For the guys: your wife is sexy when,,,,,,,

In swinging, what does your wife/SO do that you think is sexy, makes her hot at that moment, or drives you wild while watching her? Is it the flirting with another man (or woman), the way she dresses for a lifestyle party, kissing, dancing...seeing her having sex with someone else, or even having her watch you having sex with another person? In our everyday lives we can lose sight of how sexy our beloved can be (and yet notice the sexiness of those around us). So let's hear it fellas...what gets your juices flowing for your lady?

When she lusts after another cock....

When she's acting like a slut

Mrs Spoomonkey has the most intoxicating eyes...

For me, I watch those - when they are glazed with excitement or staring wickedly up at her playmate while going down on him - that works for me...

Spoomonkey

Is it ok if I answer for him?I do know ,after all.We have discussed it many times,agreeing there are many 'tingly' moments,the butterfly-in the-tummy type lovely feeling.

To explain it would take a lot but I'm sure you will get the idea.

He loves watching me being penetrated,slowly,but once I have been and I'm holding the guy inside me , I, as I'm sure many of you do,like to 'squeeze' him with my inner muscles.At the same time ,if he is holding still (and I try to encourage him),he responds in like fashion,we then have this alternating 'throbbing ' going on.This is when I communicate to my husband that its happening. We have our signals that no one detects,so I can tell him every pulse I feel,every pulse I give.

Obviously there is a lot more to this situation that allows for some delicious moments,but that one is a powerful one for us.

If any one has any questions I'm only to happy to answer them.

other than when she is with another lady or dressing sexy... How wet she gets ,and the intense orgasim she has..

Thanks for the replys,,,and ladies can answer too. Maybe what their guy does during swinging that makes them hot for him. *wink*. Valley, your response sounds pretty exciting,,,might be something to try out .facelick

The Mrs. loves to dance for the other man and/or woman. I love the way she puts on a show and captures their attention. Then she begins to disrobe, and they become entranced. You can almost see the desire level rising in them. I just sit back, relax, and take in the show.

Mr. Funk

"Skin Trade" by Duran Duran - an EXCELLENT stripping song...

Our form of swinging is exclusively MFM. I get jazzed by the whole experience. We don't live close to a good club so we meet people on SLS. We answer mail together, discuss potential playmates, everything. I enjoy the preparation....the bathing and grooming. She selects her clothes, both for the "date" and for later, a negligee. The atmosphere is romantic...soft music, candlelight. We usually begin by ourself with passionate kissing and touching. In a minute or so we are joined by our friend. We will stand up, with Mrs. E between us for over an hour, just kissing, touching, rubbing, fondeling...she will turn around every so often to give us each full attention. Eventually we will make it to the bed where we both kiss, stroke, suck, lick, and rub her everywhere, taking frequent turns about. I get turned on by watching her touch his chest, kiss him, open her legs and receive his touch, when she hold his dick, sucks it, and takes it in. I like feeling her clitoris while he strokes her. It is so sexy when she is paying attention to me to see him pleasing her somewhere else. She makes the most incredibly sexy sounds: sighs, moans, giggles, crys of pleasure... etc. I love to listen to her orgasm, she is very vocal. She is very passionate and enjoys the stroking and touching and we get to hear how much it turns her on. The power of vocalized sexual passion is overwhelming to me. It's a huge turn on to watch her make him come and to see his jizz on her. My wife is very sexy all the time, but when we play she is incredible.

Is it ok if I answer for him?I do know ,after all.We have discussed it many times,agreeing there are many 'tingly' moments,the butterfly-in the-tummy type lovely feeling.

 

To explain it would take a lot but I'm sure you will get the idea.

 

He loves watching me being penetrated,slowly,but once I have been and I'm holding the guy inside me , I, as I'm sure many of you do,like to 'squeeze' him with my inner muscles.At the same time ,if he is holding still (and I try to encourage him),he responds in like fashion,we then have this alternating 'throbbing ' going on.This is when I communicate to my husband that its happening. We have our signals that no one detects,so I can tell him every pulse I feel,every pulse I give.

 

Obviously there is a lot more to this situation that allows for some delicious moments,but that one is a powerful one for us.

 

If any one has any questions I'm only to happy to answer them.

Please tell us about your signals.

Please tell us about your signals.

