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    Hi guys, My wife and I have a regular couple that we meet up with and over the past six months we have started not to use condom in our play sessions. We are comfortable with the fact that they are our only full swap partners and vice versa.

    I do enjoying cumming inside both Heather my wife and Marie as do they enjoy the feeling of taking mine or Jan's load. I also enjoy fucking them when Jan has already cum inside as the warm and wetness make it even more pleasurable. I have on occasions eaten the girls out after I have cum in them and last weekend during a session I went down on Maria after Jan had filled her. I am little confused by this as I enjoyed it immensely, something I didn't think I would.

    I would be interested to hear others views.


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    To me it sounds like you 4 have reached a new level of intimacy. At first, playing without condoms was probably a little taboo and added excitement. Congratulations on getting to that point.
    Enjoying something like what you wrote can come as a shock as it is associated with 'gay'. I'm sure the thought "If I like eating cum, am I gay?" has been in your head. Nope, just enjoying a sexual and emotional relationship with close friends that you are very comfortable with. Stop worrying and enjoy this time! Embrace the change and new open mind.

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    I agree, everyone involved are consenting adults and all are enjoying themselves, so if you have discovered that something feels good even though you didn't think it would, then don't worry so much about the why, just relax and enjoy.

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    You 4 seem very normal to my wife and me. Enjoy it to the fullest and don't try to over think it.

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    My husband enjoys the same thing and I don't think there's anything wrong with it. I've known plenty of other men who also like it. It's playful, erotic, and intimate. We all have our kinks, and as long as you enjoy it and get pleasure from it, I say stop worrying and happy eating!

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    It is one of the advantages of having regular partners or doing friends or even relatives. Naturally, there are disadvantages, too.

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    Thanks to all for your comments it's good to know that people are very supportive.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BRIZZA73 View Post
    Hi guys, My wife and I have a regular couple that we meet up with and over the past six months we have started not to use condom in our play sessions. We are comfortable with the fact that they are our only full swap partners and vice versa.

    I do enjoying cumming inside both Heather my wife and Marie as do they enjoy the feeling of taking mine or Jan's load. I also enjoy fucking them when Jan has already cum inside as the warm and wetness make it even more pleasurable. I have on occasions eaten the girls out after I have cum in them and last weekend during a session I went down on Maria after Jan had filled her. I am little confused by this as I enjoyed it immensely, something I didn't think I would.

    I would be interested to hear others views.
    Just curious, who initiated going bareback, you or your wife?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chiccouplexx View Post
    It is one of the advantages of having regular partners or doing friends *or even relatives*. Naturally, there are disadvantages, too.


    Emphasis mine.


    Wait a damn minute....



    WTF

    Seriously?
    It would be funny, but.....


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    I caught that. And I also wondered what that meant.

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    I read that as "in-laws". I'm assuming that's what chiccouplexx meant.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Gab32421 View Post
    Just curious, who initiated going bareback, you or your wife?
    It was actually Marie our dutch friend. We had, the 4 of us talked about our previous sex partners and that we had a good clean history. Then during a play session Marie said that if i wanted and Heather was okay with it i could fuck her without the condom. I didn't cum in her though at that point (In heather mouth if i remember ) The next again time we where fucking though, she ask me to cum in her. I looked over at Heather, who was getting eaten out by Jan and by the way she started to respond i realised it would also be a turn on for her. So that was it. After Marie and i had finished Jan and Heather were still at it. Her sucking on his cock. She looked over to me and said that she wanted to ride him. I realised she meant bareback and i just smiled and reach over and Kissed her. Then she lowered herself on his cock and started to ride him like hell. It wasn't long before they both started to cum and i could see that Jan was loving the fact he was going to shoot inside my wife and also that Heather was eager for it. It was a wonderful night as we fucked again, me Marie and Jan my wife knowing that we now had no restrictions.

    The first time i entered my wife after Jan had cum in her was a while later but was also amazing experience.

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    yes, relatives what's the story there?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BRIZZA73 View Post
    yes, relatives what's the story there?
    In-laws was what passed my mind at the time.

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    relatives? that sounds even sweeter. it's getting them to accept that is the bigger problem. as for condoms, neither me nor my wife enjoy sex with condom. it's been a worrying thing for us, particularly when we are yet to experience a session, so far

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    I am single living with my boyfriend. I have been on birth control since my teens. When first going on BC I was pretty free to what the guy wanted. I didn't advertise that I was on birth control so most guys used condoms. The same thing in college but there if it was our first or second date all men used. Now being with just one man we of course are passed that safety issue until our recent sex encounter with my girlfriend. Being we didn't have condoms none were used.

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    We use condoms religiously (I love using that word in regard to our hobby) if we play at Trapeze. Otherwise, our vetting process has proven better than the governments and we go bareback with select friends. Our condom use has decreased as we've refined our selection process over the years. Also, we are past reproductive age as are most couples we meet so, other than fear of disease, there is no real reason to require their use. Sex with friends is better bare.


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    Sex is better bare, but many people have HSV and/or HPV and they either do not know it or will not tell you about it. Condoms are not totally effective against these viruses, but they improve your chances. All due respect to others' preferences and practices, but we are yet to see one of these little critters in our vetting process, but we know people who have encountered them. A large percentage of the population have these viruses, probably higher among swingers. We just like to be realistic.

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    Good for you!!

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    Don't use.

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    thanks again to all who have responded. Heather and I are very grateful for the support. We have only just driven Jan and Marie to the airport after they have been over since Thursday. Needless to say it was an amazing weekend and not a condom in sight.

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