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  1. #251

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    we have a little bit of experience but certainly not expert at it. We have been married over 6 years and have been enjoying the lifestyle for a bit over a year. We were fortunate to have been introduced to it by a very nice couple and we usually play with the same group. We thought we would expand our horizons and explore a bit here!

  2. #252

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    As a couple we are new. DH has never swung; however, in addition to being bi-sexual, I had a MFM threesome with my ex-hubby, and had a FMF (twice) with my 'best girlfriend" and her husband between my divorce and meeting my DH.
    DH and I want to swing, I had the idea, but he suggested it first. I am concerned about him being jealous. He has made some jealous comments about my previous expiernces, but he says that will not be an issuse if he is playing also.
    I am also concerned about STDs. If I'm playing with strangers, there will be a condom rule. DH says that will limit our swinging possibilites.
    DH is concerned about being "found out" due to his job...

  3. #253

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    Do you already have experience with swinging? Or is this a new idea for you? If you are experienced share your experience. If you aren't tell us what experiences you'd like to have.
    We are completely new to swinging. We have always enjoyed the thought of it. We now are willing to give it a try. Any help anyone could provide would be appreciated.

  4. #254

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Hello Everyone.

    This is my very first post ever on here, my husband and I are very new, and we never had any experiences with anyone. I am very interested in trying this life style. I actually had some encounters before I meet my husband so you can say Iíve already tried it. I am very adventurous and open to change. But the problem is my husband. He is a jealous man and I donít know how to tell him that I want to try swinging, he has fantasies like FMF but he once told me he canít imagine another guy touching me. I have been actively reading about the lifestyle and talking to couple on different websites but he doesnít know that. I love my husband so much and would never want to hurt him, what should I do? I really want to try swinging (it doesnít have to be full swap) just the idea of being with other people turns me on. I need your help in how should I approach my husband without hurting his feeling. I think once he tries it heíll enjoy it, I just need to get him to try it first. And I donít know how, please helpÖ

    Thanks

  5. #255

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    I've been to some swinger parties and enjoyed myself. I plan to keep going to the parties but I would also like to swing with either a single woman or be part of an MFM experience. Whether or not that wish will come true, who knows?

  6. #256

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by SuperHotSauce View Post
    Hello Everyone.

    This is my very first post ever on here, my husband and I are very new, and we never had any experiences with anyone. I am very interested in trying this life style. I actually had some encounters before I meet my husband so you can say Iíve already tried it. I am very adventurous and open to change. But the problem is my husband. He is a jealous man and I donít know how to tell him that I want to try swinging, he has fantasies like FMF but he once told me he canít imagine another guy touching me. I have been actively reading about the lifestyle and talking to couple on different websites but he doesnít know that. I love my husband so much and would never want to hurt him, what should I do? I really want to try swinging (it doesnít have to be full swap) just the idea of being with other people turns me on. I need your help in how should I approach my husband without hurting his feeling. I think once he tries it heíll enjoy it, I just need to get him to try it first. And I donít know how, please helpÖ

    Thanks
    I'm a bachelor who plans to stay that way. With that said, I would suggest that you ask him why he does not like the idea of you being touched by another man. Maybe his feelings toward you are proprietary, maybe he just doesn't like to share, I don't know. On the flipside, maybe you could tell him what it is about the swinging lifestyle that turns you on so much. I realize that I have no real experience of what marriage is like, but I hope that this helps, even a little bit. Hopefully, the couples who post here can be of more assistance.

  7. #257

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by rohancid View Post
    I'm a bachelor who plans to stay that way. With that said, I would suggest that you ask him why he does not like the idea of you being touched by another man. Maybe his feelings toward you are proprietary, maybe he just doesn't like to share, I don't know. On the flipside, maybe you could tell him what it is about the swinging lifestyle that turns you on so much. I realize that I have no real experience of what marriage is like, but I hope that this helps, even a little bit. Hopefully, the couples who post here can be of more assistance.
    As a male and married I can say that our swinging began from my desire to see her with w/another man, I am straight and comfortable with mmf , took some time and communication for her to be comfortable with another lady.
    Mostly the turn on has evolved into her being with three or four men which she loves and the voyuer in me creates intense ending as I finish herv off so too speak..just adding my two cents


  8. #258

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    I'm new to swinging. I've actually only swapped twice but we've been busy and haven't had much time.

