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Forum: Swinger Self-Esteem, Attraction, & Fear of Rejection

Swingers struggle with self-esteem issues just like everyone else.

  1. [A] Mommy Make Over for the wife?

    by Texasluv2011, 02-14-2014 07:45 PM
    body image, boob job, surgery, tummy tuck
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,636
    carebear
    02-16-2014, 06:33 PM Go to last post

  2. [A] Eager to have a MFM threesome but insecure about myself

    by cervelopride, 10-01-2013 01:53 PM
    body image, self confidence, self esteem
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,777
    smithvillecoupl
    02-11-2014, 03:00 PM Go to last post

  3. [A] When the husband isn't as attractive as the wife

    by elfman36, 12-17-2013 11:37 AM
    body image, self confidence, self esteem
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 3,083
    Gordo
    01-08-2014, 11:27 PM Go to last post

  4. Swinging not working for both of us - please help.

    by sexyhornycouple, 04-22-2013 02:35 PM
    4 Pages •
    1 2 3 4
    frustration, rejection, success 1 Attachment(s)
    • Replies: 91
    • Views: 12,606
    sexyhornycouple
    12-23-2013, 07:45 PM Go to last post

  5. Saving your SO from embarrassment (Uncircumcised)

    by Tia Vampire, 08-29-2013 03:46 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    circumcision
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 2,523
    sunbuckus
    09-16-2013, 09:32 AM Go to last post

  6. [A] Will swinger men be attracted or repulsed by my breasts after significant weight loss

    by Mr&MrsValentine, 02-10-2013 04:33 AM
    body image, breasts, loose skin, self confidence, self esteem, weight loss
    • Replies: 7
    • Views: 1,418
    Mr&MrsValentine
    02-12-2013, 12:14 AM Go to last post

  7. [A] Vaginal Reconstruction/Labiaplasty

    by curioussnk, 06-24-2010 10:59 PM
    body image, surgery, vagina
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 2,237
    MechanicalAngel
    07-07-2012, 07:01 PM Go to last post

  8. Trouble meeting people.

    by sexyhornycouple, 12-04-2011 08:37 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    discouraged, frustration, meeting others, self esteem
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 6,350
    sexyhornycouple
    06-03-2012, 06:32 PM Go to last post

  9. Question [A] Droopy boobs and stretch marks

    by BMagic, 05-27-2012 12:47 PM
    breasts, scars and stretch marks, self esteem
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 3,173
    DynamitePair
    05-30-2012, 11:40 AM Go to last post

  10. Do you ever feel you're batting out of your league?

    by StewartP, 05-12-2012 05:51 AM
    out of our league, preferences, self esteem
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,628
    JustAskJulie
    05-29-2012, 03:50 PM Go to last post

  11. Colostomy?

    by exploringRM, 05-15-2012 05:04 PM
    body image, colostomy, self esteem
    • Replies: 5
    • Views: 1,455
    LFM2
    05-18-2012, 10:46 PM Go to last post

  12. Question [A] Visible scars--are they a turn off?

    by rainbowskye, 03-16-2012 10:45 PM
    scars and stretch marks
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 2,122
    funlovincpl80
    05-07-2012, 09:57 AM Go to last post

  13. [A] Does [body] size matter?

    by freakyweds69, 12-28-2011 04:07 PM
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    body size, self esteem, weight
    • Replies: 35
    • Views: 4,725
    Learning
    04-27-2012, 11:31 AM Go to last post

  14. [A] Tanning, spray tans, and tanning beds

    by JustAskJulie, 03-05-2008 05:19 PM
    tanning
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 3,210
    JustAskJulie
    03-22-2012, 08:01 AM Go to last post

  15. Post Newbies To the Scene

    by sunbuckus, 01-13-2012 01:37 PM
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    1 2
    attraction, deciding to swing, friendship and swinging, getting started, jealousy, self esteem
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 3,713
    Baconheads
    02-03-2012, 01:49 PM Go to last post

