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Hi,

 

I'd like to introduce my girlfriend Elaine and I. We not swingers in the true sense of the word because we're not into swapping. We're just into being watched and we're thinking of trying a nude resort that allows sex. We don't know what to expect at all, and we're very nervous.

 

Previously, we've done a wide variety of public sex experiments. We've fucked in cars, on beaches, in parks, on public streets, in parking garages, etc. etc. For the most part nobody has really seen us up close. I guess it is the thrill of the risk of being caught that drives us. For example, just last week we went to a large open park at dusk. The moon was full, the temp was a sultry 85, and only a few cars were parked. We parked our car on a large public street, got naked, and jumped out of the car and walked into the park. It is pretty cool to be naked in a public place like that. So we walked all around, and ever once in a while Elaine would kneel down to suck me. Eventually we came to a big open baseball diamond, and we walked right into center field. Elaine sucked me good and I was rock hard by then. I laid on my back and Elaine sat down on my cock. Elaine really loves anal sex, so I drove it up into her ass. After a while of that, I flipped her over and fucked her ass until I shot a load into her. We really love having public anal sex and we do it all the time.

 

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You have been having anal sex in public, violating the law, but are nervous about going to a place that ALLOWS public sex? :confused:

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No wild anal sex on the pool steps till after 6pm. But the play room and jacuzzi are good all day and night :kissface:

 

After 6pm, you can do it anywhere. :D

 

You will KNOW you are being watched, where I'm guessing in public, you aren't as aware of wanting anyone to watch. More likely you are kinda hoping few see you althought the thrill of being caught plays a big part in your games.

 

BTW, you are nuts to take the risk you are by walking around naked (IMO) but the worst that could happen is you get labeled a sex offender and have to register anytime you move, right?

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There are plenty of Naturist Resorts. Take a weekend off (it's only a couple of days). Go there with your lady and lounge around and enjoy yourselves.

 

When you've released your need to go naked in public (which is a very stimulating and grounding thing to do), let us know how good it was.

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I am a Premier AANR member and no nudist resort sanctioned by AANR allows sexual excitement, let alone public sex.

 

For one, most nudist resorts are family-oriented and the lifestyle doesn't permit open sexuality. Caught and the best-case scenerio is that you are kicked off the resort and blackballed (they always record your driver's license before you're allowed on the resort). Worst-case scenerio, you are detained and arrested, depending on the severity of the offense.

 

These people take their lifestyle very seriously and they will protect it against public relations flaps and political hardship.

 

A couple of years ago, a man was arrested for masturbating in a privy (for lack of a better word) while he was watching a teen group meeting at a local resort. The incident splattered over the papers, and a couple of Florida politicians ranted about how evil nudism is and it should be abolished. Ignorant public support was rallying behind these politicians because nudism = breeding ground for sexual criminals, which is far from what it actually is.

 

Get the idea?

 

Now I know there are swing resorts that allow both nudity and sex out in the open. I've been to one in Ocala and it was AWESOME.

 

But nudism is one lifestyle and swinging is another. Although many swingers are also nudists, they know better than to have sex out in the open on a nudist resort, unless they are DAMN SURE nobody can see them.

 

*cha-ching!*

 

2-cents.

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am a Premier AANR member and no nudist resort sanctioned by AANR allows sexual excitement, let alone public sex.

 

Dooode, Very well said. Mr Jeep and I travel to a few naturalist resorts in Florida and Canada, and have seen security reprimand, and expel violators who are too touchy-feely, even if it's a spouse/spouse situation. There was a male, a bit inebriated, who was harshly booted for playing "touch-volleyball" with a teen girl in the pool. No tolerance, as there should not be in those situations!! :nono:

 

As for the OP's situation... the daring and excitement of sex and nudity in public places will lead to 2 things: First, an embarrassing legal situation if you're not careful; Second, a swinger friendly vacation, where it will be acceptable. Granted, where things like that are acceptable in the open, they are no longer perceived as daring, so the excitement might not be all that. At Hedo, for example, while not a 'swinger resort', the spirit of sexuality and nudity is prevalent, and lends to a wonderfully sex-charged atmosphere and vacation for the right-minded people.

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Very well said!!!! Too many people equate one lifestyle with the other. We have been members of a nudist resort for 6 years and swinging only a few months. For us, it is best to keep the two separate.

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Maybe it is time for a swinging resort to open up in the US or Canada, something similar to Hedo only maybe a little more toned down and relaxed.

 

What would the legalities of this be in the US. Here in Canada they have only just started to turn a blind eye to the idea of on-premise clubs. Not sure how open they would be to a resort where people can walk around and fuck in public like that.

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I am a part owner in a AANR resort...NO PLAY ON THE RESORT...one of the reasons why we purchased our house outside the gates and down the road... If you were in the Texas area could give you some non-AANR clubs that are more lifestyle types. Heck take a trip to the new Desire at Cabo...

