different and has different tastes. For some people, being "too short" or "too tall" will be a deal-breaker. For others, it won't matter at all. It's important to remember, in swinging, you will get turned down... a lot... for any reason or no reason at all. But for every couple that turns you down, there is another couple to ask. You just have to keep looking.

I’m a 5’2” wife. I don’t see a problem here. I have dated a couple of short guys along the way, one took the state’s wrestling championship for his weight class in high, and have fond memories of them. Now, would not at all hold height against a guy.

then, is it not a matter of having sex with a man who is shorter than you?

Robert Heinlein wrote, "All women are the same height lying down." Men, too.

Robert Heinlein...the original sci-fi swinger writer.

I'm 5'3". My late wife was 5'9".

I grew up thinking I was less-than-desirable because of my height. I almost never asked a woman taller than I to dance, much less for a date.

Laura was asked "Why did you marry a man so much shorter?" Her answer was, "I prefer to measure a man from the bottom of his heart to the top of his mind. Measured that way, my husband is the tallest man I've ever known."

God, I loved that woman. I still do.

Alura

Not a deal breaker for me at all. I am 5'2", and dated men ranging in height from 5'3" to 5'9" most of the time. My husband is tall, but that was not the main reason for my attraction to him.

I'm 5'3". My late wife was 5'9".

 

I grew up thinking I was less-than-desirable because of my height. I almost never asked a woman taller than I to dance, much less for a date.

 

Laura was asked "Why did you marry a man so much shorter?" Her answer was, "I prefer to measure a man from the bottom of his heart to the top of his mind. Measured that way, my husband is the tallest man I've ever known."

 

God, I loved that woman. I still do.

 

Alura

Awesome.have you been swing with womens 5'5-5'9?

Awesome.have you been swing with womens 5'5-5'9?

Y'know, Hasanth, I don't think I ever asked a woman her height during our thirty years of swinging. I also don't remember swinging with a woman who wasn't taller than I was. There aren't very many women in America who are shorter.

I'd suggest that forgetting your height would be most helpful. Getting married might help even more.

Thanks for answering my post!

Alura

PS: in 1971, I visited India. I went to Kashmir, New Delhi, Agra and points in between. Unfortunately, y'all were gearing up for war with Pakistan, so I fled. I surely would have like to have seen more!