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Dildos are not at all comparable to the human organ. Even rubber dildos are quite hard, not much give when you squeeze them. A dick is just blood vessels and tissue. It has give, you can squeeze. Squeeze hard enough and you can almost deflate it. It adjust to the size of the girl so a large dick is not nearly as painful as a comparable size dick. Also, have her read my story about Size Matters in the Dunes. I was afraid of large ones until I experienced one and it was much less painful and more pleasureful that I could have possibly imagined.

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Honestly, let her be in the drivers seat. If it is causing her discomfort, let it go. If she really wants to try bigger sized dildos and cocks, then she'll try it out. It's her body, don't push it on her. I get the sense that you want her to play with bigger sizes more than she does.

 

I should specify.

 

I bought her a 7.5" dildo because she wants to have the option of doing bigger.

 

I'm not actually pushing her, rather I've been encourage her in general to do what she would like to do, and to do only what she is comfortable with. Only when she starts letting her shyness take over, do I give her a friendly/supportive nudge, which she appreciates. I would never force her against her will/comfort level.

 

She definitely does want to try out bigger cocks, as she has voiced this.

It's just that since her 7.5" dildo causes pain/discomfort, she doesn't know how to take a real cock likewise in size.

 

We have come to understand that some women don't enjoy bigger penises because of this same issue, but wonder if it's just a matter of continuous trying?

 

Or if anyone has any advice to make things easier...?

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Dildos are not at all comparable to the human organ. Even rubber dildos are quite hard, not much give when you squeeze them. A dick is just blood vessels and tissue. It has give, you can squeeze. Squeeze hard enough and you can almost deflate it. It adjust to the size of the girl so a large dick is not nearly as painful as a comparable size dick. Also, have her read my story about Size Matters in the Dunes. I was afraid of large ones until I experienced one and it was much less painful and more pleasureful that I could have possibly imagined.

 

So really the best option is to find the right guy, take it slow and keep trying.

 

 

Vaginas are very different. They come in varied sizes just like cocks. Let her pick and choose who and how she wants to play. It's like my wife says...too big is too big and no fun at all.

 

Ask her what she likes and give her more of that.

 

Definitely!

 

I always check in with her before choosing a guy or bringing one home.

(She is just a all around extremely shy person and so she prefers that I screen and bring home the guys.)

 

Based on her dildo, she is afraid of a real one being similar, but still does want to try one (in hopes that she can enjoy it and have the option).

 

I suppose if trying the real thing and ultimately practicing is the only option, we'll just go forward with one inch bigger each MFM and stick with what she loves the most!

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If you'll pardon me for being crude, just because a guy is hung like a horse doesn't mean he has to try to shove it into your stomach.

 

My wife has been with a couple of guys who were quite large. One was a very unpleasant experience for her, because he kept thrusting too deep and hitting her cervix. Another, a far more skilled sexual partner, listened to her when she said that he was going too deep, changed his stroke so as not to penetrate her quite as much and she had a great time. Skill and communication matter.

This.

 

When hubby and I first started having sex, we could not do it from behind because it was just too painful. But we changed up positions, found what was comfortable and just kept at it. Eventually, I was able to take him from behind.

 

With that being said, it did take quite awhile for us to get there. Years. He had to learn what I like and how to not hurt me. I think it takes intimacy and/or a skilled partner and good communication.

 

Also, I don't like big dildos. I don't even like average dildos. I like little bitty dildos.

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I bought her a 7.5" dildo but she doesn't like to use it because of the pain/discomfort.

 

My question for everyone is: "How can we get her use to it so that she can enjoy cocks bigger than myself?".

 

My suggestion is to try getting a smaller dildo to start with and graduating up at her comfort level. From a purely medical standpoint, when a woman (and more prevalent a transgendered person) needs to increase the vaginal opening it is typically done with a graduated series of tubular appliances similar to dildos. Perhaps this will help. Comfort level and foreplay will assist in the process.

 

It should also help if you use larger appliances after you have had sex, when her vagina is already well-lubricated and opened from your penetration.

 

I only give this advice since you state that SHE has expressed desire to try larger partners.

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If you'll pardon me for being crude, just because a guy is hung like a horse doesn't mean he has to try to shove it into your stomach.

