Squirting - Yay or Nay

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How do people feel about squirting while swinging? So far, the way I have handled it is to stop myself from doing it or asking the person beforehand (if I remember). I can't always stop it, though, especially when I am really aroused and into the activities. Though I do it, I don't know that I would like someone squirting on me (hypocritical, I know). I am always embarrassed when I do it. Last night, with just the husband, I got going, lost count of the number of times I squirted, and oy the mess. Through 6 layers of bedding to the mattress. Huge spreading wet spot-- all on my side of the bed of course. I find it an inconvenience. Especially if I am at a club, someone else's house, or a hotel, I feel horrible about the mess. No one likes sitting on a wet spot at a club that they didn't make.

Mrs. cat is a squirter as well, and is also self conscious of it, even though most of the time it is just a small amount. She has a very sensitive vagina, which is great as she gets get pleasure from penetration, and once in a great while it will result in a bed/sofa soaking adventure. To control this she does a pre activities preparation to help reduce the flow, and as it seems difference positions are more likely to trigger it (Hitting the right spot I guess) so when she feels it may be about to happen she just changes positions or stops and we move on to a different form of male and female satisfaction for awhile. Which nice that it gets mixed up with all kinds of activities, and being sensitive it don't take long before she is cumming again after being penetrated. With these practices she will sometimes not squirt even a small amount.

As far a yay or nay I have to say I love it, and to my knowledge there has never been a male partner we have had that has been disappointed it has happened. Even our latest play partner wanted her to squirt on his face when she was sitting on it, which didn't happen because I don't think he could hit the right spots. I have to admit that when we first met, and me not ever had been with a woman that squirts it was quite a experience, and one that didn't really take getting used to. I can also see this is probably not for everyone, and maybe it just takes a love for the wife like I do to enjoy whatever may occur, and we are honest about it with our guys so it's not really been a problem

I've never seen where squirting is discouraged in the ls. You should look into the liberator line of products. They have various liquid proof options to cover your bed so all you have to do is take that top layer off and wash it. We have four different things from that company!

It's happened to me a couple of times when I got a woman going pretty good. Can't say I loved it, but I didn't stop either.

It's happened to me a couple of times when I got a woman going pretty good. Can't say I loved it, but I didn't stop either.

This was me as well the times it has happened orally. I'm better if it's while in penetration. Feeling that initial kegel push on my cock out of her pussy then the warm gush of fluid spreading to my pubic mound, down my thighs and balls tells me I'm doing something right. Or even when I'm doing it with my hands and can feel that same thing. Squirting in my face isn't a turn on for me.

How do people feel about squirting while swinging? So far, the way I have handled it is to stop myself from doing it or asking the person beforehand (if I remember). I can't always stop it, though, especially when I am really aroused and into the activities. Though I do it, I don't know that I would like someone squirting on me (hypocritical, I know). I am always embarrassed when I do it.

Don't stop. Let it flow:)

I don't like laying in the wet spot when I'm ready to sleep. I'll move to a dryer spot.

I only had one girlfriend that squirted. She also liked to rake her fingernails down my back as she had an orgasm. I had to put a stop to that. Her orgasms were so intense that she passed out for a few moments. It wasn't me. It's just the way she was.

I like squirters. You wouldn't have to feel embarrassed with me!

I have a question about squirting. I've been watching porn for as long as I can remember. Why is it that squirting is a "new" thing? Never saw it or heard about it in the past. I don't believe it is because people didn't know about the G spot. Any ideas? I also can't understand when I see porn and the woman is like a fire hydrant. Is this for real?

I also can't understand when I see porn and the woman is like a fire hydrant. Is this for real?

Squirting either happens or it doesn’t. Women who engage in swing try neither to induce it nor hold it back. A woman who is aware that it might happen generally has an absorbent pad or two packed in a bag ready for use. That way nobody sleeps in a wet spot.

Nothing in a porno movie is real, and that includes squirting like a fire hydrant.

 

Squirting either happens or it doesn’t. Women who engage in swing try neither to induce it nor hold it back. A woman who is aware that it might happen generally has an absorbent pad or two packed in a bag ready for use. That way nobody sleeps in a wet spot.

We always bring pads and towels. Still not always enough, so I do hold back when at clubs.

I have a question about squirting. I've been watching porn for as long as I can remember. Why is it that squirting is a "new" thing? Never saw it or heard about it in the past. I don't believe it is because people didn't know about the G spot. Any ideas? I also can't understand when I see porn and the woman is like a fire hydrant. Is this for real?

I first started having sex at 25 years old and thought I was urinating (so would stop the fun and rush to the toilet). Fast forward a year to meeting my husband who educated me on what was happening and now I know better. I have a feeling it is more about people knowing it is not urine (though may contain trace amounts as in semen) and therefore feeling it is acceptable. I don't watch a lot of porn, though, so who knows what they show.

Do that many of you squirt? I don’t so it’s not an issue for me. I have played with others and can’t say I have seen many women really squirt. My husband said he has experienced others squirting. I do have intense orgasms just never was “able” to squirt.

Do that many of you squirt? I don’t so it’s not an issue for me. I have played with others and can’t say I have seen many women really squirt. My husband said he has experienced others squirting. I do have intense orgasms just never was “able” to squirt.

My husband would take that as a challenge . I have to be really relaxed (and not worried about the mess) for it to happen usually. Among other things. I don't know how common it is, to be honest.

Tell your partner you might squirt. If he says no, no means no. If he says yes, don't hold back. I was amazed at how hot it is when my partner squirts.

Yay! Love squirters. But will take either way for sure!

DD is a squirter, not always but sometimes. Bring on the squirt, if that's how you get off then do it. I veiw a squirt as a bit of validation that I did good. It's just sex, quit over thinking it and have fun.

The female in our duo squirted quite a bit, until we had kids, and now it is rare. I have no idea why motherhood would have changed that, but here we are. So, I guess it is a non-issue in swinging adventures. I didn't mind it when it happened with our own play. Though face-sitting, eh-hem, was sometimes interesting.

I never used to squirt, but Mr. intuition made a project of practicing on me, and now it's a barely controllable reflex. I know theres a lot of controversy about exactly what it is, but seriously... I think that's just because nobody wants to admit that - for the most part at least - yeah, it's urine. Probably some other goodies in there, too, but iiiiit's mostly pee. You keep fiddling with it, buddy, you get soaked. Be careful what you ask for.

I wouldn't get too hung up about it. We just put it in our profile, and so far the response has been positive. Most playmates like it, and the ones who don't...well you didn't want to play with them anyway.

We disagree on the "ingredients". We have an experiment designed to test this, but have not done so yet. That said, it could be different for every woman.

. . . iiiiit's mostly pee. . .

. . . I wouldn't get too hung up about it. We just put it in our profile, and so far the response has been positive. Most playmates like it, and the ones who don't...well you didn't want to play with them anyway.

Ummmm yay if the dude can get me there, I'm not an easy squirter, but if he gets me there it is a damn delicious orgasm.