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  1. #26

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    We've done full swap same and seperate rooms, MFM and one FMF. The FMF was HORRIBLE for us, due to the fact that the other woman LITERALLY kept cock-blocking me and if my hubby tried to show me attention, she did everything she could to get it back, including pulling us apart. We learned a lesson that night, make sure she REALLY wants to share...
    Jan

  2. #27

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    I (Him) have some experience...she has none...but we are both looking forward to exploring what the lifestyle has to offer...

    J & S

  3. #28

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    We had our first experience about 4 years ago.. Small party at the house with some friends and ended in the hottub. After an hour or so and several drinks, it got down to just the wife and I and guy from next door. She and I were playing a little and she said it didnt seem fair to leave him out. I suggested she show him her "talent" as she is a BJ queen.. Well, she did and it went on and on from there. Her favorite is MFM but we have recently experienced several very nice FMF and we both really enjoyed that as well. At this point we have had the pleasure of a few soft swaps but always in the same room (or hottub). She would like to try a 3 guy nite.. and I am game, so maybe soon.
    The biggest issue we have is meeting others in the same general area we live. Hoping that will get better as we start to meet people on the board and in person.

  4. #29

    Talking Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Me and My husband is very new to swinging, we have had one experience with his cousin, and OMG that was so awesome being the center of attention between two males. I loved it, but hubby still has issues wether or not he could handle another male having sex with me, other than just touching, Me on the other hand i am ready for it. any ideas HELP!!!!
    I would love to be with more than one man at a time, i love my husband and I am not looking to replace him, Just want to have fun, Male or female, lol

  5. #30

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by srlkokie75 View Post
    Me and My husband is very new to swinging, we have had one experience with his cousin, and OMG that was so awesome being the center of attention between two males. I loved it, but hubby still has issues wether or not he could handle another male having sex with me, other than just touching, Me on the other hand i am ready for it. any ideas HELP!!!!
    I would love to be with more than one man at a time, i love my husband and I am not looking to replace him, Just want to have fun, Male or female, lol
    LOL, you sound just like my wife. Like you, she thinks being in the middle is amazing. As for your hubby, take your time and just let him know it is double the fun for you and you are more then willing to return the favor for him. He will catch on to the idea I am sure. The big thing is dont push it, it is meant to be fun and if he feels like it is being pushed on him, he will not be as willing. I would also suggest some adult movies that are geared towards the type of play you want. Watch with him and see how he reacts.
    Good luck and the key to everyone having a great time is communication.. !

  6. #31

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Right now I'm a single female and have never had any experience with swinging. I was with a boyfriend for 2 years and he had brought the subject up to me but we never put the thought into action. Now that I'm by myself I have started to think about being with a couple more and more... Is that weird that I'm single and I still would like to be involved in swinging? Could you even call it swinging if I'm single?
    I guess I am so new at this I dont know the right questions to ask... But I feel if I was in a relationship that this would be something I would want to share with my partner. If anyone has any advice about this I would love some!

  7. #32

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    We still consider ourselves new, but have had two experiences. They were good for us and according to our "friends" they enjoyed themselves as well. We took our time starting and it ws well worth the wait, we were very comfortable when the first time happened.



  8. #33

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    We have not experienced anything yet. We went to a club, the problem is that I am shy. I was very nervous. We met a lot of nice people there. My nerves got the better of me though.
    We will be returning to the club. The best thing is, my husband is not rushing me into anything. I love him so much.


  9. #34

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    we have been in the lifestyle since last nov. I think we are past newbie status. lol. We have been with around 15 or so couples. We love it. IT has been for us. It hyas made are at home sex life better!!!

    C&C

  10. #35

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    I think we have you all beat. We have been married for 39 years and neither one of us had ever had sex with anyone else. When I say ever, I mean ever! But we have talked about it for a while and we decided to try it because, frankly, it looks like a whole lot of fun. We are on LL and AFF, we went to a non-play Meet & Greet, and we had dinner with a couple who contacted us from AFF. We are having dinner with again next week at their house (with hot tub) and we plan to take things as far as we feel like going. We are also going to a club in San Francisco for a No panties mini-skirt party on Saturday night where we plan on playing as circumstances allow. We are slightly nervous but also really happy to know that there are lots of other people just like us.

  11. #36

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by silvergirl1 View Post
    Right now I'm a single female and have never had any experience with swinging. I was with a boyfriend for 2 years and he had brought the subject up to me but we never put the thought into action. Now that I'm by myself I have started to think about being with a couple more and more... Is that weird that I'm single and I still would like to be involved in swinging? Could you even call it swinging if I'm single?
    I guess I am so new at this I dont know the right questions to ask... But I feel if I was in a relationship that this would be something I would want to share with my partner. If anyone has any advice about this I would love some!
    No, I don't think its weird at all, you being single and wanting to be in the lifestyle. I've been at it for almost 15 years and its quite satisfying. Drop me a line if you have any questions or need some advice....

  12. #37

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    I'd say we are fairly new, we have an exp. wiith another couple and been hooked every since, we enjoy it and love meeting new people, it's just been hard for us to meet females and couples due to the fact we are so busy and never in the scene ex. when we go out and meet people. we are very picky so we find it difficult to meet people. but i'm hoping we can continue to explore and have a helluva time.

