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  1. #76

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Hi, my wife and I are new to this. We have an ongoing relationship with my best friend. He and I are straight, but we both really enjoy my wife, she is gorgeous. We find it very difficult to find the right people or person, and of course time away from the kids is always an issue. Hope to get to know some nice people here.

  2. #77

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    Brand spanking new!! We're in the early discussion/learning stage - planning to take it nice and slow.

  3. #78

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    we are absolutely new to this, my wife has made a few comments over time and I am interested, I dont know how to bring it up casually again without it sounding like Im unhappy in our relationship so I am just researching so to say.

  4. #79

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    Experienced here: we have been together for 12 years [10th Wedding anniversary this year]... our third date was a threesome

  5. #80

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    We have been in the lifestyle as a couple for a few years now. We have our membership on SLS, and have met a few couples. We've had a great night with a wonderfully sexy couple. This was my husbands first experience in the lifestyle, mine was about 11 years ago. We have always had good communications and talking about our experiences have helped us understand our likes and dislikes of our sex lives and the lifestyle.

  6. #81

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    Brand new like...I am kind of like Rudrjunk's wife. Trying to find myself and lately had a sensual awakening within me. We both have had an interest, dh more way back when but now we have taken it to the next level and here I/We are looking for advice and information on we should know.


  7. #82

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    New - but have done it a couple of times MFM, but soft sex. She wasn't ready to take his manhood inside just yet but boy did she get off by his handy work. She drops in to the idea and then out again. Right now, she won't discuss it.

  8. #83

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    This lifestyle is all new to me. But for the longest time I have wondered what it would be like to participate in these activities. It is a curiosity that I can no longer ignore. I want to experience new and exciting encounters with new friends that can show me the way. So I bought a ticket and I am taking that ride to Swing Town!

  9. #84

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    completely new to this. we would like to have intercourse with others and i would like to try going bi for a night. its embarrassing but i'm not really sure how lesbian sex works. i just want to give massages and do oral

  10. #85

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    Quote Originally Posted by naughty razcal View Post
    This lifestyle is all new to me. But for the longest time I have wondered what it would be like to participate in these activities. It is a curiosity that I can no longer ignore. I want to experience new and exciting encounters with new friends that can show me the way. So I bought a ticket and I am taking that ride to Swing Town!
    Are you a couple or just by yourself? We're a couple who just got into this too. We're just worried some nuts will try to do something crazy to us.

  11. #86

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    At the age of 18 I met an open couple through a sports team I coached. They had kids and appeared to be a loving and happy home. I was un aware that they had an open marriage. They sat me down to what I thought was a dinner to set me up with a girl that went to a rival school. I was in between girlfriends and they always asked me about who I was or if I was ever seeing anyone. After a couple drinks conversation began to be sexually charged but light and innocent in nature. They told us what they were about and we began to ask questions. I was nervous but they were relaxing and very eager to make me feel comfortable with the situation. We all agreed upon rules and guidelines. the experience opened me to swinging and I have had 2 other open relationships that only ended over distance, never the swinging. I think its great to be open and we as humans have a natural sexual instinct. I feel that swinging is a positive addition to my life. I am single at the moment. However open to finding other swinger couples as well as other swinger females.

  12. #87

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    My wife and I are so new that we've never even tried it, but I know for a fact that the wife is now interested. I know she's still a bit shy because she's not quite at the weight she wants to be for some thing like this, but the time will come.

    I just need to research more info (and this is an excellent place to start) so we both know how to do this carefully.

  13. #88

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    I understand about your wife's insecurity about her body. I used to be very fit, in fact I have even competed in local body building contests at one time, but for the last few years have packed on about 20 lbs. It is funny though, that does not seem to be a factor in the pleasure that we have experienced with others. We usually meet our players at bars though and I wanted to try this to get a wider picture of how others work this lifestyle.

    At first I felt very uncertain about this even though my sex drive is higher than that of my partner, he enjoys watching and that gets him excited and then participates. I did not feel that I was the picture of a swinger, but really what does that picture look like? We like MFM and FMF and couples as well as bi for both.

