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Forum: Swinger Self-Esteem, Attraction, & Fear of Rejection

Swingers struggle with self-esteem issues just like everyone else.

  1. "Beautiful People Only!" Swing Clubs/Groups

    by incommunicado, 03-30-2003 12:38 PM
    11 Pages
    1 2 3 4 5 6 7 ... 11
    attraction, beauty, rejection, swinger clubs
    • Replies: 264
    • Views: 20,993
    09-10-2003, 11:19 PM Go to last post
  2. Can you swing and be overweight?

    by Unregistered, 05-19-2005 01:23 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    attraction, body size, common questions, should we swing, weight
    • Replies: 74
    • Views: 19,783
    05-23-2006, 10:44 AM Go to last post
  3. Question BBW sex or not?

    by graywolf71, 08-11-2005 09:41 PM
    7 Pages
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    attraction, bbw, sexy
    • Replies: 170
    • Views: 18,017
    01-23-2007, 05:52 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 72
    • Views: 14,883
    03-04-2003, 08:04 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 91
    • Views: 14,320
    12-23-2013, 08:45 PM Go to last post
  4. Unhappy Height/weight proportional. ... yeah right......

    by sc3way, 06-02-2002 01:39 AM
    4 Pages
    1 2 3 4
    attraction, body image
    • Replies: 80
    • Views: 14,230
    12-31-2002, 01:03 AM Go to last post
  5. plus size swingers

    by MrnMrsGoomba, 12-14-2009 08:12 PM
    deal breakers, finding others, self esteem, weight
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 13,748
    07-10-2010, 02:39 PM Go to last post
  6. The body beautiful? Tired of seeing "HWP" in ads

    by CanadianCouple, 12-15-2002 07:56 PM
    3 Pages
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    attraction, body image
    • Replies: 61
    • Views: 12,725
    01-01-2003, 09:19 PM Go to last post
  7. Thoughts on plus size women and couples

    by danjan, 06-10-2007 12:58 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction, bbw, body image, weight
    • Replies: 45
    • Views: 11,826
    08-16-2007, 08:32 AM Go to last post
  8. Post Does weight really matter?

    by CanadianCouple, 05-13-2001 02:36 PM
    3 Pages
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    attraction, weight
    • Replies: 53
    • Views: 10,970
    07-02-2002, 10:15 AM Go to last post
  9. Angry How do you overcome insecurities?

    by wolfmaiden, 10-22-2004 10:20 AM
    2 Pages
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    attraction, body image, insecurity, self esteem, weight
    • Replies: 33
    • Views: 9,559
    11-25-2004, 01:54 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 9,034
    12-09-2003, 07:39 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 50
    • Views: 8,837
    11-13-2006, 12:51 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 55
    • Views: 8,596
    07-05-2004, 01:32 AM Go to last post
  10. Mismatched couples

    by HappyPeople, 11-03-2006 07:25 PM
    3 Pages
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    attraction, common questions
    • Replies: 61
    • Views: 7,809
    11-12-2006, 05:01 PM Go to last post
  11. Smile Large people and swinging

    by Harold_N_Ann, 02-04-2003 11:45 PM
    attraction, bbw, body image, rejection, weight
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 7,800
    03-18-2003, 10:57 AM Go to last post
  12. Unhappy Body Image Issues: he wants to contact hotter women

    by jnbsmokin, 04-18-2008 09:42 AM
    2 Pages
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    body image, hurt feelings
    • Replies: 43
    • Views: 7,650
    04-25-2008, 05:10 PM Go to last post
  13. Swinging and BBW's

    by Luvs_Tunes, 08-22-2003 12:57 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction, bbw, finding others, weight
    • Replies: 41
    • Views: 7,598
    12-04-2003, 11:44 PM Go to last post
  14. Why are they not attracted to my hubby?

    by markley, 12-24-2010 07:19 PM
    2 Pages
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    attraction, four way match, one sided
    • Replies: 40
    • Views: 7,481
    01-11-2011, 10:13 PM Go to last post
  15. In defense of Ken & Barbie

    by Spoomonkey, 01-05-2006 06:54 PM
    3 Pages
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    appearance, attraction, body image, ken and barbie
    • Replies: 66
    • Views: 7,410
    01-12-2006, 06:06 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 48
    • Views: 7,213
    02-06-2009, 02:07 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 7,212
    04-29-2007, 09:36 AM Go to last post
  16. When you hear BBW, what do you think?

