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    Hello all...weíre doing our research on this, but was hoping to get input from those of you with experience. My wife and I are looking to go to one of the 2 Desire resorts next March, but donít know which one is the best fit for what weíre looking for...weíre a relatively fit married couple (19yrs) in our 40s...not in the LS, but have experienced hot voyeurism/exhibitionism on a day/night pass at Hedo (again, not in LS but wife did arrange a nice wife/wife session in the Romp Room that I enjoyed watching...something she also tried in high school apparently) and four night stay at Caliente in Tampa...we like to stay on the fringes of the LS, but love interacting with people...donít want to be surrounded by ďsenior swingersĒ (no offense, but weíre sure to get there someday!&#128521, but also donít want to be around immature hard bodies either! The limited chances we get to take vacation, we like to treat ourselves well at nice resorts and restaurants...we like to party, dance and drink, so definitely want a fun vibe wherever we decide to go. Any tips/advice would be greatly appreciated.

    Thanks,
    J

    PS completely irrelevant to my original question, but Iíd also like to hear from any women who were initially reluctant to participate in the LS as to what finally pushed them over the edge. Iím not trying to convince my wife of anything, as for me it HAS to be on her terms completely. Iím just curious what various couplesí tipping point might have been!


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    We’ve been to each Desire once about four and five years ago. We felt RM was younger and had more LS activity. Pearl had nicer facilities and food, but an older crowd and less LS activity. Friends who have been there since confirm our view. You could spend a few days at each or visit the other one. They are geographically minutes apart by car.

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    Even at RM, some low percentage, like 10 or 20% any given day are not swingers, just nudist. When you start talking with them, they politely let you know so you don’t have false expectations of them. Pearl is nice but both are heads and shoulders above Hedo, and because Pearl is more expensive, I think it gets an older crowd, and thus maybe there is a little less LS or maybe it’s done in a less obvious way, i.e., not at the hot tub at th 1am orgy.

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    It all depends on who is there the time you are there. There are times when people say RM is the younger crowd, then there are times where Desires is the younger crowd. Bottom line is either find a board (not mentioning any names because I'm not sure if it's allowed but a search should do you) that has people who are already going to each and see if you find a group that you feel more comfortable with. Either way, you can't go wrong with either location and you WILL enjoy yourselves.
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