 

My wife has been with a couple of guys who were quite large. One was a very unpleasant experience for her, because he kept thrusting too deep and hitting her cervix. Another, a far more skilled sexual partner, listened to her when she said that he was going too deep, changed his stroke so as not to penetrate her quite as much and she had a great time. Skill and communication matter.

 

Have to agree with Lionheart72 here. I am very short and petite and I tried big cocks. Most of the time it hurt because it's hitting my cervix. With a really hung guy, I actually don't need full penetration to enjoy myself. I encourage your wife to try the real thing but take it slow and try different positions. The guy does not have to shove the whole thing in each time.

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I checked your SLS profile and your wife is a tiny thing. Just find a man who is understanding, patient, and considerate. Make it a game to let her take just a little at a time. You might even use your hand to prevent his cock from penetrating deeper than she's ready to accept. Yes, I noticed 'that' in your profile too! :) But the main factor is that you're both having fun!

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You can have her breathe in the larger toy as practice. Insert the toy to a comfortable level of penetration. Have her take a deep breath and when she exhales have her take in the toy a little deeper. You maybe watch a erotic movie at the same time... Keep her hot and interested and enjoy the journey.

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Please explain how you can work to stretch your lower lip over your head...just practice till you can wear it like a hat. :lol:

 

Bodies only stretch so far, if it hurts, stop. For real, there is a limit and she may never take what you two dream of.

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What they say...Practice makes perfect...maybe have her start with dildos in the 6" range and work up to bigger cocks. The couple I play with, the wife had a similar situation, now, she can take all my cock deep in her pussy.

 

I am around 7 1/2" to 8 1/2".

 

Good luck.

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In same boat here. I wanted to see wife with a larger guy. We actually have had an friend of her's join us years ago that was about 8" but not hugely thick but thick enough for her to enjoy. I'm about 6" on a very hard day lol. He ended joining us for several sessions about 3-4. The actual sexual part of it was very enjoyable for her BUT like any exercise routine, she was sore the next day especially from her pussy but like I mentioned she did it several more times, so over all she loved it.

 

Now more recently she has been with a BBC. At first she was excited when she saw his member but when she started to give him a BJ, reality set in. He was just as excited so he was huge I would say about 12" and as thick as a flashlight. He thought keeping her wet and excited would do the trick, wrong! People don't realize your natural lube is meant to dry up. So after a few thrusts it did end up hurting and he ended up having to use less deeper thrusts and at a very slow pace (and my wife is one that enjoys fast and hard).

 

Ok now for my suggestion, obviously she wants to try this to see what's it like.

 

1. Use lube, we got with him again and brought lube with us this time, nothing fancy, expensive or themed (just regular lube). This made a huge difference!!! To the point that she rode the heck out of him and came like crazy several times

 

2. When it comes to who puts what in where, let her do it at first. This way she can control the pace, how deep she wants/can handle it. I think once she get used to it, she'll find it very enjoyable to the point that she'll let him control the pace after she has got used to it. But like I mentioned have some lube handy and it helps a lot.

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If it usually hurts and she's expecting it to hurt, she's gonna tense up. She might need a partner she trusts. Have you considered a penile sleeve to increase your size? It might be good for practice. Also, like the above poster said, lube lube lube! We use Liquid Silk, it's super, doesn't get sticky. Lube up the inside very very well, and the outside too. If he's rubbing along her clit before he tries going in, lubed up it will feel so much better. Lot's of foreplay should help too, especially if the guy is good at fingering. After orgasm I'm less tight, so see if that's true for her too. I think her on top is a great position, she's totally in control of how much she gets.

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I've also fantasized about my wife getting fucked by a man with a much larger cock than mine. I thought it would make her happy. I also bought her a large dildo that she didn't like. Her favorite dildo is the same thickness as me. It's a double ended dildo. She can take longer than me before she says stop.

 

Having your wife getting fucked by a man with a bigger cock I think is a mostly male fantasy. Unless you didn't have sex with your wife before you married, she knew what she was marrying. If she is getting bored having sex with you there is probably more to it than the size of your cock.

 

A much better, closer to reality fantasy, would be to have her being fucked by a man who is in much better physical condition, muscles, broad shoulders and six pack abs that will do whatever it takes to bring her to not just a physical but an emotional orgasm.

 

I would be more worried about a man making an emotional connection with her.

