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  1. #26

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    A cheering section. I can't stand it when there are people in the background basically acting as a cheer section... "oh yeah Julie, you're so close..." "Yeah, cum", "Oh yeah she's liking that".... I don't need a cheering section nor do I need play by play of my own sexual encounters.... it only serves to KILL MY MOOD.

  2. #27

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    I agree with everything that has been said as a mood killer, except the licking. I must agree with tnohcpl in that aspect. facelick

    Hygiene, cheering sections, and slobbery kissers top my list. I don't care how much of an attraction there is, if you stink anywhere it's a turn off. Like Julie, I don't need anyone cheering me on or telling me what is going on. I think I can figure that one out. :rollseyes I love to kiss, but that doesn't mean I want to be cleaning your spit out of my ears, (and from behind them also) or having to dry myself off from the neck up. GEEZE my shepherd doesn't drool that much! The only thing I would add to this list is a peeve of mine. That would be to see someone at a club or party that I was really attracted to. Finally get to a comfortable place to strike up a conversation, and ooops, he should have never opened his mouth. Lights are on, someone is home, but he speaks like he never had a day of education. Sorry, BIG turn off.



    Quote Originally Posted by tnohcpl
    i am however curious as do the ladies out there like to have the cheeks (ass) licked and kissed as well as up and down the legs. maybe a old guy still can learn. tn of tnohcpl
    I know I do!! It is so sexy, and arousing.


    mrs hmr

  3. #28

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    Body Odor is a definate mood killer for me. Guys make sure you wash that thing good before you leave home. Balls do sweat and we understand especially if you've been dancing. Heck, if you know you are about to go play you might just want to do what we girls often do and stop by the washroom just to make sure all is well.

  4. #29
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    Some that burst our bubble are (not in any order) include:

    * Bad hygiene. Yuck! C'mon, Wash up first!

    * Pushy, demanding people. Hey, we're not doing this solely for your pleasure, bub. If it were, you'd have to pay for it. And not with us.

    * Treating L disrespectfully. For minor infractions, they get one gentle correction/warning. Second offense, the party's over.

    * Guys who want the TV on during the action. If you'd rather hear the umpteenth re-run of Gilligan's Island than to have sex, please do it somewhere else.

    * Sidebar conversations. It's a killer to be almost there, and overhear "how 'bout them Braves" or some such. Distracts L from her pleasure and can be deflating to the guy in the saddle at the moment. Often in crowds, there's a personality man who feels he has to crack jokes to entertain the group. Big buzz kill for the folks trying to enjoy sex. Do your Chris Rock / Jackie Mason number after the party, guys.

    * Sharp fingernails. They scratch L's delicate inside. Dirty fingernails should never go inside her.

    * Smokers who reek of it. We're tolerant of most smokers, but when it's coming out of your pores and your, um, member tastes like an ashtray to L, big turn off.

    * Trying to act like you're in a porn movie. This ranges from humorous to annoying to a deal breaker. Don't pull her hair and think she'll find it sexy. Don't repeat a mantra of "who's your daddy?" while humping (what does her father have to do with the business at hand, anyway?). Don't say crap like "Gag on it, bitch" and expect us to continue.

    Basic courtesy, good manners, treat us like you want to be treated, and the party goes on until everyone's drained.

  5. #30
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    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    Body Odor is a definate mood killer for me. Guys make sure you wash that thing good before you leave home. Balls do sweat and we understand especially if you've been dancing. Heck, if you know you are about to go play you might just want to do what we girls often do and stop by the washroom just to make sure all is well.

    Ball sweat. That is funny. And serious. Reminds me of my thread "sniffed my finger". All is well.
    There are fish in the water that haven't been caught yet.

  6. #31
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    Cigarette breath

  7. #32

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    Quote Originally Posted by JustAskJulie View Post
    A cheering section. I can't stand it when there are people in the background basically acting as a cheer section... "oh yeah Julie, you're so close..." "Yeah, cum", "Oh yeah she's liking that".... I don't need a cheering section nor do I need play by play of my own sexual encounters.... it only serves to KILL MY MOOD.
    This one made me laugh only because it reminded me of our trip to Hedo2 last winter. We where hanging out with a bunch of couples that we had gotten to know and a couple of the ladies where giving one of the guys a blow job. Every time he would get close all the other guys started talking shit around him, about the Brave, politics or they would start cheering him on. Telling him to hurry up that it was about time. Poor guy never did get to finish.

    Under normal circumstances this would be a huge mood killer to me, but among friends that we know as a joke I do find it funny, but then again I have a twisted sense of humor.

    * Sidebar conversations. It's a killer to be almost there, and overhear "how 'bout them Braves" or some such. Distracts L from her pleasure and can be deflating to the guy in the saddle at the moment. Often in crowds, there's a personality man who feels he has to crack jokes to entertain the group. Big buzz kill for the folks trying to enjoy sex. Do your Chris Rock / Jackie Mason number after the party, guys.
    Again under normal circumstances this one can kill a mood also. Again however, among good friends that we know we both have been known to crack a joke during play time. Just something happens in the middle and it happens. For us we here for fun and as long as it doesn't get out of hand we can handle it, but if you are doing a complete stand up routine, yea that's not so funny.