  9. #259

    Wink Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by SuperHotSauce View Post
    Hello Everyone.

    This is my very first post ever on here, my husband and I are very new, and we never had any experiences with anyone. I am very interested in trying this life style. I actually had some encounters before I meet my husband so you can say Iíve already tried it. I am very adventurous and open to change. But the problem is my husband. He is a jealous man and I donít know how to tell him that I want to try swinging, he has fantasies like FMF but he once told me he canít imagine another guy touching me. I have been actively reading about the lifestyle and talking to couple on different websites but he doesnít know that. I love my husband so much and would never want to hurt him, what should I do? I really want to try swinging (it doesnít have to be full swap) just the idea of being with other people turns me on. I need your help in how should I approach my husband without hurting his feeling. I think once he tries it heíll enjoy it, I just need to get him to try it first. And I donít know how, please helpÖ

    Thanks
    Just a thought - start out by playing up his fantasy of FMF - go to a party and let it roll - if he won;t go to a party, maybe you have a friend that would "work with you". I don;t think it's unusual to feel some jealousy but communication between you two is a key - make him feel safe and that you are only going home with him - take a break if need be to reassure him. Go to a party for the two of you & if something happens then it does; if it doesn't, assure him you won't be disappointed because you'll be with him. Sounds like some words of affirmation would go along way here. Let it happen but don;t "make" it happen - no one wants drama.

  10. #260

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Totally new :-).

  11. #261

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Just mutual fantasizing on occasion; no experience. Learning, thinking, processing... communicating.

  12. #262

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    Do you already have experience with swinging? Or is this a new idea for you? If you are experienced share your experience. If you aren't tell us what experiences you'd like to have.
    Brand new and looking forward to gaining experience with my wife and new friends!

  13. #263

    Lightbulb Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by SuperHotSauce View Post
    Hello Everyone.

    This is my very first post ever on here, my husband and I are very new, and we never had any experiences with anyone. I am very interested in trying this life style. I actually had some encounters before I meet my husband so you can say Iíve already tried it. I am very adventurous and open to change. But the problem is my husband. He is a jealous man and I donít know how to tell him that I want to try swinging, he has fantasies like FMF but he once told me he canít imagine another guy touching me. I have been actively reading about the lifestyle and talking to couple on different websites but he doesnít know that. I love my husband so much and would never want to hurt him, what should I do? I really want to try swinging (it doesnít have to be full swap) just the idea of being with other people turns me on. I need your help in how should I approach my husband without hurting his feeling. I think once he tries it heíll enjoy it, I just need to get him to try it first. And I donít know how, please helpÖ

    Thanks
    Sounds like the Mr. is feeling insecure so there's some work to be done to make him feel secure in you & your marriage. Next, since he would be Ok with FMF - explore without making it a contest of why is it Ok for him but not you? Let him know you would be willing to try his fantasy - is turn about fair play? No project is going to be good if you "have to talk him into it". No one wants the drama of a jealousy explosion. Maybe go to About.com/marriage/communication and learn about good dialogue so you can COMMUNICATE. Would you be willing to give up the idea of swinging if the hubby is uncomfortable with it? What's the plan for the 2 of you to get on the same page? If he "doesn't know if he could stand seeing another man touch you", "he's jealous" - Not sure for your basis to say "I think if he tries it; he'll like it" - based on what? Just an opinion, but a lot more communication needs to happen before you venture into swinging - not negotiating or convincing BUT communicating. Think this through !