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My gal is a petite Asian too and never has had children so her pussy is small. When we first got together it was like heaven to me because she was so tight. I was the first non-Asian guy she had and apparently my cock was a little larger than her previous lovers. When we started swinging she found that the larger cocks made her sore and so for a while we avoided guys with large cocks. Then we found out that after she has a good climax, her pussy relaxes and gets looser. While on a trip we met with a very good looking guy who had a 9X6 inch cock, much larger than anything she had ever tried before. She was excited about trying him. He was very experienced, not pushy at all, let her take her time, building up her excitement. We took turns giving her several climaxes, and finally, at her pleading, he slowly eased his cock into her. She had him stop at 6 inches, as that was as deep as she could take. However, she found she liked his girth and he did not go any deeper than 6 inches. Later in the evening she had him do her anally, and found that she could take all of him and really enjoy it.

 

After several more years of swinging, she can now take all of a 9 inch cock, and really loves the full feeling they give her. It just took time and patience.

 

During that time we swung with another Asian gal who had not been with anyone but an Asian boyfriend. When I tried to get my 6 X 5 inch cock in her it was too large for her. It turned out that some of her hymen was still intact. My GF and I worked with her for a week, each morning and evening giving her a climax, and then using graduated dildos to slowly stretch her hymen so finally she could take my cock. Now a year later she has graduated to guys with larger cocks.

 

So, be patient, enjoy her tight pussy, and let her try larger cocks as she decides she wants to.

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Just an FYI to some of the commenters: hitting a woman's cervix is not a matter of how long a penis or dildo is. The cervix is not at the end of the vagina, but on the "top" inside at a right angle. Most women can reach theirs with their own fingers, so it's not a matter of deep penetration. The cervix is pretty sensitive and can be bumped at certain angles by an average-sized penis.

 

When penetration goes too deep and hard, what is actually being hit is the fornix, which is the "dead end" at the back of the vagina. Some women do like getting their fornix bumped ("bottoming out," so to speak), but most find it uncomfortable at best.

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^^ It can be the cervix that is hit or either one of the, "dead ends" as you call them, fornix--anterior or posterior. Also called deep spots. The position of the cervix depends on the arousal level of the woman, as does the length, sponginess, wetness of the vagina as a whole, as well as a her entire body's ability to take large cylinder shaped objects. The sometimes painful sharp collision a man experiences with the tip of his dick head is most often the cervix unless she is just taking on more horse than she was built for, which is certainly common.

 

Cold penetration should be avoided no matter the size of the dick/toy except for women who just have a kink for it. Typically, the more aroused a woman is the better before any cock parts her pussy lips. Pleasuring her to orgasm first is typically a good indicator that dick can be introduced with a more welcoming embrace. Even fingering can be uncomfortable when she is not terribly aroused. One thing I do not like is the "forced orgasm" techniques that men have picked up from porno, fingering her and violently rubbing her g-post just to make her cum. Although exhilarating, for some woman this is not as pleasurable as it is traumatic. It is a good and enjoyable sex act but best left for later, really after several minutes of intense penetration and female orgasms. Not that anyone here needs a reminder but warm her up first, a lot if you have the time! Generally however, I think even woman forget this practical sexual dynamic of slowly escalating arousal. (This is true for men but to a lesser extent. Believe it or not, sometimes men are focused on things other than screwing you and it is cold outside sometimes ladies, give him a few minutes to warm up before you pull his dick out and demand his hardness!)

 

When the cervix has moved further back into her vagina, deeper penetration is possible into the fornix areas. In my experience with aroused partners, the cervix tends to be more than 5" deep depending on the woman. Some I felt seldom during deep penetrations, others I felt almost every stroke and moved quickly into her fornix (I am missing some of the petite woman I have been with right now). Some women can even take dick penetration into her cervix itself, particularly after childbirth and several years of good fucking.

 

I was not really in a state of attentive listening throughout this clip after the word "flashlight" as my imagination took me elsewhere but this might be useful for some:

 

Cervical awakening, pleasure and orgasm

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My gal is a petite Asian too and never has had children so her pussy is small. Then we found out that after she has a good climax, her pussy relaxes and gets looser. She had him stop at 6 inches, as that was as deep as she could take. However, she found she liked his girth and he did not go any deeper than 6 inches. Later in the evening she had him do her anally, and found that she could take all of him and really enjoy it.