    Some others would be sloppy drunks. We don't mind a few drinks but we do want you to wake up in the morning and remember that you had sex with us.

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    I've only been turned off three times.

    1) A tough, body building type of chick who just wanted me to get it up and fuck her so she could move on to the next guy. It might have been a charity fuck because her husband wanted my wife. After they went off to the bedroom this girl then suggested that we should do it too. I was not really turned on to her. Then the bedroom antics really turned me off.

    2) A woman who dragged me off to the bedroom too soon after we met and then complained that everything I did to her, no matter how gentle, hurt.

    3) A long time friend that I had never had sex with who wanted to finally do it. She wanted to go immediately to 69 as foreplay. When I went down on her, she smelled as though she had not washed the area for a couple of days. That was the end of that session. A year later we had another opportunity for sex and it was truly wonderful. We are still friends 15 years later.


  9. #34

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    Guys who blow on my nipples.....how annoying! Granted, I don't have the most sensitive nipples in the world, and I'd much rather have them pinched or tugged than licked or caressed, but does the blowing thing really work for anyone?

    I don't know why, but thats the one thing that will instantaneously put me into the "gee, I'd rather be learning to knit right now" mode.

  10. #35

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    People who think their hotness makes up for the fact that they have no passion or skills.

    Drunk people.

    People who bitch and complain.
    "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura

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    for us it's....
    1.) couples who talk alot about nothing.
    2.) couples who don't use condoms.
    3.) couples that repeat over and over again that they are not prejudice and how much they want to be with a black person.
    4.) cell phone use.
    5.) couples that come on strongly.
    6.) couple that overly complement you.
    and
    7.) couples that swear alot

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    The comments about the cheering section are definitely on my list after the last "after party" we attended. It wasn't even me they were cheering on, but having to listen to it . . . too much pressure. Then again, it didn't help that the guy I was with did not seem to know what he was doing . . . or take a hint. But that's another story . . .

    =p
    I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than heaven wondering what it's like.

  13. #38

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    I haven't run into bad breath and personal hygiene problems. It seems to me that folks who expect to have sex are usually smart enough to assure cleanliness.

    Loud and boisterous drunks ruin it for me.
    "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." óWill Rogers

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alura View Post
    Loud and boisterous drunks ruin it for me.
    Me too.
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    Yeah, we don't do drunk, loud and boisterous or any other kind for that matter. Its only fun for us if everyone has their wits about them.
    Screw You Guys. I'm Goin' Home.
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  16. #41

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    Hygene and smoking. Neigher one of us get past hello with either one of these factors.


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    For the nurse and I we have these things that kill it for us:

    - Pushy/Anxious people
    - Bad breath
    - Smokers (because I quit )
    - Bad teeth
    - Self promotion
    - Snobs
    - Non-drinkers (mainly because we drink)
    - Loud people (always loud and really loud laughing that draws lots of attention)
    - Story tellers who tell the same story over and over
    - Drunks

    Gee, after looking at that list it's a wonder we ever meet anyone that we like.

  18. #43

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    I just have to pass this one along.

    I agree with most of the turn offs listed already but this is just to strange to be true but since I was there I can swear that it is.

    We had been courting this couple for a few months, met them at several parties and all 4 of us got on well. We finally set up a date that works for all of us, no one had to get up early, be home fo the sitter or any of the other issues that had been causing us to not hook up. We went to dinner and a little dancing, everything was as perfect as can be. We switched spouses for the ride to the hotel (I had already checked in earlier in the afternoon) We got into the room and the girls started to play, they spent a couple of hours having fun with each other as us guys chatted quietly and took pics. The girls jumped in the shower to clean up a little, then it was time for us guys to join in, L took C to one bed and they got right down to it, as they were going at it N and I started more slowly, after I had got her off a few times with oral, she went down on me to get me nice and hard, L and C had finished up by this time, she slipped a condom on me and just after I had slid into her, her hubby makes a beastalty joke, BOOM!! mood killed, for her, for me, and for my wife.

    I could have killed him!! We never got together with them again, even though we are still friends.
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    Lady coming back from the bathroom with TP hanging from the crack of her a**. Ughhhhh.

  20. #45

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    Women who won't stop talking, loudly, during sex.

    Women who lay there as if they are sleeping expecting me to do all the "work". If you aren't in the mood why bother getting started. You aren't doing me any favors acting like that.

  21. #46

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    socks in bed and smelly people without good hygiene

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    A mood killer for me is a couple and myself go to a room with an agreement that the two women are going to gang up on the guy/husband. Then once in the bedroom and everything is getting hot and heavy, the woman point out she is disappointed that she is not getting enough attention from us. Please stick to the agreement. I don't swing that way.

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    Guys (or girls for that matter) that think oral sex is the only form of foreplay!

  24. #49

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    Had a bi guy we played with that kept biting both of us. We told him 5 times to stop. Finally on the 6th time I rudely told him to leave and he was like "what? I didn't know".


  25. #50

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    Just about all of the above for me too. One I find particularly a turn-off is sloppy stupid stumbling drunk. Nothing wrong with a nice buzz, but If I feel like I have to constantly babysit you just to keep you from falling over and hurting yourself or something equally dumb, then sex is the last thing on my mind.
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