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    I really do appreciate your opinions. This situation is all new to the three of us seeing as the girl isn't in the lifestyle. If things get weird or if she starts getting too attached, I will certainly put a stop to it.

  2. #27

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    Personally I would get my wife / girlfriend to say something like.....

    "Hi, I'm on holiday with my brother, he's over at the bar and were sharing a hotel room to save on costs, you fancy sneaking off somewhere for a bit of fun? But I can't be gone too long or else my brother will get worried, I can just tell him I'm nipping out to make a call or heading back to the hotel to grab something, should be okay for an hour"

    Then your wife can sneak off and have a sexy time with a new guy and come back once she has done

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    Quote Originally Posted by Erik13 View Post
    I really do appreciate your opinions. This situation is all new to the three of us seeing as the girl isn't in the lifestyle. If things get weird or if she starts getting too attached, I will certainly put a stop to it.
    I'm not the most experienced swinger here, but I'd be inclined to let this playmate slide. Maybe just put her on ice until later, but don't be getting dangerous with your marriage. Its also not clear if your wife would want quid pro quo. Have your two brought up her enjoying a man on her own. Inviting one home of whatever. Keeping things equal would go a ways towards reducing any jealousy and guilt. It can also open up the communication between you two, as the sharing is not all one way. I've always found it erotic and useful to share the details with my partners. I'd learn things about what they liked that don't always emerge in one on one relationships.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GMOFLEISURE View Post
    I'm not the most experienced swinger here, but I'd be inclined to let this playmate slide. Maybe just put her on ice until later, but don't be getting dangerous with your marriage. Its also not clear if your wife would want quid pro quo. Have your two brought up her enjoying a man on her own. Inviting one home of whatever. Keeping things equal would go a ways towards reducing any jealousy and guilt. It can also open up the communication between you two, as the sharing is not all one way. I've always found it erotic and useful to share the details with my partners. I'd learn things about what they liked that don't always emerge in one on one relationships.
    Oh she has had her share of single guys lol. And the opposite has happened since me and the girl played... she seems to have backed off and is texting me less than before, which I suppose is a good thing.

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