 

Also for me it is not about taking a larger penis deeper. I have found most guys can get deep depending on position. For me it is the girth. And after I have orgasmed a few times I WANT more girth, more of that fulfilling feeling. I want a nice big ole thick penis to ride or hump-diddy-thump me. That is why we tend to have my husband go anal on me after vaginal and I take a thicker dildo to my front. As for anal, the smaller the better. For me it is all about the opening. Getting my opening stimulated is the key to my pleasure anally. Of course after three or four sessions backdoor, I am ready for thicker things there as well. What I have discovered beyond anything, is that large cocks & large dildos are a blast to play with not matter what but penetration is not always an option, even orally if they are too large. So I use the large ones more for a massage of the area, it even feels like I am being penetrated at times with a huge ole head rubbing my holes. The massage is about as amazing as massages can get and makes me cum as well as the guy. If the guys needed more, I would always let him give me a semifacial ( mouth, lips, tongue, chin full). I love larger guys for one main reason, they always seemed to have the most cum. I have always wondered, is that a size thing?

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... we met with a very good looking guy who had a 9X6 inch cock, much larger than anything she had ever tried before. ... Later in the evening she had him do her anally, and found that she could take all of him and really enjoy it.

 

If your wife is a woman that likes anal, it is a good way (for both of you) to enjoy a long dick inside her because length doesn't matter in her bum, so long as the girth isn't beyond what she can accept in her hole. I'm one who will do it on occasion just to please, but can't cum from anal unless it's part of a DP. So when my husband is present, I required that my boyfriend be part of a DP in order to get into my bum. I've never been turned down.

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I was facing the same dilemma with my man, he got a kick out of large dicks, even though he was large himself. He wanted to see even bigger guys fuck me. I need to be really horny and a bit tipsy or more to let go and all has to go slow. I am also into anal sex and there we were after a while able to let really big guys to enter and do me hard. In any case, take your time, she knows what you like, now don't push and let her move at her own comfort level. Have fun you guys ;)

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I can't respect a guy who is not listening to his wife. If she says it hurts and does not want a bigger cock, then she does NOT want a bigger cock. I never met a woman who thought a bigger cock was preferable to a talented cock!

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Based on my experience, I’m only 5’2” and 115 pounds, I think its more of a matter of a woman getting comfortable with taking different cocks, comfortable with taking new ones, and then when that large one comes along, she is comfortable, excited, and at the end of the evening, a bit surprised and very happy with how nicely it all worked.

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Inch by inch would be my best advice is she's scared of stepping up from yours to something a bit bigger.

 

My biggest is 9 inches and it doesn't fit all the way in.. tend to bottom out! ... I can only fit 9 inches in my mouth by deepthroating

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I am only 1.55m so about 5'1" tall, and I have had no problem handling large or thicker men than average.

During coitus if his penis size is making me feel uncomfortable in certain position: I simply change to a more comfortable one.

If the penis is to long and is getting in to deep: I try to control the depth and also I clearly inform my play-partner

For example, if the penis is too thick: lubricant is a must and also a slower rhythm than normal is required.

Finishing a guy with a thick penis by oral sex can be a little bit harder, so I tend to use a lot more my hands than only my mouth.

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Vaginas come in different sizes and shapes, if big hurts her thats a no go, you'll just drive her away from sex.  Vaginas are stretchy but they are also very soft and easy to hurt.  No one wants a hurt vagina.  

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On 7/15/2014 at 1:41 PM, LustyDesires said:

First off, my wife and I are new swingers.

 

What I mean by "new" is that we haven't dipped our feet in all the swinging lifestyle has to offer as of yet. (Which will change with time.)

Instead we've been taking things slow, and currently are only having MFM (Male-Female-Male) threesomes.

 

I enjoy sharing her with other guys, and she enjoys being shared.

 

Anyways, I'm 5.5" inches long, and about 5" thick.

 

As I mentioned above, I enjoy sharing my wife with other guys, and with that said, the idea of guys with bigger penises filling her pussy drives me wild...

 

Unfortunately she has brought up that she prefers smaller, because anything above 6" inches and within my girth is too much for her, and is painful. She admits she would like to try bigger but is hesitant due to the discomfort/pain.

 

I bought her a 7.5" dildo but she doesn't like to use it because of the pain/discomfort.

 

My question for everyone is: "How can we get her use to it so that she can enjoy cocks bigger than myself?"

 

After all, it seems like the average size guys we come across whom seem to have the best potential in what we're looking for are often 7"-9" inches with thick girth.

