Couple swinging with a single guy

I had my first experience with a single guy recently. My husband encouraged me and kept telling me he really wanted to watch me with a single guy. So one night at the club, I picked out a guy who was hanging out by himself, (really cute too!), started talking with him, and ended up having incredible sex that night. It was really really great!! My husband only watched, then fucked me like there was no tomorrow after the other guy! It was so great, I even let the guy cum inside me. (well, we were both ready to cum at the same time, i wasn't about to make him pull out!)

My question is-- is he wierd or something? He had no jealousy or regrets, it really turned him on. We are very new to this, we "played" with only 1 couple before, and it was only oral.

Lucky you! Sounds like you all had a good time - nothing wrong with that! This doesn't sound "weird" to me...but it might not be for everyone. As long as you are all ok with it and it works for you, then that's fantastic. Enjoy and have fun!

~SS

Nothing get me hornier than watching some guy fuck my wife!!! If that is "weird" then thats OK with me!! The only thing I enjoy more is watching SEVERAL guys fuck her. Then its my turn!!

my wife is my favorite porn star so why wouldn't i wanna watch her get taken good

he did the right thing no need to get upset i hope we can have onother 3some with the same results as you 2 thanks

We've had a single guy friend who joins us on average of once a week. I love to watch my wife writhing in pleasure. Our friend is very respectful and nice and we have a realtionship with him outside the bedroom as well. He's a good friend. We look for couples and the elusive single female as well, but this is still a lot of fun for us.

He is not weird at all. I only recently did this. I wasnt sure how I would feel, but I thought it was great. We fucked really good after it happened.

It was with a friend, not a stranger. But I think we might go out and do what you guys did with a stranger.

There are a lot of guys out there who love to watch their wives.

You're hubby is not weird at all, and either are you. There is something very primal about having sex with a woman right after she's had sex with someone else. I know I love it, and I can't really put my finger on why either. It's just a huge turn-on.

Glad to hear it all worked the way you wanted it too! Next time make a JulieK sandwich and get all the attention at once.

Mr. WS

Susan here: There are many social and psychological dynamics. For the man, he's reclaiming his woman and reconnecting. For the woman, it's a reconnection and communication that sex with another man has not effected her relationship. Then, there's just the fun of watching sex, getting laid, etc. There's been studies confirming that observing something is almost as good in the mind as actually doing it. This would explain the thrill of everything from porn to sporting events to movies. So, for a man to watch his wife have sex, then have sex with her himself, it's a total 'double dipping'' rush. Frankly, you can analyze this stuff to death, but the only quesitons are is it a positive experience for you and are you having fun. For me, there's something so powerful in that first moment when another man enters me with his wife/gf watching: permission, lust, acceptance and more distilled into a single moment of sexual intercourse. But hey, that's me and I gotta be me

Nothing wrong with meeting a single guy! That's how my and my hubby got started, its fun and it turned him on loads as well. As long as u all enjoy it and are honest and open with each other, its all about the fun

I had my first experience with a single guy recently. My husband encouraged me and kept telling me he really wanted to watch me with a single guy. So one night at the club, I picked out a guy who was hanging out by himself, (really cute too!), started talking with him, and ended up having incredible sex that night. It was really really great!! My husband only watched, then fucked me like there was no tomorrow after the other guy! It was so great, I even let the guy cum inside me. (well, we were both ready to cum at the same time, i wasn't about to make him pull out!)

 

My question is-- is he wierd or something? He had no jealousy or regrets, it really turned him on. We are very new to this, we "played" with only 1 couple before, and it was only oral.

No, there's nothing wrong with him wanting to watch someone fuck you, getting horney while watching it, or you wanting someone else inside you while he watched.

Dawn and I have engaged almost exclusively in manogamous MFM relationships for the past dozen years or so. I would watch out about letting a stranger (or newly met friend) cum inside you, though. I assume your husband knew what was in you, right? ;-) All of our long term partners must get tested for STDs before we will play unprotected. Dawn had her tubes tied, and takes birth control pills for other reasons, so pregnancy is not an issue. I trust Dawn absolutely. I know the act of a man cumming inside her is important to her satisfaction, so I have no problem with it, and enjoy watching it myself.:-) We discuss and screen the guys we invite into our bedroom activities vigorously. We have an efficiency apartment over our garage, so we invite our male partners to live there. All five invited have thus far accepted (one at a time, of course:-)). This keeps them available to service Dawn while I am at work without arousing much suspicion from the neighbors or our kids. She usually goes over to "talk" to him about something and stays for an hour or so. Then if I want to play with them in our bed when I get home, like after the kids go to bed, we can let him in through a side entrance.

