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Who is and who isn't a swinger? Is cheating swinging? What do certain terms mean to swingers?

  1. [M] What does "creepy" mean to you?

    by cplnuswing, 12-04-2015 08:26 PM
    creepy, instantly, people, swinging, totally, unsettling
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 7,009
    lcmim
    05-12-2019, 12:37 PM Go to last post

  2. Terms that sound funny to swingers

    by SsHubby, 04-03-2011 10:45 AM
    swinger terminology 1 Attachment(s)
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 2,329
    the Nomads
    02-20-2019, 09:23 PM Go to last post

  3. Voyeur vs cuck holding/queening?

    by playfulchick89, 07-02-2018 11:40 AM
    confused, curious, man, things, viewed, woman
    • Replies: 3
    • Views: 1,773
    Erik13
    07-02-2018, 01:54 PM Go to last post

  4. Definition of "FIT"

    by bjersr, 06-11-2018 10:06 AM
    claim, definition, entitled, fit, lot, people, skinny, understand
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,557
    Manwhore1985
    06-29-2018, 11:47 AM Go to last post

  5. Hot wife vs. cuckold, what's the difference?

    by MarniJohn, 09-12-2017 10:04 AM
    cuckold, curious, difference, find, hotwife, hotwifing, makes, man, wife, woman
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 9,240
    yorktownvaguy
    09-25-2017, 09:27 PM Go to last post

  6. Is there such a thing as "hot husband"? Perhaps the term is different?

    by MarniJohn, 09-14-2017 08:24 AM
    applies, finally, hot, hotwife, husband, man, similar, term, thing, wondering
    • Replies: 7
    • Views: 1,473
    M1F2KTJ
    09-23-2017, 12:58 PM Go to last post

  7. [M] Friends with benefits - what does it mean to you?

    by AdventurousP, 12-23-2014 09:30 AM
    casual sex, definition, friends with benefits, fwb
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,679
    ray12
    08-15-2017, 10:19 AM Go to last post

  8. [M] Is this "soft swinging"?

    by DC72, 06-05-2017 04:36 PM
    club, guy, masturbate, possibly, soft, strippers, swingers, swinging, touching, women
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,778
    EastInWest
    06-08-2017, 09:48 AM Go to last post

  9. Does "777" have any significance?

    by jayhawk_couple, 01-02-2017 05:25 AM
    curious, lifestyle, person, significance, terms
    • Replies: 6
    • Views: 1,997
    Fundamental Law
    01-04-2017, 07:16 PM Go to last post

  10. [M] Do you play with cheaters?

    by enhancer, 04-21-2016 11:19 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    cheaters, cheating, knowing, play, spouse, standards, swinging
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 6,541
    NWAtlSwing
    07-05-2016, 05:58 PM Go to last post

  11. [M] Swinging vs Swapping

    by Shore2Please, 03-28-2016 06:06 AM
    called, couples, group, partner, room, sex, swapping, swinging
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 1,795
    Alura
    04-03-2016, 02:40 PM Go to last post

  12. [A] Wife cheated. What to do and where to go from here?

    by MasterHack2007, 12-24-2015 10:46 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    boyfriend, continued, due, hickey, home, lie, play, time, told, years
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 11,965
    GoldCoCouple
    01-20-2016, 10:59 AM Go to last post

  13. [M] What are commitments in swinging?

    by cplnuswing, 12-19-2015 10:38 AM
    argument, aspect, commitment, decisions, swinging, wanted, word
    • Replies: 4
    • Views: 849
    sunbuckus
    12-21-2015, 11:54 PM Go to last post

  14. She's torn up she's labeled Vanilla

    by Aquarius, 11-30-2015 12:56 PM
    answered, fun, kink, positive, quiz, vanilla
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 4,204
    cplnuswing
    12-03-2015, 09:56 PM Go to last post

  15. [M] Love and swinging

    by Mbgdallas, 10-28-2015 03:26 PM
    fit, hear, ideas, lifestyle, love, thinking, type, wanted
    • Replies: 7
    • Views: 2,358
    couplers
    11-06-2015, 07:11 PM Go to last post

  16. [A] Lies, building trust again, and the Lifestyle

    by NenaPR, 06-21-2015 05:22 PM
    claims, conversations, hurt, lifestyle, numerous, sexting, things, trust, young swingers
    • Replies: 5
    • Views: 3,780
    GoldCoCouple
    06-23-2015, 10:52 AM Go to last post

