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  1. #676

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    I have gone with roomfulls of people most weeks for years but would not classify myself as a swinger.
    I am actively interested in making the transition from virtual adult video performer
    to the real world but having transitioned now to size A tits and size 7 cock I am
    not too sure about the stigma and prejudice I am bound to encounter at first in
    the real life physical world of swingers and swinging.

  2. #677

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    i'm a single man.in a perfect world i would like to meet a female or couple who would be interested in safe,satisfying experiences but swinging seems so out there.i guess i am too boring.

  3. #678
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    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by suds00 View Post
    i'm a single man.in a perfect world i would like to meet a female or couple who would be interested in safe,satisfying experiences but swinging seems so out there.i guess i am too boring.
    Boring? What in particular makes you thing that? Even Sheldon Lee Cooper has an appeal for certain women. And those particular women are anything but boring. None of us meet swingers in a perfect world.

    Don't project an image of safe and satisfing. Projecy an image of just being yourself.

  4. #679

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    Did this before. Not for the jealous type. Nervous at first, then eventually relax when you both feel what your comfortable with. I'm straight. She was bi-curious and tried it once. Not for her at that time. However, she is willing to try it again. Me being the shy one, I just pretty much watch now. It suits her fine, she loves to be watched. You'll have a great time. Last time was a MMF for her, and I overheard her say, once she orgasms, she will try anything. Thanks.....Joe and Mary

  5. #680

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    I have been in the lifestyle over 15 years and had group experiences even earlier. I've been in it as a couple and as a single guy, which is my current status. So many people in it from newbies to veterans to dabblers and even within those groups there are so many different types. A big welcome to all

  6. #681

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    just internet adult videochat now really


  7. #682

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    I like it when they all start to log off from my private adult video chat sessions. I know a lot of them have cum by then after watching me and it gives me a kick every time. Sometimes I add up 5 or 10 a week for a few years and it makes me feel more wanted than in my everyday life. When they all log off I know I have meant something to them. Not many people can really say that in life. I am not sure where it will lead but then I did not know where my life would lead years ago when I was in a swingers club on a sofa and just asked if anyone would mind if I had a wank? I am a cup size B high cock girth trans now. You just never really know what will happen.

  8. #683

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    Totally new. My wife and I opened our marriage but I've been out of the game so long I dunno if I have any game left in me. I also still raise three kids and going out is tough but possible thanks to the arrangement with my wife. Have not gotten far yet. Just the agreement and mutual interest

  9. #684

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    I was introduced into swinging by my first husband, who knew of my 'past' in adult entertainment, but it is my current husband that I can honestly say is my equal in sexual appetite, energy, body physique and maintenance, and Bi orientation. Those that are new to the Lifestyle, it is best to have a partner who has dealt with their past issues and insecurities, and with some group experience. NO Jealousies allowed!
    Laura
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  10. #685

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    We have had a couple adventures, both as singles (open marriage) and a couple. Just seems to be too few and far between.

  11. #686

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    Brand new. Hit one event. No full swap but got to watch Tiki with another guy which is a huge turn on for me.

  12. #687

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    My husband and I have been in the lifestyle since summer last year. We went to a swinger friendly nudist resort for our anniversary last year and ended up meeting a wonderful couple who we see often both for vanilla stuff and playtime. We have also had a couple encounters with another couple we met earlier this year and we're looking forward to out first hotel takeover next month. We invited our newest friends to meet us there along with our first couple who all live in the same town. Hopefully everyone gets along and it's a great night! We're hoping to find more friends soon

  13. #688

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    Just a word of caution here...two couples work just fine, four couples seem to work just fine, but three couples...it's easy for one of the couples to get left out. Just because you click with the other two couples doesn't mean that the other two will click. Two end up playing and one can easily end up on the sidelines as spectators. This is experience talking here...(but since you are all going to a hotel takeover, there will be more fish on hand)
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

  14. #689

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    Quote Originally Posted by twoingeorgia View Post
    Hi everyone, We consider ourselves new to the lifestyle although we did have one experience about 5 years ago. It was a date to meet another couple for dinner & drinks to basically get to know them and see if there was any chemistry. I was straight forward in my intention that it would be nothing more than that. Well, it turned into a little bit more but not in a positive way. They were very pushy and it was just a horrible introduction to the lifestyle. They weren't newbies and should have had better control IMO.