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We go to HEDO II in Jamaica every Thanksgiving (they call it Spanksgiving) Profile says you are in the Los Angeles area. Our trips have cost us anywhere from $2,700.00 to $3,100.00 (total for two, NOT EACH) from LAX. Non-stop red-eye leaves 10PM arrive at resort about 8AM gives you all day the first day, and return flight leaves on last day at 6PM so you get almost the all of the last day as well.

 

Cost is very reasonable. Two people 7 nights all food and drinks are free, The bars and places to eat are available almost 18 hours a day. All non-motorized watersports are free.

 

You can be as open as you want most of the time.

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Already a resort near them at Taboo Gardens Sea Mountain Lifestyle Resort

 

I pretty much assumed the OP KNEW of Sea Mountain since it is the easy one to find. If they are thinking of going to a family AANR resort, they are cruising for trouble.

 

Granted there are not many full adult nudist/swinger clubs but in So Cal we are lucky. :kissface:

 

BTW, I just found a post somewhere else by a poster of the same name and in that post they say they have already been to Sea Mountain.

 

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Did most of the respondents miss the OP's title, here?

 

Sex in Public - We're thinking of trying a nude resort that allows sex. :cool:

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There is a nudist resort in S. Michigan that is also a swingers resort, called Cherry Lane. My ex and I went to it a couple of yrs back, we got naked and walked the trail, picked a spot and started fucking all of a sudden we heard someone say, "nice day isn't it?" lol we turned and saw a couple walking by, I still had my cock inside her so we just said hi and kept on fucking. It was the biggest cum we have had in awhile! Cherry Lane Resort

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Our trips have cost us anywhere from $2,700.00 to $3,100.00

 

Chris and Suzanne what is reasonable to one is not to someone else. We spent recently $1,400 all inclusive, for two at a 4 + star resort in the Dominican. Heck you can have sex and fun wherever you go. For us the cost is too prohibitive just to see naked bodies.

 

As far as resorts I think people are looking for something they can just go to for the day, just like a nudist resort but one that is okay with sexual activity. Something you don't have to spend a large amount of money to be at. :)

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DeanJG said:
For example, just last week we went to a large open park at dusk. We parked our car on a large public street, got naked, and jumped out of the car and walked into the park. It is pretty cool to be naked in a public place like that. So we walked all around, and ever once in a while Elaine would kneel down to suck me. Eventually we came to a big open baseball diamond, and we walked right into center field. Elaine sucked me good and I was rock hard by then. I laid on my back and Elaine sat down on my cock. Elaine really loves anal sex, so I drove it up into her ass. After a while of that, I flipped her over and fucked her ass until I shot a load into her. We really love having public anal sex and we do it all the time.

This sounds as credible as a letter to Penthouse, but on the off chance that you really did that, let me point out--as having been previously involved in law enforcement--that being nude and engaging in sex acts at a place frequented by children will virtually guarantee full tilt prosecution. Ready for a couple months in the Century Regional Detention Facility? I can tell you right now that as a sex offender you'd be the frigging belle of the ball in there. And you were out at night? I know guys who would just loooovve to run into you and your girlfriend 'in flagrante delicto'. You and her might even live to tell the story.

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Wow! My post sure struck a nerve in a lot of people. Unfortunately, many didn't read my post carefully to find answers to most of the concerns. First, there are indeed nudist resorts that allow sex. I used the term "nude resort" because that's how they describe themselves. Yes, my girlfriend I went to one place before, but it was during a weekday and practically nobody was there. We're trying it again next month on one of their party weekend nights to get the real flavor of the place. Not knowing what to expect, yes, we're nervous. We FULLY understand the difference with traditional nudist resorts, and understand how naturists view the "nude not lewd" edict. The places we're talking about are NOT family places, and no children are allowed.

 

Secondly, our escapades in public are very controlled. We only go nude in public at night and in deserted places in "safe" neighborhoods. Certainly if we saw families and children around, duh, that's a no-go.

 

I hope to have cleared up some misconceptions. We've been doing this for nearly two years now, and have had the times of our lives.

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I understand not going to FA since they don't allow the nudity you like....but there are other clubs/parties that do allow it and there is often some great sex as well.

 

socalpleasureseekers at some parties and clubcb at all of them are okay with being nude except around the food.

 

And for sure, do go back to SMI on a Saturday. Both times we have been have been a total blast....just be sure to stay for the evening as well....the super good stuff doesn't start till after 9 or 10 pm.

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We're just into being watched and we're thinking of trying a nude resort that allows sex. We don't know what to expect at all, and we're very nervous.

 

DeanJG this is from your original post. You did not mention there that you have actually found a place just that you were thinking of trying one.

