Lifestyle cruise playroom etiquette

We’re going on our first Bliss Cruise next April (2020). We know there will be a couple of big play areas on board. If we see a couple or couples playing and they look good to us, is it “allowable” to ask if it’s OK to join them or are those things pretty much always negotiated before the action starts? Technically speaking, we can certainly ask and they can say yes or no ... but is it a breach of accepted protocol to even ask? Thanks to any and all who reply.

In a play room situation, asking to join is good. Its also good to just look for signs. If a couple are watching us and we want company, Mrs Doc has been known to simply reach out to the guy or woman and gently guide him/her to join us. In that situation eye contact and welcoming body language are a must. Pay attention. If you're unsure ask.

You can certainly ask others to join you in the playroom. I prefer to find playmates earlier and go to the playroom with them. But that’s not always possible. By the way, we will be on that cruise, too. Just got off the last April Bliss cruise.

I agree, it’s nice to “get to know” someone earlier so you get some chat in, see them in the light and learn just a bit about them. But, we have been approached many a time in the play room by someone wanting to join us; it’s quite normal.

It may be easier to get people to join in the playroom. Getting people to go there with you is fraught with peril. The dreaded four way match, people who you think play don’t, etc.

Hi we will attend the cruise.also that is our first time to.PM we if ok!

When we head into a playroom and my partner and I (or just me if she's busy elsewhere) see someone we'd like to play with, we watch them for a little while. The best thing is to make eye contact, you get a vibe if they're open to being joined. If I get the feeling they are, I approach her (them) and ask, "May I?" If she (they) say something that approximates yes, or their body language is approving, I'll jump in slowly. Perhaps I'll offer a kiss to the woman, feel her breast. My wife does the same thing with the male.

If they don't object at that point, it's off to the races until I hear the word 'no'.

To Nc_senior have your reply.but still no premission to reply to you.

Nc_senior Thanks again for reply.since I’m new member in this site that I can only reply to you after 7days(one of the rules?).I will come to you after that which will be 5th Oct.

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