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    It's called home field advantage. We don't take anyone home until we are very comfortable with them and believe we want to keep them around for awhile (we don't want stalkers to know where we live). We keep things 'neutral' for the first few visits.

    They've already said they want to meet again, so I suppose their happy??
    Quit over analyzing things. If they said that they want to meet again, just take that at face value. They like you, they really really like you.
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    It's called home field advantage. We don't take anyone home until we are very comfortable with them and believe we want to keep them around for awhile (we don't want stalkers to know where we live). We keep things 'neutral' for the first few visits.



    Quit over analyzing things. If they said that they want to meet again, just take that at face value. They like you, they really really like you.
    I'm told that I over analyse.....obviously their wrong! lol

  3. #28

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    I over analyze as well, that's why I spot it so easily in you.
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

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    Quote Originally Posted by Newcouple17 View Post
    Is normal to be more nervous on the run up to a second meeting with people you've already swapped with?
    I think he's a little bit more relaxed than me, but thats not saying much! lol
    I thought that I'd be pretty relaxed and unworried, but I'm starting to think that there might certian expectations this time, don't get me wrong I'm not saying that anything has been said....but am I wrong?
    I think I'm trying to fill the time before I get ready....
    I really enjoy your threads because I see a lot of the same issues we were circling around about.

    Our first time was with two other couples at one of their homes. We ended up doing two rounds with a shower-and-snack break in the middle.

    We saw the one couple again, they're close friends, but the second time we were going to see both couples again, a year later? Mrs. E was extremely nervous, so nervous she made me nervous. Part of it was that the other wife is interested in girl-on-girl play, and while Mrs. E likes it, she still feels like it's pretty taboo for her. Part of it was that we were spending a few days with them.

    All for nothing. We had a great weekend. Seems like a very normal reaction to be anxious about it since now you've tried it and built up the next session in your mind.

  5. #30

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoCouple View Post
    I over analyze as well, that's why I spot it so easily in you.
    Well you've given me something to think about! lol

  6. #31

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    Quote Originally Posted by EastInWest View Post
    I really enjoy your threads because I see a lot of the same issues we were circling around about.

    Our first time was with two other couples at one of their homes. We ended up doing two rounds with a shower-and-snack break in the middle.

    We saw the one couple again, they're close friends, but the second time we were going to see both couples again, a year later? Mrs. E was extremely nervous, so nervous she made me nervous.

    All for nothing. We had a great weekend.
    Thanks!

    Yes I just didn't get it, but I guess you can't help it?

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