 

Now in the recent post you said:

Unfortunately, many didn't read my post carefully to find answers to most of the concerns. First, there are indeed nudist resorts that allow sex. I used the term "nude resort" because that's how they describe themselves. Yes, my girlfriend I went to one place before, but it was during a weekday and practically nobody was there.

 

A little confusing, in the first post you don't mention having been just that you want to try one. So the responses from the posters were to that comment. Now that you have clarified that point I think you also have your answer to the other question.

 

 

It seems that most of us do not know any "nudist resorts" strictly for adults that allow sex and therefore would have difficulty giving you advice on what to expect.

 

Maybe you can share where these places are or how to find them. What are they like? How do they prevent families from coming in? Do they advertise?

 

Secondly, our escapades in public are very controlled.
Odd comment as the part most people get off on about having sex in public is the possibility of being caught. You can't control who is around you or walking by at the time especially out on an open field. Personally I used to prefer to stick to inside the car or better yet van. Though once just outside a car, daylight, during a lightning storm was a real kick. ;)

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Amanda, if you are still reading this post..

 

"Chris and Suzanne what is reasonable to one is not to someone else. We spent recently $1,400 all inclusive, for two at a 4 + star resort in the Dominican. Heck you can have sex and fun wherever you go. For us the cost is too prohibitive just to see naked bodies."

 

Wow 1400 is great. did that include airfare? Our airfare is about 1200 for two as we are on the west coast.

 

Please tell all of us about the resort, I'm sure we are all interested in it.

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Yes it did include airfare....there are many last minute vacations available from Canada and the US to many destinations on the various Islands. We have been 3 times since last November, twice to the Dominican and once to Cuba never paying more than $1500 for the two of us.

 

My suggestions for the Dominican would be any of the Rui hotels, very good quality and close to all sorts of things. There is also the Bahi Principe in the Playa Grande Resort that comes highly recommended.

 

Try selloffvacations.com or itravel2000 for websites that specialize in selling off vacations. Try to book at min 2 weeks before as in the last week before a lot of hotels pull off their offers and the prices go up a bit.

 

The Dominican and Cuba are also open to topless sunbathing. They don't even give a second glance. I got so comfortable I used to go to the bar for drinks with my top off.

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Ha Ha, boy am I an idiot. Just noticed/realized you are in Canada.

 

Cuba is out for us here in the US.

 

Now I assume 1400 is $CDN still a pretty good price even when converted to $US.

 

The Dominican resorts do they put up with full nudity and fun and games among the guests without having to retreat to you rooms?

 

I will try to find the resort on the web, unless you have a link to them already.

 

Thanks

 

(are we thread drifting here board? If so I apologize)

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We have found in the nudist clubs we are members of or visited, that swing LS is usually just below the surface, and it depends on how the ownership of the club handles it. None will accept open sexual acts, that is a ticket to the gate, but after dark and in discrete locations it is tolerated and maybe in some cases allowed because they also participate in the lifestyle. So they just look the other way as long as no one complains or there are minors around.

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Hedo 2 is the place to go for nude sex. A lot on the nude beach and at the pool and hot tub. I even had sex at the bar on new years eve.

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Check out Sea mountain inn in Palm Springs area, close to you and it would be right up your alley. We are a lot like you guys and have a great time there.

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The only true resort that is a Nude resort for swing lifestyle is Sea Mountain Inn.

very clean

very classy

very cool

open every day of the year

 

Respect the Nude resorts all of them in the USA are for families - don't disturb them with swing activity. Come visit Sea Mountain Inn where you have the best of both worlds

Sea Mountain Ranch Resort and Spa Palm Springs Desert Hot Springs California

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Well we have one, and I can honestly say that people seem to be really at ease. Half are nudist and the others are lifestylers. I am a nudist during the summer but not in this chilly temp...hehehehehehehe

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If being voyeuristic is a great turn-on why not join an on-premise swingers club. You can also try Desire resort in Cancun. While the public policy is no PDA's the hot tub and the beach beds at night are rockin'.

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We went down to Desires in Cabo. We didn't do anything, but swim, sunbathe, eat, party and watch the show. I do have to say, though, that the outdoor pool-sized hot tub upstairs has the most erotic atmosphere to have sex I've ever seen. It's a class act up there.

 

One side of the pool/hot tub area is arranged with fire pits, white leather sofas, open canopy beds and slithering bodies. It was freakin' primal. Very hot, to be sure.

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Dooode said:

 

"Now I know there are swing resorts that allow both nudity and sex out in the open. I've been to one in Ocala and it was AWESOME."

 

I would like to know where in Ocala it is and how to contact them.

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But nudism is one lifestyle and swinging is another. Although many swingers are also nudists, they know better than to have sex out in the open on a nudist resort, unless they are DAMN SURE nobody can see them.