It depends on the position .If I am on my back with the guy on top,hubby beside me,I reach out and touch him.Anywhere,tho' I usually not his cock because we try not to stimulate him too much.I might grab his hand.Then every 'pulse' I give the guy I squeeze my husbands hand.Every 'pulse' I feel from the guy I squeeze twice.

You can make up new signals all the time.Even doing that is part of the fun,part of the build up.

It really is everything that Jenn does that gets me excited, but especially how confident she is when we are out at either a social or a club. I love seeing her with someone else...it just drives me crazy. Especially when she has an orgasm!! She is just so sexy in everything she does.

James

One of the sexiest things my wife does is that moment just before she takes another guy orally. She sort of pauses for a second and gets this dreamy look on her face as if she's anticipating a tasty treat.

When she's acting like a slut

Yep... that does it for me.

I love the way she dresses and assumes her role and submits to the guys wishes....S

For me... I have a few

- When she is kissing another woman (OMG!)

- When she is sucking another man

- When she is 'with' another woman

- When she and the other woman are sucking me facelick

Us

when she really gets hott, and goes into a private room to undress.

She does all she wants, and then comes back and tells me, and does some

more with me.

She loves to undress, to kiss, to be seen nude, to suck cock, and to fuck. She has luscious tits, and loves a cock between them.

I like her enthusiasm when she finds a guy that really turns her on.

Otto & Eileel

My former wife was very attractive. She was active in the community and school system. Allways in a business suit and hair up. When we would go away on vacation or to a private party her hair would come down and she would become a total slut. Her hair was the key to her slutiness. Her makeup would be more erotic, her clothes would become lower on top and shorter on the bottom. She loved garter belts, stockings and high heels. She also loved to do a sexy striptease for a group of two or more. She was my ideal fantasy. A true lady in public and a slut in the bedroom, or party.

My guy loves for me to wear short skirts, a garter belt and stockings with a see-thru top when we go to dances. He loves seeing me kiss another woman as well as "be" with her. He loves watching me with another man, sucking cock and being fucked, then making eye contact with him while that is happening. I have very long nipples even without them being aroused and he loves to show them off to others.

No secret for me, I love watching Carol get Gang-Banged by a bunch of guys!!

We do that every couple of months, just her and 4-6 guys, with me sitting back watching. I am such a pig!

-- Danny

All the time...

-B

No secret for me, I love watching Carol get Gang-Banged by a bunch of guys!!

Same here. I just love to watch my wife get it from a guy or a group of guys.

... she breathes. Stands. Sits. Smiles. Dresses. Undresses. Flirts. Bites her lower lip. Laughs at my jokes. Tickles the back of my neck. Wraps her legs around me....

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*sigh*

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*wha-*...huh ... OK, I'm back now ...

When she is turned on and really into whatever she's doing with a guy - kissing, sucking, or fucking hot & heavy.

My Wife Is The Most Sexy When She Is Gettin Ready For One Of Our Strip Poker Parties With Our Frineds, And Espically When We Play Kiss Or Massage Strip Poker And He Has To Either Kiss Or Massage The Newely Expoled Area Of The Guy She Just Removed An Artilce Of Clothes From

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Teresa is sexy when she dances alone. At times she gets into a zone when dancing and the rest of the world drops away, just her and the music and she moves.. oh god, she moves like she is making love with an invisible lover. Once at a social the crowd had gone and all that remained was another couple, the DJ and I. We were talking, but the talk just faded away when she began to dance and we were all speechless until the end of the song. A picture I will treasure forever.

Ted

I love to see her get slutty with another couple. Love to watch her go down on either one of them as well as get excited watching a guy or girl pleasure her. Enjoy seeing her suck another guy's cock and her looking over at me watching her. So hot!

Alright, this the corny one. When she is taking care of our kids. Nothing is more important as this one. All other pursuits seem trivial.

The one sight that I can always remember is after watching her cum on the end of her lover's tongue, I watched him slide up and start rubbing his cock over the outside of her pussy. She reached down and ran the head between the lips to lubricate him and then brought both hands up to either side of his face and pulled him close and whispered, "put it in". She then continued holding his face in her hands as he entered her. I watched her melt and I'm pretty sure he enjoyed it too

We had our first MMF Saturday night and I must say my wife was most sexy just after the guy penetrated her with his cock. She wrapped her legs around him, locked her legs, and moaned loudly as he fucked her.

Words can't explain how sexy she looked. God it was hot!

Scott & JoAnn