  17. [M] What constitutes a gangbang?

    by couplers, 07-19-2014 03:45 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    gangbangs, swinger terminology
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 8,254
    chiccouplexx
    05-17-2015, 06:12 AM Go to last post

  18. [M] Terminology: why use the term swinger?

    by Androgynygrl, 12-08-2014 09:04 AM
    definitions, labels, swingers, swinging, terminology
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 1,894
    M1F2KTJ
    01-16-2015, 03:31 PM Go to last post

  19. [A] I found out she was fucking other swinger guys behind my back

    by Island guy, 11-07-2014 08:49 AM
    cheating
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 8,669
    alphaplaycpl
    11-19-2014, 03:04 PM Go to last post

  20. [A] Cheating and rule breaking has destroyed my trust

    by GregandLori, 08-10-2014 09:18 AM
    cheating, relationship issues, rules and boundaries
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 10,586
    sunbuckus
    08-14-2014, 06:59 PM Go to last post

  21. [A] I am at a loss over his emotional infidelity

    by FunWife, 05-02-2014 05:31 PM
    cheating, emotional monogamy
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 6,035
    Guy1964
    05-23-2014, 04:47 PM Go to last post

  22. Unhappy [A] Is cheating just as prevalent with swingers as in vanilla life??

    by V&C in NYC, 01-14-2014 05:27 PM
    cheating
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 5,986
    V&C in NYC
    01-18-2014, 02:32 PM Go to last post

  23. [A] Threesome with vanilla friend - good idea?

    by robinandmarion, 10-01-2013 05:09 PM
    cheating, vanilla swingers
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 7,326
    mauijanedoe
    10-24-2013, 04:22 PM Go to last post

  24. [A] Are swingers still monogamous?

    by DnM69, 09-21-2013 07:36 PM
    monogamy
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 4,444
    JustAskJulie
    10-02-2013, 11:14 AM Go to last post

  25. Post [A] What is cheating when you're a swinger?

    by incommunicado, 06-29-2002 10:56 AM
    3 Pages •
    1 2 3
    cheating, deception, dishonesty, morality, swinger terminology
    • Replies: 53
    • Views: 14,839
    Sirramm
    08-28-2013, 11:01 AM Go to last post

  26. [A] Thrown for a loop by wife's deception

    by xyzabc123, 07-16-2013 10:19 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    cheating, relationship issues
    • Replies: 42
    • Views: 7,649
    xyzabc123
    07-30-2013, 01:31 PM Go to last post

  27. [A] I'm having an emotional relationship with the male half of a swinging couple

    by MissB, 07-06-2013 09:41 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    cheating, emotional monogamy, emotions
    • Replies: 32
    • Views: 8,711
    funcoupledayton
    07-25-2013, 10:47 AM Go to last post

  28. [A] What does "Open-Minded" mean?

    by JustAskJulie, 03-02-2013 09:49 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    open minded, swinger terminology 1 Attachment(s)
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 4,302
    JustAskJulie
    04-16-2013, 01:41 PM Go to last post

  29. questions about the right lingo to describe what we want

    by Mr&MrsV, 03-04-2013 12:08 AM
    same room, soft swinging, swing-curious
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,854
    Mr&MrsV
    03-12-2013, 07:15 PM Go to last post

  30. How do you deal with a 20 year old mistake

    by oldaffair, 02-18-2013 11:21 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    relationship issues
    • Replies: 36
    • Views: 5,237
    Fundamental Law
    03-01-2013, 08:39 PM Go to last post

  31. What is D and W?

    by Unregistered, 07-30-2012 06:20 AM
    swinger terminology
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,379
    mrbigmrssexy
    07-31-2012, 09:40 PM Go to last post

  32. [A] Swinger Venn Diagram

    by JustAskJulie, 07-11-2012 03:32 PM
    what is swinging 1 Attachment(s)
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,377
    JustAskJulie
    07-12-2012, 05:48 PM Go to last post

  33. [A] Are they swingers, and am I cheating if I play with them?

    by stcharles, 03-25-2012 01:01 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    are they swingers, cheating, co-worker
    • Replies: 33
    • Views: 8,034
    interested-05
    06-19-2012, 05:41 PM Go to last post