  13. #38

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Hello All We are not married Yet next year We have not had a couple experiance yet just MMF she likes the attension we are looking for friends in Denver area we are both in our 30s looking for friends in and out of Bedroomm

  14. #39

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    we are brand new to the lifestyle but excited to learn

  15. #40

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    well we started swinging a little over a yr ago.. he'd been working on getting me into for 8 yrs and i finally he asked to call a club... real swave of him.. heheh so we are outside and he's talking to her. and next thing i know he says we will see you friday night.. so i was almost pissed at first, then worry..hheh i was very body shy and didn't think anyone would like me. so we go and on the way we agreed that what happends doesn't matter.. and we'd take it as it goes. so the ladies there.. most my size by the way... where great and we discovered we loved the friends you can have and the 2 guys i went up with was nice too.heheh so after maybe 3 months of swinging i was finnally less shy.. and now i go out more then he does. i'm no longer a one man woman.... bi... and we are in it for life.. hehehe so that's our first experiance.

  16. #41

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    Thanks, I'm new to this site but have had some experience with others. Just wanted to say Hi everybody.......


  17. #42

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by KandS2727 View Post
    we are brand new to the lifestyle but excited to learn
    Same here!!!

  18. #43

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    Do you already have experience with swinging? Or is this a new idea for you? If you are experienced share your experience. If you aren't tell us what experiences you'd like to have.
    I'd like to have my wife get interested in Swinging but she is so Straight & Religious. Yes, I have swung a few times but not in recent times. Almost wish she would get raped. But then maybe that would be the end of her beginning.
    Have you any ideas or suggestions?

  19. #44

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mountainman Joe View Post
    I'd like to have my wife get interested in Swinging but she is so Straight & Religious. Yes, I have swung a few times but not in recent times. Almost wish she would get raped. But then maybe that would be the end of her beginning.
    Have you any ideas or suggestions?
    Do I have any suggestions, sure, she needs to find a new mate. Your role should be to protect her at all costs and yet you suggest she get raped so YOU can swing?
    Get help!

  20. #45

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by TnCouple4fun View Post
    Do I have any suggestions, sure, she needs to find a new mate. Your role should be to protect her at all costs and yet you suggest she get raped so YOU can swing?
    Get help!
    Ditto!
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  21. #46

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Yikes! I almost hate to follow that one! (wow, some people do say stupid things, don't they?)....

    Mr. O and I are very new. We've joined a club and enjoyed our time there watching, being watched, having sex in the same room as other couples having sex. We haven't actually had sex around anyone we've actually spoken to beforehand. Right now we are getting to know two couples pretty well and a 3rd has entered the picture. We've gotten an invitation from one of the couples to "get together for a game night and see where it goes". So, now we are really getting a handle on our "boundaries" so we can pursue this evening with them. The nice part of it is that the female of the couple is very outgoing and aggressive (in a good way), which is probably just the thing we need to pull us out of our timidity. It'll probably be the girls that get the party started. They seem like the sort of people with whom we could experiment and wouldn't be offended if we had to pop out for a "discussion" or re-evaluation mid-stream. Besides, once we are out of our shells, you'd never believe we had ever been in them! So, we'll see where that goes. It's kind of like strip poker, we'll lose a sock here and a shirt there...eventually, we'll be naked and swapping like mad! someday...
    Graze on my lips; and if those hills be dry, stray lower, where the pleasant fountains lie.

  22. #47

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mountainman Joe View Post
    I'd like to have my wife get interested in Swinging but she is so Straight & Religious. Yes, I have swung a few times but not in recent times. Almost wish she would get raped. But then maybe that would be the end of her beginning.
    Have you any ideas or suggestions?
    Um wow I am at a loss for words. That is sad and sick.
    Mr. and Mrs. J- 25 years old, new to swinging but excited to learn!!! ;)

  23. #48

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    We dont consider ourselves "new", because we have had a few 3 somes in the past, but only 3 months of actually pursuing other couples for swapping. We have met a few really good couples so far.

  24. #49

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    First off thank you for this site! Me and my girlfriend have been together for almost a year now and love each other very much. We are big time nymphos =D and are curious about trying new things. We both have fantacies of doing things with each other that include other people and have talked about shareing each other. I was just hopeing for some insite to our feelings and hope to meet some nice couples


  25. #50

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    Do you already have experience with swinging? Or is this a new idea for you? If you are experienced share your experience. If you aren't tell us what experiences you'd like to have.
    Yes, I already have some Swinging experience but it was several years ago. Now that I'm 70 I'm starting over but looking for much more Mature women this time.
    Once I was invited to a Club orgy as a fill in for a Sick hubby. Wow the Sweet aroma of Sex was in the air that night. The place was a large ranch type home with large basement partitioned off by curtains Each cubicle had a Single bed with soft carpeting. The name of the Swing Club was called The Sand Castle and it was outside Vancouver, WA.

    Now have moved to the mountains so I'm looking for Mature women in & around La Grande, OR.

    Joe

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