 

Because of her discomfort with anything bigger then 6" inches our potential playmates seem to be limited. (Not that there is anything wrong with anyone smaller then 6" inches, but overcoming this would leave a bigger window of opportunities!)

 

Thanks.

My wife too didn't like it much for a while and took a lot of lube and slowly practice inch by inch until she can take the 6/12'' diameter  8'' long realistic cock toy all the way in lastly DVP with my cock(smaller saying 5 1/2'') as the final step and as a result she seems to enjoy it dearly.Still,she admitted she would prefer the real cocks than toy.84084-1508805810-2e024a854cfd02be2e16772ee500f3df.thumb.jpg.0b0a078cffde5e67f913145f75ee7526.jpg310808-1578621828-0c72f51cc0061f66816c4959487b22ce.thumb.jpg.b6d1f09c888036e3f997b8552e29ce11.jpgIMG_20191225_012838.thumb.jpg.8b9784076e9b3d2be4836e4261d19630.jpg

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      What was the conversation after the fact, did it effect you two negatively?
      Also did you discuss it before it happened?
       
      We are new and I am just unsure how it will effect me and/or her.
      She has been with 3 other guys since we started about 3/4 months ago.
      I have not had to deal with the above question yet, so looking for some insight from others.
    • By Mistral Wind
      My husband, Tim, met a new prospective client the other day, and an hour appointment went on for another three hours. Then Tim returned to the office glowing with excitement. "Hey, Mistral, the new clients want the Full Monty and more from us!"
       
      A few days later, I met Greg and Susan and found we had an immediate relationship with them both. Glen is a "go-getter" who has enormous energy and vision. He had just acquired three more companies and ran a group of four on a wide area network that needed our services. The questions flowed thick and fast at the meeting: "Can you do xxx for us? What about these services? How about getting the VPN up?" A gem of all clients had been discovered by accident through a conversation with a friend who put us together.
       
      Greg is a tall, dark, very fit 45-year-old with boundless energy and a very sharp, intelligent mind with a wacky sense of humor. Susan is a Nicole Kidman look-alike, red blonde hair, 5'2", pert small breasts with really pink nipples, and the greatest tight little butt I have ever seen. Her hair was shoulder-length curly and shone like spun red gold. Some women you meet and like from day one. We liked the same food and wine and laughed about some of her office's young, horny, and frustrated studs.
       
      Within three weeks of working almost every day with them both, a very positive relationship had started between us. I began to feel that Susan might be bi. She often sat close, and when we were going through my graphic designs, she would sometimes run her hand down my arm or touch my face gently when asking her searching questions. Her being a client, I was always careful not to respond in a sexual way just in case I had misread her. As the working days passed, the banter became more friendly and frank.
       
      After a few dinners and lunches, we were invited to their place for a relaxing weekend after getting most of the projects specified and starting to build. Their income was high, so we expected a nice place when we drove up. It was spectacular!
       
      Greg had said, "Well, it's a small mansion, built about 1795, Robert Adam style." Greg's idea of small contained seven bedrooms, a covered heated pool with a Sauna and Jacuzzi, and the garden had the cutest little Japanese Bonsai tree garden with a beautiful love seat.
       
      When we arrived Friday late afternoon, we just had time to briefly chill out with them doing "the tour." We were shown many large elegant rooms alongside some small intimate settings that would suit a pair of lovers. We met Jonathon, Greg's 21-year-old son, who had just finished University and would take a year off to explore the world. Jon is into falconry in a big way and owns three Harris Hawks: Brody, Bandit, Blackthorn, and a Peregrine Falcon called Blade. I spent an hour chatting with Jon about his birds. I quickly realized the Harris Hawks were an intelligent community-minded group that would work together to hunt their prey.
       
      Later that evening, Jon left to go to London for the weekend to be with his girl. When he left, he kissed Susan (stepmother), and to my eye, it lingered just a little too long. I raised my eyebrow, and she frankly stated, "Well, he is beautiful and half of my husband, so why not enjoy a younger version as well? Greg is pretty relaxed about it."
       
