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    Default Re: Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?

    Quote Originally Posted by paul n gemma View Post
    Hi, we are a couple, we both want to swing, only with other males though, it turns me on thinking of my partner having fun while i watch, join in. I (male)p first brought it up, female g reluctant at first but she has slept with an old boyfriend (i wasn't there, he's very unreliable and always lets us down for a threesome) loved it and loved the pics. i feel very guilty about this, like I'm a perv, g has reassured me I'm not but would love other peoples advice, and to chat about it.
    Welcome to the board paul n gemma!

    This particular forum (New Member Zone) is only visible to new members, so they can get comfortable with the forum atmosphere and settings. I'd highly recommend you post your question in the Curious About Swinging forum.

    When you get there, click on the "Post New Thread" link near the top of the page, and type away. Experienced swingers will gladly respond to your questions.
    I don't have time for dinner. Someone on the internet is wrong!

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    Default Re: Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?

    Hi Paul, Im a single male and it turns me on thinking of my partner having fun with me while her husband watch us and join in. I adore married wives if you are interested in, I'd like to join you..

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    Default Re: Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?

    We both discussed it very early in our relationship, it stemmed from us both sharing previous experiences. Both our experiences were when we were in our early twenties, and neither of us really enjoyed them. we both put it down to being with the wrong partners. After many discussions, we both decided as we were not getting any younger, we would like to experiment with swinging. I (male half) had expressed my interest in experimenting with my Bi side, and also how hot the idea of another man fucking her in front of me sounded. My lovely partner said if I organised another male, and she met him and felt comfortable we would invite him to join us. We decide and make all the decisions between us. For us its always been a mutual decision, and both have always found it hot to talk about.

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    Default Re: Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?

    Mutual thing. We where talking about kinkiness and a threesome popped up. We took it from there. First time to actually do it was her idea.

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    Default Re: Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?

    This was an amazing moment for me. Right before my birthday 12-31-16 my man took me out for lunch and the subject came up as to what I was going to do for my B-Day. And he made the statement that if I was adventurous enough that we could go and check out one of the lifestyle clubs. Me being the party girl agreed. Him being experienced and me green to this it was all about experiencing something new. We went but I'm still waiting for the first encounter. Not in a rush.

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    Default Re: Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?

    My wife brought it up. We were drinking and having hot sex and she told me about her fantasy to watch another woman suck my cock and then for her to join in. Since that night it progressed from bedroom talk to sober talk and now we have decided to go to clubs on our vacation this summer. The talk has made our sex lives so hot, we can't wait for the real thing!

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    Default Re: Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?

    Quote Originally Posted by swmnkdinthervr View Post
    The "lifestyle" has only enhanced our already incredible sex life, deep love, trust and respect for each other!!! Neither of us has any use for wasted emotions like jealousy or insecurity and we can't imagine anyone claiming love for their spouse/SO/GF that wouldn't want to make the utmost pleasure available to them! Our activity in the lifestyle in no way defines us nor is this more than a hobby for lack of a better term.
    I know this is an old post, but sounds exactly like us. We have been swinging for about 10 years and have yet to have better sex with anyone else. Swinging just emphasizes how great sex is between us.

    As for the original topic, we started swinging back when we were dating and as soon as we became intimate. She had fantasies of multiple men at once, so I helped her fulfill it. MMMMF is still one of our favorite swinging activities. I really think swinging keeps the sex hot between a couple.


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    Default Re: Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?

    We were approached by another couple after having hung with them at a hotel beach and bar and around town during a couple of evenings in Key West. We weren’t even married yet but they invitation got the two of us talking about it. My biggest concern was the other woman of the other couple stated she was bi and I didn’t know how to handle that. We decided not to accept the invitation now but that if we ever did start swinging, MFM would be the most acceptable for the two of us. About 3 months later, the male of the couple sent us a text, he was in Chicago on business, wanted to meet for a drink, we did, and we ended up in our first MFM. I was sold.

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    Default Re: Who brought up the idea of swinging? OR has it been brought up?

    This was me, the male. We were doing 69 and I threw it out there that I'd like to see her on her knees sucking another man's cock. We talked about it a little until I came, and then it didn't come up for a few days.

    Then we're pulling back into the driveway after getting groceries, and she asks me if I was serious or if that was just something I said during sex. I told I was pretty serious, and she seemed thoughtful and said she might be into that at some point.

    It took a couple years to get there, but we got there.

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