Drunken Threesome - Complete Disaster

Ok here's my story... me and my wife have been together for a number of years and we've always had somewhat of an open relationship but one drunken night we had a mutual guy friend over and I initiated a threesome with us... well it was great in the beginning, he even moved in with us temporary. But things start to get complicated when I'm always at work and he's at home with my wife fucking her all day or whatever they are doing at my house lol. So make a long story short, he becomes obsessed and he's even trying to steal her away from me so I kick him out and he runs and tells everyone. Needless to say he is our enemy now and its super awkward now around everyone.... Has anyone had a similar situation to this here??? Hit me up.

... one drunken night . .

Not a good way to start anything. If this was a car advice forum and a post started out, "one drunken night" it would be like, what did you expect?

 

... I'm always at work and he's at home with my wife fucking her all day or whatever they are doing at my house lol. . .

You don't say how your wife felt. Was she happy fucking him? When you got home, did you two (or three) have good sex? I mean, that's what it's all about, fun for you two.

 

.., he becomes obsessed and he's even trying to steal her away from me . .

Again, you don't say how your wife felt. No one can "steal" your wife unless he kidnaps her. When you start fucking someone new, obsessions can occur and is to be expected, both ways. It's happened with and to both me and my wife, and it's part of the fun, wanting to fuck a new person 24/7. It also makes you really want to fuck your spouse even more (at least it does us). And eventually the novelty of a new person wears off. Fortunately, my wife and I have had the maturity to let the other have their fun while it lasted.

 

... so I kick him out and he runs and tells everyone. .

The guy's an ass. He's supposed to be a friend? Here you guys give him a gift, letting him enjoy fucking your wife and this is how he acts? My wife and I have discussed how to respond if someone blabbed - sigh, roll your eyes, and say that the guy is obsessed with your wife and saying crazy things.

When people ask about swinging with friends we always say don't do it unless you want to risk having all of your family and friends know what you are doing in the bedroom. Point proven.

 

Sorry that things worked out this way. We wish you better luck in the future.

Yes I'll explain more... ok yes she absolutely loved it and was surprisingly more excited about it then I was and for the most part there was just alot of threesomes between us but whenever I wasnt around they would be at the house doing their own thing in which she was very happy and loved the attention from 2 men simultaneously.

And yes, one drunken night turned into 8 months and he was very well hung so my wife really enjoyed it but my bestfriend couldn't handle it and became very attached....

In twenty years or more of play, alcohol played a very small part, many times none.

In twenty years or more of play, alcohol played a very small part, many times none.

 

Yeah alcohol played into in for the beginning but after that there was no alcohol and mind you this was our first and only attempt at swinging lol

When people ask about swinging with friends we always say don't do it unless you want to risk having all of your family and friends know what you are doing in the bedroom. Point proven.

 

Sorry that things worked out this way. We wish you better luck in the future.

 

Yes, it's a terrible decision because it never ends good for the friend who ends up getting his feelings hurt or some kind of shit like that.

More than 40 years ago too much wine over dinner with a couple who were close social friends led to our first (soft) swinging experience, with each couple exchanging partners for non-intercourse play. I deeply enjoyed watching my wife bring the other husband to orgasm while I was giving pleasure to the other wife. There were no bad outcomes, though eventually both couples divorced. Oh, and 16 years after that dinner party, the other wife and I married. We recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.

More than 40 years ago too much wine over dinner with a couple who were close social friends led to our first (soft) swinging experience, with each couple exchanging partners for non-intercourse play. I deeply enjoyed watching my wife bring the other husband to orgasm while I was giving pleasure to the other wife. There were no bad outcomes, though eventually both couples divorced. Oh, and 16 years after that dinner party, the other wife and I married. We recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.

 

Oh wow, what a cool story and it sounds like everything worked out in your favor lol. Lucky man.

She fell in love with the first person I talked her into having sex with in front of me.

 

Our first time couldn't have been more perfect. He moved in with us and we shared her equally. To her it was like having two husbands. Things were all good until he fell in love with her to the point that he became jealous of the times I spent with her.

 

He wanted to posses her for himself. It was his jealousy that ruined a good relationship. He forced her to choose and she chose our marriage over him. It wasn't easy for her to break up with him.

She fell in love with the first person I talked her into having sex with in front of me.

 

Our first time couldn't have been more perfect. He moved in with us and we shared her equally. To her it was like having two husbands. Things were all good until he fell in love with her to the point that he became jealous of the times I spent with her.

 

He wanted to posses her for himself. It was his jealousy that ruined a good relationship. He forced her to choose and she chose our marriage over him. It wasn't easy for her to break up with him.

 

That's pretty much the same exact situation I was in lol. I know what you're going through.