      The air took on a sexual tension that made me feel a little uneasy as we made it a policy not to play with clients, and this has an overtone that could get difficult. Susan and I chilled out before dinner with a swim in the pool and a sauna to finish off. She dropped her bikini on the floor and sat naked in front of me, completely relaxed. Her legs rested on the opposite seat, slightly open, revealing a beautiful smooth snatch. Susan caught me looking and made a show of 'accidentally' allowing her legs to open even more. Watching her outer lips peel stickily apart, I was tempted to reach out and touch but remembered Tim's words: "Don't play with clients!" Susan seemed to sense my conundrum but seemed willing to let things ride where they were...for now.
       
      Dinner passed pleasantly with a couple of bottles of red French Merlot. We all chatted intimately, getting close and closer together. Greg announced an early start as Tim was invited to hunt with Blade the Peregrine while we girls chilled out and enjoyed the morning. About midday, Greg and Tim returned empty-handed Greg said, "We are taking the hawks out. Several wild rabbits are around, which would be great for dinner tonight; grilled rabbit with bacon and garlic is yummy!"
       
      Later the "hunters" returned with three rabbits for the table and a couple for the Harris Hawks. Tim was in awe of the birds and said: "Babe, you should see them hunt together. They would make great Marines. They are intelligent, work well together, and the kills are lightning-fast. No rabbit suffered."
       
      "Time for a shower and a rest before we set up tonight," Tim suggested. So we slipped upstairs to our room and showered together. The shower was only big enough to get both inside and had a flexible pipe with a variable spray head. The naughty schoolboy in Tim surfaced, and he turned the shower onto pulse and started to work my breasts and nipples with the jet. I slid my soapy hands down onto his cock and worked it hard. Tim moved the shower between my legs, and I opened up for him. The jet started to bombard my clit. This was too much too quick, and I said, "Pack it up. That hurts."
       
      Tim settled down onto his knees and softly kissed her better. She responded quickly, and I pushed his face deeper into my crotch. The outer lips were gently opened, and his tongue probed for the inner lips teasing around my clit. I got impatient and rocked my hips into his face forcing his tongue onto my clit, demanding his attention. My legs spread apart of their own accord, and a hand crept around, caressing my bottom and making the cleft tingle with anticipation. As my pussy heated up and the waves started to build, that other hand was around my anus, caressing and probing the pink rosebud.
       
      As the first waves started to run through my body, a finger tickled and slid inside my arse. The orgasm exploding inside me was made more magnificent by the probing finger. The finger working deep in my bowel was enough to hit my "G" spot from the other passage. As I came down from the first shudders, the jet spray added its contribution, and I nearly passed out with pleasure. That brought on a multiple, and it kept coming and coming until I slumped against him.
       
      Tim dried me off, picked me up, and gently laid me on the bed. He dried himself and leaned over me. His cock was still hard. I lazily reached up, pulled him into my mouth, and sucked and sucked, working around the helmet just under the rim. He did not take long as he wanted a cum as much as the sucking. It exploded into my mouth, and I slurped it down, leaving about half on my tongue. Tim collapsed on the bed beside me, and we kissed, sharing the salty fluid he had deposited. "You minx! You are supposed to swallow that!" teased Tim. I shot back: "You know it turns you on tasting semen, so stop complaining."
       
      We both drifted into a deep sleep for a couple of hours. The house is very warm, so I put on a floaty dress and a white silk thong with a diamante glitter buckle at the back when I dressed. Tim smiled and said, "Babe, that does show off your bottom beautifully. I am enjoying their company. Susan has a great mind and body. What do you think of Greg?"
       
      Dodging his question, I asked my own. "Would you want to be inside Susan's pussy?" I asked, "Does she have fuckability?"
       
      "Oh yes, and more. But remember, this is not a swinging party; these are clients. We must be careful; a wrong move could mess things up big time."
       
      "Susan sort of hit on me in the sauna by 'accidentally' showing me her pussy," I admitted. "It's smooth and beautiful, and I could tell she was very wet."
       
      "Interesting," Tim said, "but it doesn't change the fact they are clients. Let's enjoy dinner. Come on; it must be time to go on down." I could tell, though, that my admission had hit home with Tim, and his stomach wouldn't be the only thing on his mind at dinner.
       
      The rabbit was fabulous, and we slowly munched our way through the various courses. Coffee and brandy followed, and we retreated into a smaller intimate family room with sofas, large seats, scattered cushions on the floor, and a big fireplace with a bright fire in the grate. Susan found a DVD, "Eyes Wide Shut," with Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise. Tim commented, "You look just like her, Susan."
       