It sounds like you and your husband had a lot of fun. Just know there are pitfalls and you need to be in agreement over what happens. But by all means, if both of you are cool with it, enjoy it!

Nothing wrong at all, just a man who is in a secure relationship with a woman he loves and it able to include some outside sexual activity to add a little extra spice without feeling threatened...You are definately a lucky lady.

If you are both in agreement go for it. We have done several MFM with guys we picked up in vanilla bars and are working out he details of her doing the "hot wife" thing and doing some lucky guy solo while I watch from a hidden location or listen on the cell phone.

Hi Julie K

I think we're all wierd in our own ways

But seriously, it sounds like you AND your husband had a great time. Thats what really counts at the end of the day. Good to see you both have the trust, love and respect to do it and enjoy it.

Good on ya!

The primal attraction to seeing a woman with another man, was much of why I have had the opportunity to enjoy swinging. I have yet to actually enjoy a FMF. So far my experience has always been MFM, including just watching as a spectator.

The relationships I have had, where my female partner was with another guy, left me feeling utterly driven when I was given the OK, to approach her/them. I found my hesitation to be near another naked man vanished pretty quick as well. The focus was the woman, and much of my pleasure was amplified by seeing how she reacted.

This is not weird, just fun. More times than not I would rather have a hubby do my wife than me then him... It tends to leave his wife out though. I get off is sharing her and have little desire to do someones else's wife. Mine is a Cadillac and I like to see her well driven! I like the idea that he will go home with his and mine with me. Single guys tend to be so "most" of the time for a reason. Some may be OK but we do not take that chance, seen too many jerks to bother looking for the good one thus we only play with couples.

I love to watch my wife with another man - we are relatively new to this as well. Initially, my wife was a bit weirded out by me watching, and now she tells me she loves to watch my expression as she is having sex with another man. We have very intense sex after this happens.

I think you're right on the head when you say that its all about a positive experience for everyone. Personally, I love watching my wife being pleasured and seeing her enjoy herself. Then, being able to arouse this same woman after another man has is an incredibly erotic challenge in itself, not to mention the sensory excitement! Finally, when its both of us overloading her senses, its enormously pleasurable.

We have done a mmf which was v v good fun, now want to do a ffm. It is v nice to have 2 dicks to play with, 3 i think works better than 4 ppl, just seems to fit better

I've found that the more emotionally connected the couple is.

The better the experience can be for all 3 of us.

When the mutual goal is to give and receive sexual pleasures to one another, we all generally end up an entirely breathless, and fulfilled bliss.

It's simply the best~

I LOVE when my wife fucks other guys and I encourage her to do so. She sees a couple of guys regularly and does them while I'm at work usually. I love hearing her tell me about it while I do her in the evening. Sometimes I can still taste them in her (she does not require condoms). I'm getting excited just writing about it.

I had similar questions about my wife. She seemed to enjoy it a lot more than me till I also decided to join. After the initial surprise, everything went well. Anyway, we have never tried that with single guys again.

Ed here: I've never had a bad experience watching Susan fuck. And neither has she

I love the way a thread can lie dormant for a while and then spring to life without provocation.

I haven't had the good fortune to have the mfm experience but having read the above I am encouraged to continue it's pursuit.

If someone judges that it is wierd for me to have the desire to see another man with my wife, so be it.... I won't ask them to join

Well this was actually one of my fantasies to start out with. My Queen is a sexual delicious creature with a voracious appetite for sex. I know I can (if it is possible with a womans ability to cum over and over.) satisfy her but the thought of another man being involved was a treat. It was like i had the whole thing planned out in my head and it just sprang to life before me. What a scrumptious morsel of carnal pleasure it turned out to be for all involved. It was almost like a tag team wrestling match. She barely had a chance to catch her breath between orgasms for almost two hours straight with the occasional break for water and a smoke. I highly recommend it to couples where the men in the couple is not possessive.

No weird thing going on,just a male having fun watching his wife having fun.I for one love watching Lisa with a male once in awhile,it sure get's me hot.