  34. Question [A] Wife cheated and now wants to swing. Is this really how swinging works?

    by Timeforus, 02-19-2012 06:49 PM
    swinging versus cheating
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 2,949
    Just Passing By
    03-14-2012, 05:14 AM Go to last post

  35. [A] Separated but not divorced - is he single?

    by funcoupledayton, 02-21-2012 10:07 AM
    separation
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,907
    dayhiker
    02-25-2012, 08:52 AM Go to last post

  36. Unhappy [A] We have lost our trust

    by needhelp, 12-18-2011 07:18 PM
    cheating, marital difficulties, trust
    • Replies: 4
    • Views: 1,889
    JustAskJulie
    12-19-2011, 03:33 PM Go to last post

  37. [A] Definition of "shared wife"

    by Stevef8, 11-17-2011 08:05 AM
    cuckold, hot wife, shared wife, swinger terminology
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 5,290
    Tobacouple
    12-01-2011, 06:32 PM Go to last post

  38. [A] Single male hiding swinging involvement from girlfriend

    by shrevecouple, 09-27-2011 08:42 AM
    dating, discretion, dishonesty, false advertising, past experiences
    • Replies: 23
    • Views: 3,162
    Miss_Piggy
    11-20-2011, 02:13 PM Go to last post

  39. [A] Are we swinging?

    by psycdr, 08-20-2010 11:47 PM
    3 Pages •
    1 2 3
    coworker, hot wife, open marriage, polyamory, swinger terminology
    • Replies: 61
    • Views: 16,175
    jovichick
    11-18-2011, 09:04 PM Go to last post

  40. [A] Gave wife hall pass and she used it but won't give me permission

    by BaronV.S., 10-27-2011 08:07 PM
    cheating
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,948
    Gordo
    10-30-2011, 09:30 PM Go to last post

  41. [A] So what exactly does "female is bicurious" mean?

    by sherwood, 07-12-2011 11:57 PM
    bicurious, bisexuality, swinger terminology
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 3,247
    funfrkycpl
    08-16-2011, 10:14 AM Go to last post

  42. [A] Cheating to swing?!

    by Dont.Stop, 07-28-2011 02:22 PM
    cheating
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 3,291
    sweet_tna
    08-07-2011, 10:53 PM Go to last post

  43. [A] Cheating wives at swingers clubs

    by Navras7, 07-17-2011 04:26 PM
    cheating
    • Replies: 6
    • Views: 2,244
    Chicup
    07-18-2011, 02:53 PM Go to last post

  44. [A] More successful by pretending to cheat?

    by iapr, 04-05-2009 10:18 PM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    cheating, deception, role playing
    • Replies: 31
    • Views: 6,270
    Jake1178
    06-26-2011, 12:16 AM Go to last post

  45. [A] Lied to and wondering if I should bother

    by live4themusic, 05-27-2011 03:27 AM
    bareback, cheating, condoms, dishonesty, honesty, trust
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 8,973
    JustAskJulie
    06-14-2011, 04:01 PM Go to last post

  46. [A] Why are non-swingers 'Vanilla'?

    by judax, 04-02-2011 10:54 AM
    swinger terminology, vanilla
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 2,692
    Lascivious L&L
    04-27-2011, 05:03 AM Go to last post

  47. [A] Is our single male friend hiding something?

    by Lyczewski1983, 03-25-2011 09:26 AM
    red flags, single males
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 4,057
    Lyczewski1983
    04-18-2011, 09:07 AM Go to last post

  48. [A] A little help here before I cheat on my girlfriend

    by Nightmare29445, 03-14-2011 01:06 AM
    cheating, conservative, jealousy
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 3,673
    Learning
    04-11-2011, 10:53 AM Go to last post

  49. [A] Singles who won't admit why they can't host

    by MN Tom, 01-20-2011 08:24 AM
    2 Pages •
    1 2
    cheating, deception, single but married
    • Replies: 27
    • Views: 5,338
    MN Tom
    02-16-2011, 01:18 PM Go to last post

  50. [A] What do couples mean by "get together again soon"?

    by bjersr, 02-02-2011 12:57 PM
    attached, frequency, friendships, repeat, swinger terminology
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 3,037
    JustAskJulie
    02-12-2011, 01:21 PM Go to last post
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