      "She is a fine woman," Susan agreed. "I wish I had her bottom and her breasts. Watch the first scenes, and you get to see all of her. She is beautiful!"
       
      The film was remarkable, and we all watched it enthralled during the sex party scene in the large country house. The men in masks and long dark cloaks, women in cloaks, and other women wearing just about nothing. Couples fucking all over the furniture, and one girl was being done resting on the back of another man. A girl in the corner was being fucked doggy on a coffee table. I started to get wet. The film was deep, and the sex was great, although never construed as a porn film, much too delicate for that category. My pussy was alive, so I couldn't wait to get Tim back upstairs later. The movie finished, and Susan said, "That was the hot scene at the party. Wouldn't you love to join in and be one of them!"
       
      A careful silence was followed by Tim and me, which gained the retort from Susan. "You are swingers, aren't you? Otherwise, you would have said something about not sharing your wife!" I giggled, and Tim finally uncomfortably said: "Well, it takes all kinds of people with different attitudes to sex to make the world go around."
       
      Susan got up and walked out of the room. After a few minutes, she returned with a small basket of condoms and a collection of exciting toys. Susan smiled at me and said, "Mistral, let's give the boys a show. Then I will fuck Tim to a standstill as long as you are OK about it and want Greg!"
       
      "OK. I want to fuck Greg as much as he wants me. Same for you and Tim," was my husky reply. Suddenly, all the rules had gone out the window. Susan smiled and shrugged off her long dress, sliding it down to the floor, and she had nothing underneath. I got up and selected a toy from the basket, a rabbit dildo. I stepped out of my dress and knelt in front of Susan. She opened up her legs, and I switched on the vibrator, slid a finger inside a very wet slippery pussy, and pressed the toy to her clit.
       
      "My, we have been thinking rude thoughts this evening, hmmm?" I chided her. Susan said, "Well, the DVD certainly opened up the conversation. I tried to interest you in the sauna, and I saw the fuck-me look in your eyes but then got ignored. How come?"
       
      I ignored the question. "Get on the cushions. I want to open you right up and explore," I commanded. I worked slowly down Susan's body, tonguing every crevice. At the same time, the vibrator was held against her pussy without really trying to get inside. She rolled over onto her back, pulled me on top, slid off my thong, and peeled apart the lips of a very wet Mistral pussy. She arched her back to get her head between my legs, then slowly worked her tongue around my clit, just missing the most sensitive part: teasing, teasing! My head was between her legs sucking hard on her cunt, the vibrator discarded alongside us.
       
      Susan tasted and smelt divine, a cunt to die for, and we gently and slowly worked each other to a beautiful girly climax. I slid her clit between my lips and sucked gently, giving it all the attention it could take. Her bottom started to thrash about, and a muffled cry came from her as she exploded and released a dribble of pussy juice onto my face. Strong hands lifted us apart, and Greg sat me down on his lap, legs facing him. He kissed me gently, opened my mouth with his tongue, and started to probe my soul with his penetrating tongue. When those two had shed their clothes, I don't know!
       
      What I wanted was getting harder under my thigh and starting to poke up between my legs. My hand reached down and stroked the elegant cock, trying so hard to get inside me. Greg put on a condom and was ready for me. A thrust up then down onto it, and he was inside. I could not wait and would not wait. My hips thrust madly at him, exploring his cock and filling myself with pleasure. It must have only taken me 30 seconds to hit the first orgasm, and Greg was getting faster and faster until he exploded.
       
      We kissed and looked over at Tim and Susan. They were in a 69 with Susan sucking Tim hard and working her two fingers inside his anus. His balls tightened, and he emptied himself inside her mouth. She got up, came over, and kissed me deeply, sharing the contents of her mouth with me. Susan returned to Tim and started gently sucking him back to hardness again. Greg was working my bottom with his tongue, firm strokes working into the most private and sensitive area a woman has. I pulled him up and kissed him deeply, and again he shared the semen from Susan's mouth.
       
      Greg smiled and said, "OK, we all shared Tim. Would he enjoy sucking me?" I was a little unsure how Tim would react. Susan said, "He can't talk right now since his mouth is full of my pussy."
       
      Greg lifted me off him and walked over to the other two, kissed Susan, and then leaned over and lightly bit Tim's nipple, who, for a straight guy, relaxed and did nothing. Greg slowly worked down his body and started to get near his groin. Susan got up and thrust her pussy back into his face. Tim hungrily lapped at her while Greg took Tim's cock into his mouth.
       