  16. Unhappy Ladies: how do you feel sexy enough??

    by LexxxiR, 01-08-2012 10:49 PM
    self esteem
    • Replies: 7
    • Views: 1,317
    shrevecouple
    01-10-2012, 12:57 PM Go to last post

  17. [A] C-section scar and pubic hair--do swing playmates notice?

    by suburbanitemom, 08-16-2011 09:08 AM
    scars and stretch marks
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,478
    mntoklahoma
    12-24-2011, 06:37 PM Go to last post

  18. They want the female - not the male

    by TheBucketList, 10-20-2011 11:42 AM
    attraction, four way match, insecurity, new swingers, one sided, rejection
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 3,216
    magiriano
    11-25-2011, 10:19 AM Go to last post

  19. Are all swinging ladies fit and attractive?

    by lolagirl, 02-18-2009 04:54 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    body image, self esteem, swing-curious
    • Replies: 28
    • Views: 6,018
    sexywetwife
    11-07-2011, 03:33 PM Go to last post

  20. Question Physical (Anatomical) Advice Needed

    by ChiTownHornie1, 09-16-2011 12:33 AM
    bi female, bisexuality, disability, pain, scars and stretch marks, vulvectomy
    • Replies: 2
    • Views: 1,575
    MN Tom
    09-16-2011, 10:21 AM Go to last post

  21. False advertising

    by TheSwingerSet, 07-29-2011 05:51 PM
    attraction, deception, false advertising, self esteem
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,154
    TheSwingerSet
    08-10-2011, 07:12 PM Go to last post

  22. [A] Concerns about stretch marks -- do they matter to swinger males?

    by wanttoplay, 04-21-2011 02:24 PM
    scars and stretch marks, self esteem
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 3,106
    MN Tom
    07-19-2011, 11:20 AM Go to last post

  23. need help regarding body types and self esteem.

    by conflicted, 06-16-2011 10:22 PM
    attraction, self esteem, weight
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,846
    JoshMFD
    07-18-2011, 10:18 AM Go to last post

  24. Feeling like a failure

    by shrevecouple, 05-16-2011 04:19 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    disappointing, fears, frustration, self esteem
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 4,316
    shrevecouple
    05-18-2011, 07:19 PM Go to last post

  25. Any Advice on how to help us would be greatly appreciated =-)

    by Jade1801, 03-25-2011 11:54 PM
    body image, finding others
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,092
    JustAskJulie
    04-01-2011, 02:04 PM Go to last post

  26. Imperfect bodies?

    by howie1222, 01-19-2011 03:31 PM
    attraction, breast cancer, scars and stretch marks, self esteem
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 2,624
    Coupleerotic22
    01-20-2011, 08:16 PM Go to last post

  27. What sort of swinger are you?

    by Chicup, 12-30-2010 12:45 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    attraction, discrimination, finding others
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 4,841
    mrfixit
    01-12-2011, 05:28 PM Go to last post

  28. why are they not atrracted to my hubby

    by markley, 12-24-2010 06:19 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    attraction, four way match, one sided
    • Replies: 40
    • Views: 6,774
    savcpl912
    01-11-2011, 09:13 PM Go to last post

  29. hubby worried about his weight

    by tazabear, 10-24-2010 07:45 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    attraction, responding to ads, self esteem, weight
    • Replies: 33
    • Views: 4,710
    good times
    10-29-2010, 03:09 PM Go to last post

  30. Too tall for the Lifestyle?

    by MulderNScully, 05-18-2010 08:03 AM
    attraction, height
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,797
    GPHTallCouple
    10-18-2010, 11:46 PM Go to last post

  31. Imperfect and still sexy?

    by Youngcalcpl, 09-17-2010 03:53 PM
    body image
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 3,044
    Trace Ekies
    09-22-2010, 07:07 PM Go to last post

  32. I feel my husband's posture/demeanor is getting in his way...

    by ournewfun, 08-10-2010 09:03 AM
    shyness
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 2,886
    Alura
    09-16-2010, 03:32 PM Go to last post

