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  1. #76

    Default re: Bareback rule of thumb?

    I'd say... HELL NO.

  2. #77

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    Quote Originally Posted by funcoupledayton View Post
    I didn't read the whole thread since it is more than 12 years old, but I will say rural areas can be very high risk for hiv. Indiana community's HIV outbreak a warning to rural America
    I stand corrected. Thanks for the info.

  3. #78

    Default re: Bareback rule of thumb?

    Hard rule: condoms for penetrative sex. Would we play with others who didn't have that rule and did play bareback on occasion? In general, no. I'd have to ask some pointed questions and decide based on the answers and my estimation of their honesty. As for oral without barrier protection, it depends on who we're dealing with.

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    Default re: Bareback rule of thumb?

    Quote Originally Posted by onotanotherswm View Post
    . . . be ready to show playmates your "papers".
    Papers? What papers? My wife has had prescriptions for tests from her OB/GYN and I from from my primary care when I have described symptoms. On no occasion has anybody offered or supplied papers. Results of tests are conveyed verbally.

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    Default re: Bareback rule of thumb?

    There is no HPV test for males. Along with HSV, probably the most transmitted infections. Condoms not totally effective. If you play, you should know this.

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    Default re: Bareback rule of thumb?

    We get tested privately. We do have written results. No one has ever asked to see them.


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    Default re: Bareback rule of thumb?

    If I already know them then I'll always go bareback.

    Otherwise I'll only go unprotected if I'm confident they're trustworthy. For example I'd make a single 18 year old "wanna fuck anything" type guy use a condom, but a well presented, polite, married man with his wife who probably has a family I'd be a lot more trusting of, and would probably go bareback with if he wanted to.

  8. #83

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    If we know them well enough and I mean their pasts, are comfortable with them etc... and they with us. We, the few times we have ... use condoms. Our first 3 with a friend (kind of just happened) my friend actually went bareback with my SO and she approved in the heat of the moment. Very erotic seeing his unprotected cock enter her and when he came. Otherwise use protection...
    Quote Originally Posted by Unregistered View Post
    Anyone got a rule of thumb about when to go bareback with another couple?

    We're both D/D free and get tested yearly but don't mind going more often to get tested. Pregnancy is not an issue with either of us: vasectomy and tied tubes.

  9. #84

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    Common sense tells you there is the right time to have sex with someone without protection. That’s common sense. Unfortunately common sense doesn’t come into play in the heat of the moment. Even after our first swap and it was with a couple we just met we swore we would never risk this again, until we risked it again. I blame those times on that it was spontaneous and we didn’t have condoms. I don’t have an answer for the reason I just had a night with someone I didn’t know and we didn’t use protection.

  10. #85

    Default Re: Bareback rule of thumb?

    Always play protected unless you really really really know the other person / people well. Our first threesome was with an old friend and I knew his sexual past. My SO was ok with him and wanted him finishing in her.

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    Default Re: Bareback rule of thumb?

    The sad thing about HSV and HPV is that people that you know well and like very much can get it. We won’t play with known HSV carriers even with condoms. If a friend gets HPV, we think of non-intercourse activities until they clear it. The problem is that most people who have these viruses don’t know it or won’t tell you.

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