    by Dare2Share, 05-23-2006 03:29 PM
    2 Pages
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    attraction, bbw, body size
    • Replies: 46
    • Views: 7,194
    06-21-2006, 05:38 PM Go to last post
  17. Advice for larger couples on getting started

    by Spokaneman, 10-06-2008 02:59 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    finding playmates, getting started, self esteem, size, weight
    • Replies: 46
    • Views: 7,143
    12-03-2008, 09:22 AM Go to last post
  18. Trouble meeting people.

    by sexyhornycouple, 12-04-2011 09:37 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    discouraged, frustration, meeting others, self esteem
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 7,054
    06-03-2012, 07:32 PM Go to last post
  19. Post New With Questions: Self conscious about weight

    by Jean, 07-16-2001 07:15 PM
    3 Pages
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    bbw, body image, rejection, self esteem, weight
    • Replies: 58
    • Views: 7,036
    07-25-2001, 11:20 PM Go to last post
  20. Are all swinging ladies fit and attractive?

    by lolagirl, 02-18-2009 05:54 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    body image, self esteem, swing-curious
    • Replies: 28
    • Views: 6,737
    11-07-2011, 04:33 PM Go to last post
  21. Angry Where are all the beautiful people?

    by Unregistered, 03-28-2004 05:21 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction
    • Replies: 41
    • Views: 6,729
    04-29-2004, 05:57 AM Go to last post
  22. I know that everyone isn't a perfect size 6, but...

    by e&w, 03-06-2005 09:07 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    body size
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 6,514
    04-25-2005, 11:52 PM Go to last post
  23. body image issues

    by Girl, 09-03-2007 08:11 PM
    attraction, body image, nervous, weight loss
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 6,166
    09-13-2007, 12:05 PM Go to last post
  24. Why Does Motive Matter?

    by Greg & Sheryl, 02-11-2008 03:19 PM
    2 Pages
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    attraction, preferences, why swing
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 6,078
    02-18-2008, 06:36 AM Go to last post
  25. For the guys: your wife is sexy when,,,,,,,

    by Dragonswitch, 10-31-2005 06:03 PM
    2 Pages
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    attraction, sexy
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 6,067
    02-19-2008, 12:20 AM Go to last post
  26. Is weight a big issue?

    by Wife2Love, 05-06-2003 12:39 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction, body image, rejection, weight
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 6,043
    05-17-2003, 12:40 AM Go to last post
  27. Mild Body Image Issues

    by The Fuse, 01-17-2006 07:20 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    body image
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 5,871
    02-09-2006, 09:10 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 37
    • Views: 5,851
    11-09-2006, 09:50 AM Go to last post
  28. Attractiveness, Hot or Cute

    by nvrgesus2, 12-28-2006 10:16 AM
    2 Pages
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    attraction
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 5,794
    11-20-2008, 04:13 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 5,705
    09-23-2007, 04:25 PM Go to last post
  29. The beautiful people....huh?

    by northindycpl, 04-18-2005 10:40 AM
    2 Pages
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    attraction, body size
    • Replies: 42
    • Views: 5,691
    05-27-2005, 08:00 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 5,610
    06-19-2005, 02:02 AM Go to last post
  30. BBW/BHM and swinging

    by mycokizyrz, 09-22-2005 08:26 AM
    attraction, body size, weight
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 5,469
    09-27-2005, 11:31 AM Go to last post
  31. [A] Does [body] size matter?

    by freakyweds69, 12-28-2011 05:07 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    body size, self esteem, weight
    • Replies: 35
    • Views: 5,424
    04-27-2012, 12:31 PM Go to last post
  32. What sort of swinger are you?

    by Chicup, 12-30-2010 01:45 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction, discrimination, finding others
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 5,348
    01-12-2011, 06:28 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 5,330
    03-03-2008, 08:08 PM Go to last post
  33. Big boob issues

    by NJDixieDarlin, 02-28-2005 10:00 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    body image
    • Replies: 30
    • Views: 5,248
    03-05-2005, 12:08 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 5,156
    05-15-2005, 06:44 PM Go to last post
  34. hubby worried about his weight

    by tazabear, 10-24-2010 08:45 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction, responding to ads, self esteem, weight
    • Replies: 33
    • Views: 5,149
    10-29-2010, 04:09 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 5,102
    01-07-2006, 12:30 AM Go to last post
  35. Dealing with situations that affect your self-esteem

    by Spoomonkey, 12-02-2004 09:51 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    self esteem
    • Replies: 40
    • Views: 4,950
    01-29-2005, 09:46 PM Go to last post
  36. Well it seems I was delusional too...

    by Chicup, 09-10-2009 02:31 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 4,911
    09-18-2009, 01:48 PM Go to last post

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