  33. Sexy attire for men?

    by Coupleerotic22, 07-29-2010 02:19 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    grooming, what to wear
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 2,681
    ALilOEverything
    08-04-2010, 04:41 PM Go to last post

  34. Slightly self conscious about body hair

    by lovemonkey#1, 07-09-2010 05:26 PM
    hair, self esteem
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,647
    The Fuse
    07-11-2010, 09:35 PM Go to last post

  35. plus size swingers

    by MrnMrsGoomba, 12-14-2009 07:12 PM
    deal breakers, finding others, self esteem, weight
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 12,141
    Pleasure King
    07-10-2010, 01:39 PM Go to last post

  36. How to be more open and confident with my sexuality?

    by Mr.GeekChic, 06-16-2010 06:56 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    self esteem, sexuality
    • Replies: 28
    • Views: 4,231
    Mr.GeekChic
    07-02-2010, 10:27 PM Go to last post

  37. Well it seems I was delusional too...

    by Chicup, 09-10-2009 01:31 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    body image 2 Attachment(s)
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 4,340
    JustAskJulie
    09-18-2009, 12:48 PM Go to last post

  38. [A] Embarrassed by flaccid penis

    by Rackir, 08-23-2009 02:24 PM
    body image, penis
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 3,366
    Chicup
    08-24-2009, 09:10 PM Go to last post

  39. Do you have a body part that is a deal breaker

    by Ed & Bunny, 07-04-2009 01:13 PM
    attraction
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,710
    pxjcp
    07-13-2009, 07:38 PM Go to last post

  40. First Impressions - What Turns You On?

    by des1re06, 09-19-2007 10:41 AM
    turn ons
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 3,161
    sexylady1970
    04-25-2009, 08:56 PM Go to last post

  41. When do you feel your sexiest?

    by Pinmonkey, 05-07-2008 09:36 AM
    attraction, sexy
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 1,284
    NCfuncouple98
    04-21-2009, 05:35 PM Go to last post

  42. Attraction to other couples

    by exploringRM, 03-28-2009 04:40 PM
    attraction
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 3,302
    Pensacolapair
    04-11-2009, 03:44 PM Go to last post

  43. Do you need to feel attracted to your playmate when swinging?

    by cpl36996, 08-29-2008 05:27 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    attraction
    • Replies: 48
    • Views: 6,575
    xxoticangel
    02-06-2009, 01:07 PM Go to last post

  44. Women: Do really tall men intimidate you?

    by NCfuncouple98, 01-28-2009 05:06 PM
    attraction, height, intimidation 1 Attachment(s)
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 2,731
    CXXC
    02-03-2009, 01:44 PM Go to last post

  45. How do you feel about scars?

    by Begood03, 01-12-2009 03:38 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    scars and stretch marks
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 2,405
    MrkLin
    01-17-2009, 07:23 AM Go to last post

  46. Do beautiful people actually play more?

    by arvcpl, 11-29-2008 12:32 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    appearance, beauty, quantity
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 2,619
    sexylady1970
    01-11-2009, 06:54 PM Go to last post

  47. I want to F**k you like....

    by TNT, 12-13-2008 10:50 AM
    attraction
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 4,134
    The Fuse
    12-25-2008, 06:09 PM Go to last post

  48. My husband, his confidence, and shy vs. nonshy women

    by Unregistered, 12-07-2008 01:01 PM
    self esteem, shyness
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 3,983
    iapr
    12-08-2008, 11:03 PM Go to last post

  49. Advice for larger couples on getting started

    by Spokaneman, 10-06-2008 01:59 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    finding playmates, getting started, self esteem, size, weight
    • Replies: 46
    • Views: 6,489
    2inVT
    12-03-2008, 08:22 AM Go to last post

  50. Can a woman be too hot?

    by arvcpl, 06-05-2008 12:30 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    attraction, beauty, intimidation
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 3,420
    LFM2
    11-23-2008, 09:54 PM Go to last post
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