      Tim started to push his hips at Greg, who was working the sensitive spots on his cock with expert reverence. I had never seen Tim with a man before, and it fascinated me to see how he responded to a man's attention. Tim gently pulled Greg around so they were 69 together and opened his mouth to get Greg's cock down his throat.
       
      Susan had slid behind me and worked one of the toys into my pussy. A little finger was up my arse, and the big rabbit worked magic inside me. I watched, fascinated, while the two men ground their cocks into each other's mouths, sucking and mouth fucking together. I could reach Greg's anus from where I was crouching, and I slid a finger inside, feeling for his prostate. I found the firm nut I was after and massaged it, bringing him to a rapid spunk explosion. When he started, I worked the prostate harder, milking the orgasm to its absolute. Tim was greedily swallowing all that Greg could deliver. Tim's hips began to shudder as he succumbed to Greg's tongue and spurted his load down his throat.
       
      The guys then got up and came over and kissed us. Greg pushed a quantity of spunk down my throat while Tim probed Susan's mouth. For the rest of the night, we moved upstairs to a large bedroom with a king-sized double that could sleep six without trouble. We swapped, we fucked, we cuddled and rested, then swapped, fucked, and cuddled some more, eventually falling asleep around 5 a.m.
       
      I awoke around 7:00, needing a drink. As no one else was around, I walked naked downstairs to get some orange juice. Halfway down the stairs, Jon appeared with a smile and a naked girlfriend beside him. "Hello, we returned late last night and realized you guys were having fun."
       
      Penny, Jon's girlfriend, said, "Come into this room. We had a camera in the large bedroom and watched you all together. What a turn-on!"
       
      I followed them in with dread, not knowing what to expect. Jon said, "Don't look so worried. We enjoyed the performance and wanted to share some of it with you."
       
      As I looked at the display, the threesome on the screen was waking up, and Susan was fondling both men. Penny said, "I often watch Greg and Susan's swinging parties here, and we fuck like bunnies while we watch. I enjoyed a threesome with Jon and his stepmother. What was Greg like? I haven't had him yet?" I just stood there, mouth open in shock, unable to speak.
       
      Jon pushed me gently onto the bed and started caressing my body while Penny approached the other side. Jon gently sucked my nipples while Penny's tongue delicately explored my womanhood. "We want to fuck you properly, Mistral, but I know your pussy must be sore from last night, so we'll stick with our tongues this time, OK?"
       
      After a few minutes of light sex, Penny said, "We better slip away quietly as we are not supposed to be here. Are you two coming to next weekend's party?" The feeling of this beautiful young feminine creature's tongue still fresh on my mind, I shot back, "You bet. If we are invited."
       
      "Oh, I expect you shall be," Penny smiled. She gazed into my eyes, dropped her hand between her legs, and worked a finger deep into herself. "Until next time...," she said, trailing her finger, wet with her secretions and Jon's cum, stickily across my cheek before resting it on my lips. An invitation which I readily obliged by opening my mouth. Her long finger worked around my tongue, gifting me the taste of her and her lover.
       
      I slipped upstairs and joined the frolicking three on the bed for more and more of what my body desired. Eventually, we fell asleep again and woke around 3 p.m. feeling completely satisfied and sexually drained. A shower and a good cleanup refreshed my body and spirit. Tim and I were due to leave soon, and Susan came to me and said, "You must come to our next weekend party. Please say yes. If you like, bring some friends that will enjoy what you two have this weekend. There is so much more I want to do with you and Tim. We have had a fantastic time."

      On the way home, Tim said solemnly: "You realize that the weekend could have gone dreadfully wrong if it was a trap. We were caught out, well nearly!"

      The following weekend swinger party is another edition of this story…
    • By Santokos
      My wife is conservative, we are 10 years together. Our sex life is just OK. Due to children and busy life, we don’t have sex often. I asked her if she wants me to buy a dildo for her. She said she would like the dildo. When I asked her how she will use it she said that she would like to have the dildo in her pussy while sucking my cock. Ladies what do you think, does that means that she is into 3some? I know that most of the replies would be .. go and ask her but I would love a different reply. I forgot to mention that we don’t have any experience in SL
      P.S sorry for my bad English 
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