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My boyfriend and I are relatively new to swinging . We would like to find swinger resorts or weekends in the NY area, or within a 2 hour drive of the NY area.

 

Any information would be greatly appreciated

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Look into Sunny Rest resort in Pa. A nudist resort but swinger friendly. Gunnison Beach in NJ is nudist, but again, many of the nudists are Swingers.

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Is there still a nude beach at Robt. Moses?

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I went last summer and it was still there, it’s still a long walk to get there, but I like it. There were more younger high school types the few times I went. I hooked up with a guy ev n younger than me. I took him to the same sand dunes where I first hooked up with a couple, and did him there. Another time I was sucking a guy in the quieter part of the beach when some youngish nudists walked by, but I kept sucking.

Don’t know if you really had sex on the beach but we never saw any sexual activity. Gunnisons is a clothing optional beach not a sex beach. While I am not going to say sex acts never happen I will warn you that the Federal Rangers are on the constant look out for possible lewd acts. The biggest lewd act are guys playing with themselves. I have heard of some gay contact though I never saw it. The beach is federal lands. You may think it’s fun to have sex on the beach, you should be aware that if you are caught you may be screwing up your life. It will cost you plenty for a lawyer and may end up with a big fine. You can go to prison for lewdness though I doubt a first time offender would.

From your posts you seem very sexual for someone your age. You have experienced more than most on here. Just wondering.

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Don’t know if you really had sex on the beach but we never saw any sexual activity. Gunnisons is a clothing optional beach not a sex beach. While I am not going to say sex acts never happen I will warn you that the Federal Rangers are on the constant look out for possible lewd acts. The biggest lewd act are guys playing with themselves. I have heard of some gay contact though I never saw it. The beach is federal lands. You may think it’s fun to have sex on the beach, you should be aware that if you are caught you may be screwing up your life. It will cost you plenty for a lawyer and may end up with a big fine. You can go to prison for lewdness though I doubt a first time offender would.

From your posts you seem very sexual for someone your age. You have experienced more than most on here. Just wondering.

 

I haven’t been to Gunniston since my wife and I moved from Monmouth County more than a decade ago. But in the 1990s we went there several times each summer. I don’t know what it’s like these days, and it’s true that the federal park is well patrolled (in those days at least, often by rangers on horseback.) I’m not sure what would get you in more trouble, genital touching, etc. or walking into the ecologically fragile dunes. But it was (and I’m sure still is today) strictly against the rules to engage in overtly sexual behavior. (There were plenty of swingers there and pickup attempts were pretty common. At least We were approached several times.)

 

I mentioned in a previous post that my wife once masturbated herself to orgasm there with a small batter-powered vibrator. But we were out at the south end of the beach far enough away from others that they’d really have had to been looking hard to see what she was up to. I did sometimes see gay men getting pretty physical, including lengthy full-body standing embraces with heavy open-mouth kissing. Some people pitched tents and I saw couples getting into them, I assumed for discrete sex. The only thing I ever saw that seemed really dodgy was a couple — a young woman and and older man — who were right along the path from the beach entrance, headed south toward the nude half, barely down past the sign that identifies it as such. They were literally a few feet off the path, on their sides, engaging in mutual oral. I enjoy voyeurism and exhibitionism — it’s one of the great things about same-room sex parties — but I was put off by this display because it was being inflicted on people who had negative interest in seeing that behavior, at least in that context, as well as those of us who would have found it a bit titilating.

 

Again, I can’t speak to what happens at Gunnison these days, but I would note that any sort of lewdness conviction today is very likely to get your name on at sex-offenders registry and I expect that would make your life pretty miserable and might well make it tough from an employment perspective.

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We go to Gunnison regularly. Overt sex is frowned upon and you may get arrested. But we have met swing partners there. We go back to a hotel or residence.

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We go to Gunnison regularly. Overt sex is frowned upon and you may get arrested. But we have met swing partners there. We go back to a hotel or residence.

 

It’s more than frowned upon. I would say that many swingers are there. Smart people know that it’s easy to gosome other place after. Have you ever seen overt sex at the shore? We are there to have a fun day just that we do it without clothes

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