    Needless to say, we hightailed it out of there and figured this wasn't for us. We eventually figured out it was the approach and actions of the other couple that turned us off and we're looking into it again. Going slowly and being very selective this time around!!

    D&A
    For the few bad experiences there are many, many more great ones, so don't give up on your original desire to swing or you may regret it years down the track.

    Keep sweet,

    John


  15. #690

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    Seek and ye shall find!

    John

  16. #691

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    We're new to it. 3 kids are now on their own and we decided maybe we could try something out of our comfort zone. We started by looking for a "hotwife" scenario but have now settled on a possible FWB scene. We've talked to a few guys on SLS and met one for dinner but that's as far as we've gotten so far. Any advice or tips would be well appreciated.

    D & D

  17. #692

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    with a background in several no sex before marriage communities I now find myself having transitioned to a size 7 cup size A amateur video webcam performer. Having gone with roomfuls of both sexes most weeks over transition I realize now that shemale webcam performers are not mentioned in any religious texts either as well as sex before marriage so I think I should probably start performing with real life people in real life performances.

  18. #693

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    My wife and I are totally new. We have been talking about it the last few months and are traveling to our first clubs in a few weeks. We are excited, scared and intrigued by everything we will see and experience. I am trying to go with no expectations and enjoy whatever comes our way. But I get so excited about the possibilities of watching my wife play with another woman.

  19. #694

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    Sounds like you are on the correct path. Just because you go to a club, doesn't mean that you have to do anything you aren't ready (and decided before with setting your limits) to do. Good luck and report back as to how things go.
    If you donít have to lie about sex, you donít have to lie about anything. - John Williamson

  20. #695

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    My advice as a newbie is be prepared for anything, especially what you don't expect. How will you react? Our second time to the club was a dud. We were going with no expectations other than having fun. That's exactly what didn't happen. We didn't have any fun and the wife was ready to leave and I wasn't catching the hints. I wasn't in tune and thought maybe it would get better so I suggested waiting to see if something was going to happen.

    I was so mentally prepared and on guard to read her signals, both planned and unplanned like we had discussed so many times, if something was happening that she wasn't comfortable with but what I wasn't prepared for was something not happening and her saying let's just go and come back some other time. I think she saw disappointment on my face. Perhaps she read a little more into it than what was there but yes I was disappointed. I shouldn't have been. I mean worst case was I got to leave the club with the sexiest, most beautiful woman there. She wanted to leave and I wasn't as supportive of that as I should have been. Then I ended up getting in my own head and it spiraled downward from there for the next few hours.

    I wouldn't trade the experience for a good one because it helped us both be more in tune with each other...OK it helped me realize I wasn't as in tune as I thought. I'm just saying be prepared for what you aren't prepared for because those will be the ones you have problems with. Making sure the lines of communication always stay wide open is key. Listen with an open mind and heart. Put yourself firmly in her shoes anytime she is saying I'm feeling (fill in the blank). Don't read anything into what she's saying. Take it for face value and give her the same courtesy of honesty when you have something to say and expect her to do nothing other than hear it. Do preplan in your head what you think she is going to think...that's easier said than done, trust me. Here's the deal though, You can't control her reaction but you can control your reaction to her reaction and that's going to be more important in the long run. The trust will build with each good and each bad experience. The communication will become easier and easier and those reactions will become nothing more than a blip, maybe a raised eyebrow and if needed a discussion, later, at an appropriate time.

  21. #696

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    My hubby and I are totally new to this! We're still in a "learning" phase I guess you could call it. We are trying to figure out what we both want and what our limits are. Its been very exciting and has actually brought us way closer and we havent even really done anything yet. We have talked about threesomes and both really like the idea of bringing another girl into the bedroom. Also, we're talking about maybe joining with another couple (or more than one couple, if that is the case) for group sex.

    I love this thread btw. It nice reading what others want in and future and what they have already experienced.

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    Experienced on and off(mostly on) since 1984


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