  14. #89

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    Quote Originally Posted by Silly Mech View Post
    My wife and I are so new that we've never even tried it, but I know for a fact that the wife is now interested. I know she's still a bit shy because she's not quite at the weight she wants to be for some thing like this, but the time will come.

    I just need to research more info (and this is an excellent place to start) so we both know how to do this carefully.
    Bring her here or print off some threads for her to read. There are quite a few that deal with what she is going through and will show her that she's not alone and if anything swinging can help you get over some of those insecurities.


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    I have been in several friends w/ benefits 'relationships', so I'm used to a non-exclusive sex life. One of those was with a sex addict, and I would find with someone new a couple times a week, haha! (He was crazy...but sweet...) And I've had a couple of threesomes with friends. I'm very acquainted with separating sex/attachment/friendship, and don't tend to have jealousy issues. (My friends like to joke I'm a guy in that regard.)

    But basically I'm totally new to the lifestyle and I'm not sure what to expect, but I'm hoping to have a lot fun, make friends, fulfill fantasies, and really enjoy being alive!

  16. #91

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    I'm new, but I've always been intrigued by the lifestyle. I hope to make new friends here.

    Dale

  17. #92

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    A warm welcome to the both of you. Come on in - we don't bite (not unless you want us to!)

  18. #93

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    Hubby and I are VERY new to the LS. We're taking a trip to Vegas in a couple of weeks and thought it would be fun to venture out and give it a try. I must say, even the idea of doing it has made our sex life at home heat up quite a bit. And we're looking into local places here too. We want to try it - and have decided at least for now, we're soft swingers. We want our first experience to be awesome and not a waste of time or money. how do we begin?

  19. #94

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    Quote Originally Posted by CelticSwinger View Post
    Hubby and I are VERY new to the LS. We're taking a trip to Vegas in a couple of weeks and thought it would be fun to venture out and give it a try. I must say, even the idea of doing it has made our sex life at home heat up quite a bit. And we're looking into local places here too. We want to try it - and have decided at least for now, we're soft swingers. We want our first experience to be awesome and not a waste of time or money. how do we begin?
    well for the around here bit.... just find a place on your 'site of choice' and look at the pics and call around some maybe. and just go to see what's what and have a good time meeting people. i'd make sure they know your soft but other then that go and hang out and have fun.... just cus your at a party doesn't mean you have to play. find some place where your comfy at and like the people and you will meet people you will enjoy in the bedroom and out and every time you go out will be fun.

  20. #95

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    Beth an I have had one truly unexpected experience. We wrote about it in the first time experiences forum. Briefly it was with dear friends. No suits a hot tub and too much booze... The Sex was hot but the feilings the next day were a little strange.
    The sex with Beth and I was so hot for about a month we couldnt keep our hands off each other. I don't mean to ramble, but the swapping of atleast sharing opportunity was THRILLING.

  21. #96

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    We are both new to this. We had a couple of drunk AFF cam sessions a year or so ago, and have had some pillow talk ever since. Recently we took the talks off the pillow, and here we are.

  22. #97

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    me to i am delighted to be here, em good


  23. #98

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    cool,great

  24. #99

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    It's been a long time coming. LOL! About 8 years ago, my husband (Matt) and I considered swinging. We started by having a FMF threesome with a girlfriend of mine. Unfortunately, that didn't go well. I was jealous, then she went crazy trying to contact him privately, etc. So, we decided it was best to not go forward, because he already had reservations about my being with another man. Our experience with the girl just confirmed that it wouldn't be pretty.

    Then, about six months ago, we were talking about sex with our friends. They are into BDSM, considering swinging, and out of nowhere, Matt tells me he would be okay with swinging at this point in our marriage. We talked and talked, but had no idea so many people were into this. We asked around and found a website, went to a club, and it's been all uphill from there!

  25. #100

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    congrats on your decision. It's been an interesting life to say the least, Travel, like minded people and lots of sex.......what can be better? Make sure you set good limits and communicate with your partner about changes you want to make. Over time you may want to try different things. Good luck and If you are ever in the DC area...........

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