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Gotten pregnant from swinging?

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I'd almost guarantee it's happened. I even know of one couple who used swinging to have a baby. Hey, they said it was sure cheaper than what the fertility clinic charged and they sort of got to meet the unknowing donor candidates.

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If the women have not completed menopause and the guys have frisky fishes and nobody uses birth control, pregnancy can happen. Swinger sex is like regular sex (only with variety) and any time there is a deposit of sperm in a fertile vagina there's a chance babies will happen. Duh!

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My friends are all of child bearing age. I am thinking we are all on some form of birth control. I know even though my form of BC has an extremely low failure rate that if there were ever a problem I would not go through with it. The friends I have talked to agree with me. My husband and I are not ready for a child. When we decide to become parents we will stop playing.

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When I was in grad school in the late ‘70s two couples, who I don’t believe were regular swingers, decided to change partners one night and one of the women became pregnant. Other than that she terminated the pregnancy I don’t know much, such as what BC she was using.

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We're not true swingers, but are a poly family of five - two men and three woman. Before Lora joined our family, Clair became unexpectedly pregnant by my husband. As I posted around that time:

 

"In October of 2011 Clair told me something was wrong, she didn't feel right. She was tremendously upset; she was afraid she was pregnant. We took the morning off from work and got three different brands of pregnancy test kits at the drug store and confirmed that was the case. We were both on oral contraceptives. I was stunned, but felt joyous. She told me she was sorry and that she do whatever we wanted. Clair thought I would be upset with her having David's baby, especially before me. I told her I was so happy for her and us, we hugged and cried, and did all those girl things, and took the rest of the day off from work."

 

We didn't have plans for kids at that time. I was shocked by the reality of it all, but felt overwhelming happy. Clair offered outright to have an abortion if that what it took to keep us all going. We are all very prochoice and our choice was that there was no reason for us not to have the child - we were all working and able to be parents. It was always our plan for Clair and I to have children as close in time as possible, so we decided that I would try to get pregnant as quickly as possible, and I did. It has all worked out well. In particular, Clair is now the stay-at-home mother in our family, taking care of the five children we now have among us.

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I would defiantly think that this has happened on many occasions. Sometimes they might live with it and live with the doubt or some may opt to terminate due to uncertainty of the paternal parent. Either way it's a personal choice amongst the parties involved.

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Is this a serious question? Sorry to be harsh but anytime prior to menopause and one practices unprotected sex there is a risk.

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I read in Dear Abby several years ago where a doctor wrote about a 13 year old girl brought to his office by her mother so sure her daughter was pregnant. Her daughter swore she didn't have any sex of any kind. The doctor checked her and she was pregnant and her hymn was in place and undamaged, she was a true virgin. The girl swore no boy had put his penis any where close to her privates. Well, three weeks later it was found that after the last flood in the local river, a fantastic swimming hole was made near the bank in a dense forest and the towns youth had been swimming in it nude for several months. He got an idea. He rowed his small boat around the swimming hole taking samples of the water at different depths and the temperature of each place samples were taken. The result was the swimming hole was full of dead and healthy sperm. The water condition was perfect for sperm. The young men being nude were leaking their sperm every where from top to bottom. A female swimming nude will naturally have water flow in her vagina. He asked the 13 year old girl if she had been swimming nude in that water and she said yes. That was how she got pregnant. His advice was for females never swim in untreated water. Bacteria and free sperm can enter their vaginas. Sperm is so small it can swim through the fabric of panties and swimming suits. Use tampons when swimming in a bathing suite or nude if lake or river swimming is done was his final say. Just a thought about being careless when having sex or nude.

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I don't remember the doctor's name or the town but I do remember it was in Louisiana. I wish I could remember the date it was published in our local news paper. I do know it was in one of the older Dear Abbie's column before she died. Her daughter writes it now. Lol. I don't think it was Larry Nassar.

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Sounds like an urban legend. Or, in Louisiana, would it be a Cajun legend??

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It is very unlikely VERY UNLIKELY but possible. Couldn’t happen in a hot tub, the heat would kill the sperm. Couldn’t happen in a pool, the chlorine. In an open lake sperm could live for a few minutes but being it would dilute the ejaculate it is almost impossible for the those critters to swim up that tunnel. That pool story is an Urban Legend.

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It is very unlikely VERY UNLIKELY but possible. Couldn’t happen in a hot tub, the heat would kill the sperm. Couldn’t happen in a pool, the chlorine. In an open lake sperm could live for a few minutes but being it would dilute the ejaculate it is almost impossible for the those critters to swim up that tunnel. That pool story is an Urban Legend.

I know it’s an Urban Legend ... that’s why I posted the link to the Snopes story.

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This discussion is a little weird and dark for me. So, I wanted to change the tone. I have gotten pregnant several times...in role play with lovers. I have learned that some men get instantly out of their minds at the thought of impregnating me. I learned this when we dated a couple and the guy was hesitant to cum. They had me on the edge of the bed, she was vibing my clit and her husband was pumping his cock into me. He pumped and pumped and I got off. He was getting all red and overheated. His wife was talking to him like a baby and telling him it was okay to cum in me. She told him she wanted to see how he cums in a pussy. I took it further and told him that I was ripe and that he could make a baby in me. And that was it! He shook, ejaculated, and nearly lost his legs filling me up with his sperm. I have tried this a few times with lovers and yep, they let it go on cue. 

 

 

 

 

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On 6/11/2020 at 6:42 AM, Guest said:

This discussion is a little weird and dark for me. So, I wanted to change the tone. I have gotten pregnant several times...in role play with lovers. I have learned that some men get instantly out of their minds at the thought of impregnating me. I learned this when we dated a couple and the guy was hesitant to cum. They had me on the edge of the bed, she was vibing my clit and her husband was pumping his cock into me. He pumped and pumped and I got off. He was getting all red and overheated. His wife was talking to him like a baby and telling him it was okay to cum in me. She told him she wanted to see how he cums in a pussy. I took it further and told him that I was ripe and that he could make a baby in me. And that was it! He shook, ejaculated, and nearly lost his legs filling me up with his sperm. I have tried this a few times with lovers and yep, they let it go on cue.

 

I love that game too :)

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This has come up in the past....

 

The Queen was fixed after the birth of our second child. I remained fertile and was fertile when we first started in the lifestyle. We played bare back with our closest friends. Usually all us guys would pull out and our playmate would Finish us mostly cause we all would have a few rounds with each other. If at the end of the play date it was the choice of the woman you where with on how we finished. Our playmates varied in age with more then half being up to twenty years younger than we were. All the women on BC or fixed. After 3 or 4 situations I choose to get snipped. Over a few years two in our semi poly/LS group wanted children. Another single lady wanted children and stated out of the blue that she had stopped taking her pill and she was hoping to get pregnant from one of our gatherings, but hadn’t yet. Kind of caught a few of us off guard. The last straw for me was attending a house party and being with a younger woman. We clicked very well and spent the evening playing bare back and telling me to cum inside her....a couple of times. While talking later she mentioned she was not on any BC to my wife who told me this on our ride home. That did it. I have children with my wife and only her (to my knowledge) and wanted to keep that as our special connection. I was snipped two months later. I will say that there is more bare back play since I have had this done. Women...especially younger women have asked if I had a vasectomy and tend to be more playful knowing that concern is off the table.

 

......like a navel orange....all juice....no seeds.

 

 

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