 

*cha-ching!*

 

2-cents.

 

That is an absurd statement. No naturists swing and no swingers are naturists? Yeah, right. What *should* be noted is that people can be naturists and/or swingers. There *must*, however, be a complete division between family areas and "adult" areas.

 

My $.02

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AskMeOk said:
That is an absurd statement. No naturists swing and no swingers are naturists? Yeah, right. What *should* be noted is that people can be naturists and/or swingers. There *must*, however, be a complete division between family areas and "adult" areas.

 

My $.02

 

Back up and think about what was being said... different lifestyles for different times... you will find nudist, naturists, and swingers all at nudist clubs, lifestyle clubs, and even naturist clubs. I have been been to all three types many times, so get with it, that all the point of the notes was. :nono: slamming folks. We are all friendly here, nice, cool, and mostly horny too! :cool:

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We have been to both Naturist parks and to Clothing Optional Resorts. We love being naked. While at a Naturist Beach (Haulover Beach Miami) or a Naturist Park we observe the NO SEX rules.

 

While at a Clothing Optional Resort (Hedo and Desire Cancun are both Clothing Optional) we respect the rules and do not have sex in places they do not alow sex.

 

Hedo II lets people get away with just about anything on the CO side pool and hot tub area. We have taken part in several activities there.

 

Desire Spa and Resort (Far better than Hedo in our opinion) does not alow sex on the beach beds or in the pool but you may engage freely in and around the rooftop hot tub. That place is off the chain at 4:00 in the afternoon and again at 10:00 at night.

 

We stress that the OP take a vacation to one of the two Lifestyle Friendly resorts to fulfill their fantasies.

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Sun Aura in Roselawn Ind. is very swingers friendly as is Cherry Lane in Michigan. Also at Riverboart Nudist Club near Tampa.

 

Been to all three - actually kind of "grew up" at Sun Aura. Went there as a kid with my family when it was called Zorro Nudist park, then kept going when it was bought by Dick Drost and became Naked City. I was in my late teens when it became Naked City and met my ex wife there at an orgy in the club's "roundhouse.' Me and my current GF still go there and I also go there solo. There is plenty of open sex - straight and gay - back at the sand dunes, behind the lake through the woods, as well as on the trails. Also, we sometimes rent a cottage, turn on a light inside at night and then get busy for the people who gather outside in the dark to watch...

 

By the way, Sun Aura should not be confused with Ponderosa Nudist Resort. Ponderosa is more family oriented, except for one weekend every year when it hosts the Nudes a Poppin contest. Ponderosa is a couple miles down the road from Sun Aura.

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"We have been to both Naturist parks and to Clothing Optional Resorts. We love being naked. While at a Naturist Beach (Haulover Beach Miami) or a Naturist Park we observe the NO SEX rules.

 

While at a Clothing Optional Resort (Hedo and Desire Cancun are both Clothing Optional) we respect the rules and do not have sex in places they do not alow sex.

 

Hedo II lets people get away with just about anything on the CO side pool and hot tub area. We have taken part in several activities there.

 

Desire Spa and Resort (Far better than Hedo in our opinion) does not alow sex on the beach beds or in the pool but you may engage freely in and around the rooftop hot tub. That place is off the chain at 4:00 in the afternoon and again at 10:00 at night.

 

We stress that the OP take a vacation to one of the two Lifestyle Friendly resorts to fulfill their fantasies."

 

Actually, if you're discreet, you can have some fun on Haulover. The lifeguards leave late in the afternoon and that's when the action takes place. There's a website that features videos of some of the action. Its a pay website but you can search "voyeurchamp" on pornhub, xhamster, or tubegalore and it will pull up some of the videos. Most of the beach videos were filmed on Haulover.

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Farcanal said:
Google : Dogging" and see what comes up ;)

 

When we were stationed in Germany, my GF talked us into trying dogging. it was a great turn-on as I am very exhibitionist and enjoy being watched in almost every thing I do. My husband was there to see nothing got out of hand and he documented a lot on video and photos. I have tried it here in the states but it is not quite the same, at least not where we live.

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Looking for a place in Canada? Check out Sandy Bottoms Resort in Ontario, just a few short hours drive from Toronto and Ottawa. Both have major airports... rent a car and bang.... summer nudity and public sex!! (just not in the lounge, in hot tub/pool or on resort fabric furniture, cuz just, ewww) Many weeks this summer to chose from, with themed events.

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Also, for a Valentines weekend getaway, check out Valentines In Niagara for a complete Hotel Takeover for couples in Niagara Falls ON, Feb 1-3/19. Again, nudity and open sex, but indoors. Lots of activities, games and contests that encourage naughtiness.

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We went to Hedo 3 and had a blast. Was a total rush performing outdoors for a large audience. Finished her off with a massive cumshot that drew applause!

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