  14. #264

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    I'm not really new, but I haven't had a partner that swung in a long time. The military got in the way of that. I am looking for a partner to swing with, or a nice couple that is looking for MWM.

    I am looking forward to many new experiences and having a great time with a nice couple. maybe they are on here.

  15. #265

    Exclamation Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    Do you already have experience with swinging? Or is this a new idea for you? If you are experienced share your experience. If you aren't tell us what experiences you'd like to have.
    No experience at all! MBC have been pillow talking about this experience for a couple of years. Want to experience watchng my husband having sex with another woman while she is pleasing me! Want to have that total out of body experience, the taste, smell, and feel of another woman!

    So very green to this experience and I am tired of not exploring the unknown because I don't know how to. HELP!


  16. #266

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    Do you already have experience with swinging? Or is this a new idea for you? If you are experienced share your experience. If you aren't tell us what experiences you'd like to have.
    Yes we are new. We are a happily married couple in our fifties. Have done some fmf and shared wife experiences but not for five years or so. Would love to meet new couples for casual computer or phone conversations until we can meet in person. We are very excited on finding this site and hope it blossoms into something fun and exciting.

  17. #267

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Not sure we can help. We are totally new to this site. I have shared my wife with other couple but experience in last couple of years has been limited. We too are looking to experience more but hesitant on moving to quickly. Hope things work out for youl.

  18. #268

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    I noticed you are from Missouri...what part. We are in Springfield.

  19. #269

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    We are totally new to it, it's been brought up in conversation but never got passed that. But with the new year, we felt a little more adventurous.

  20. #270

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    We've fantacised alot but never actually done anything. Very interested but a bit apprehensive, we'll see how things go over the next few months, got a few things coming up.

  21. #271

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Totally new here. Me and the wife have flirted with the idea and talked openly about the possibilities. But as of right now it's all fantasy and it's not something im sure we are ready yet to make reality just yet as we still have to work on our communication and openess in our marriage. But again we have / and still do , actively flirt with the idea! It's fun!

  22. #272

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    No and Yes! We have had several experiences with other guys and chickies but it has been by chance.Not a planned meeting.

  23. #273

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    We went on a cruise in April to the Bahamas and the group we booked with were a bunch of folks in the "Lifestyle". This was a big step for us as its something I've been curious about for many years but never had the balls to actually bring up. The cruise was a perfect opportunity to expose us to the lifestyle with no pressure or expectations. We had a great time and realized that the lifestyle is just that and we both had a lot of misconceptions about it, most of which was that everyone that swings does a full swap. Most of the folks we met didn't but played to a lesser extent, like soft swap and the like.

    After the cruise we had some very good friends ask us if we were swingers. They thought we were because of our trips to St. Martin and just assumed that since we liked getting naked we must swap. We told them that we were not but that we were talking about it a lot more since the cruise.

    So after a couple hot weeks of discussing it all, the 4 of us got a hotel room and played together one night. Just soft stuff, but we all had a very hot time. So we are looking to experience the lifestyle some more. Thinking about a club maybe.

    All I can say is WOW.


  24. #274

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    We are new to couple swinging. I am usually the one to go for the extra in the relationship but the idea of us both with another attractive couple is very erotic.

  25. #275

    Default Re: Are you totally new to swinging or do you have experience?

    Were not new to the experiences, but we are definetly new putting any type of label on it. Back when we were in college, we had a couple we played with pretty regularly and a FFM, but all of it happened spontaneously, at least the first time. Since then we've gotten married, and had two children, and now that our youngest is old enough I feel comfortable leaving her overnight with a babysitter (18 months) weve been recently interested in dabbling in some more of that type of fun.

    Weve actually been (apparently) successful in seeking it out sans club or personals, just through networking, as we are currently talking with another couple we met through random life circumstances. Right now just trying to set up a nice date with no kids in the house for us.... we actually had one already but were effectively cockblocked by Aunt Flo

    So not exactly new, but not exactly experienced either.

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